Weekend Escorts

[Guest Ohmsford]

I saw a previous thread about hiring escorts for overnights, but my question is for hiring an escort for the weekend. I will be attending a convention later in the summer and want to hire some companionship. Being a convention I will have to attend some meetings and workshops but in between times and at night I want someone to have a good time with. Assuming I have been with this person for a shorter time before... what is the correct protocol about the time together. If I am going to be gone for a couple of hours for a meeting do I leave the escort in the hotel room, kick him out to return at an appointed time, or what? Also if we are going to spend several nights together what about "free time" for the escort away from me or do I assume he is on call 24 hours a day during the weekend?

 

I have hired an escort for overnight so these questions didn't come up... any ideas??

[Bilbo]

Not that I have hired anyone for longer than an hour or two, but wouldn't the time you're attending meetings count as down time for the escort and so solve both problems at once?

[NY Observer]

I haven't hired an escort for a weekend, so I don't know the protocol. Here are my thoughts. When you hire for a weekend, that is for the entire weekend. If you are at meetings, then he is free and can do whatever he likes (I wouldn't think taking other appointments, especially in your room would be appropriate ). I think that time away does not entitle you to discounts on the weekend, it's not his fault you have other commitments. As far as what he should do while you're gone, I think that's a tough question. Presumably this is someone you've never met before. It would be the nice thing to do to allow him to hang out in the room if he wants to, but I can understand your concern. I think if you're going to be away for a couple of hours during the day, he should probably be able to keep himself busy. If you're going to be away for a long time (say 4-5 hours or more), I think it's somewhat inconsiderate to ask him to find places to be. Ideally, you can discuss this with him before making arrangements. It's hard to trust someone you just met. I don't blame you for your concern. Definitely lock your valuables in a hotel safe if there is one. Good luck, let us know how it works out.

 

NYO

[Guest minstrel]

I have had many weekends with escorts.

 

On a couple of occasions, I had commitmnets that took me away for an hour or two. Both times, I dropped the escort at a gym for his workout and picked him up after we were both done.

 

m.

[+ bigjoey]

i use escorts for weekends all the time. whenever i need to be away the escort can do whatever he wants. if we are away at a city that is not home to either of us, i pick a hotel with a good gym and a location near other attractions. in las vegas, new york and other big cities this is fairly easy. when i know the escort well, i have given permission for them to see other clients if i am gone long and use the room (one time in nyc i was at a hotel near the gaiety where my escort was dancing; during the week i was gone from 8:00am to about 8:00pm; the deal was he could use the room for clients until i got back but the late evening shows and nights were mine; as i had known the escort well and we had been together many times it worked well).

 

when i have escorts to my home for a weekend, i usually have them rent a car at the airport to come out to my house. i usually have to work on saturday morning or sometimes have a "can not be missed" social/family engagement; the escort is free to go to the gym or do anything he wants. i do not let the have another client at my house. the escorts often consider a weekend at my house a mini-vacation because of the free time.

 

while some clients stick like glue to the escort for the weekend, i like my personal time,too. i enjoy reading the sunday morning paper which is a solitary thing, etc. at the gym, i like to do my own thing and let the escort do his.

 

the really good escorts can pass as visiting friends or business associates; this is especially good as if i need to be gone, they can go with some of my friends and do something that is enjoyable. for example, i have been seeing jon ramsey for over 4 years every 6 weeks or so for a weekend. i have passed him off as my personal trainer(4 other people in my family have personal trainers so this is not a stretch). as a personal trainer i have taken him to family events and other social occasions(one time i took him to a small bar-b-que at a friend's house and amoung the dozen people was the governor's wife). because of his education and fine social skills, he passes beautifully. he has been coming here so long that my friends and family feel he is just another friend and are always asking him workout, bodybuilding questions. it takes a special escort to do this.

 

if you read my past posts, it is important that an escort have a brain if i am going to be with him a weekend. sex is a small part of the time together so the companionship which takes intelligence is important. social skills are important,too. respect(on both sides) for the other party is necessary for a long period of time as well as treating the escort decently. i have found that the way i treat escorts is the way they treat me in return; we both end up having good times together.

 

for me having escorts for a weekend and using the same ones makes for a relaxed time on both sides. this board gives horror stories on both sides. being a repeat customer takes away the worry of being with someone bad.

 

i pay for all expenses including airfare, car rental, cab fare, meals, gym, etc.

 

i live in a midwest city where there are no decent escorts so bringing one in is necessary. i am in the closet so i don't want to hire what little local talent is around. hiring for a weekend at home or away takes planning.

 

it is not as expensive as it sounds compared to some people who seem to hire a couple of guys a week for an hour or so; the hours add up quickly on an hourly rate. also, being with an escort for the weekend does away with the clock watcher problem an a sex session can go on a leisurly pace for a couple of hours with lots of affection, kissing, touching, etc.

 

for me, i look at an hourly session while traveling on business, as a try out for a weekend. i have not done a weekend with an escort with first meeting him first on my travels; that way we both know what we are getting and what to expect.

[Guest Ted]

When hiring for the weekend you will negotiate a rate for the weeekend, not several hours here and there. If you are not available at certain times it is only courteous to discuss arrangements with the escort before hand. My weekends haven't been business, so we've pretty much been together all the time.

I would never hire an escort for the weekend I wasn't completely comfortable with- did it once never again. I would let my regular guy alone in the room with anything and have. When we did have a safe in the room he also knew the combination.

If I was not that comfortable and was going to be tied up for extended periods I would consider separate rooms or adjoining rooms with a door you can close.

[Guest Daddy-In-Training]

For me, I need to know the person well enough to be able to trust them because they always will have a key to the room and I don't really care if they're in or out while I'm busy.

 

I make sure they know what the schedule is, and I make sure that they have enough funds to do what they want to do when I not around. If I can take breaks, I arrange for meals together.

 

For extended stays, I always take into account what they want to do and when they want to it. I been pleasantly surprised at some of things they come up with.

 

I've found that if your flexable, they tend to be.

 

-- Daddy

[Guest Erron]

On two occassions I have taken escorts with me to weekend meetings. They have been escorts that I have spent some time with prior to even asking if they would be interested in going with me. The first time I paid for the airline ticket and met the escort at the airport. He arrived about one hour after my flight. The second time the escort drove to meet me and then we flew together. On both occassions, they had a key to the room, knew my schedule, and were free to do whatever they wanted while I was away at meetings. We usually had all our meals together and had afternoons and evenings together. Since I had known both of these gentlemen prior, there was never and issue of trust. I had more fun at these meetings than any other meetings that I have attended. If you can find an escort that you trust, I would highly recommend taking one along for the weekend.