Escorts overnight

[Guest buttanovice]

I have developed relations with a few select gentlemen and am now at the point of thinking about an overnighter. I have some questions about protocol and security.

Seems the going rate is about 4 times the standard hourly rate? I assume would begin at a reasonable hour, say mid-evening and end around 9 or 10? What about meals and entertainment. Is it the client's responsibility to feed and entertain (breakfast, or dinner, pay for concerts or shows?) or is it proper just to kick back in a nice hotel room for the evening?

 

As for security and not to be paranoid, but how do you know they will be around in the am? I am a very sound sleeper (once slept through a tornado) and can vision waking to find all my clothes and possesions and gentleman gone. Even the best escorts, we contact through e-mail, pagers or cell phones and usually don't know their real names or addresses; which is also the way I wish to operate. Not untrusting, just discreet. Is it wise (possible, recommended) to mutually show id and then place jewelry, cash and id's into the room safe, with the client holding the combination, to be returned at the end of the call?

 

I want both of us to be comfortable! Let's hear also from some of the boys out there!

[Guest todd]

Overnights!

 

I've hired a number of escorts and only for overnights and I've never had the concerns you are mentioning!

First of all, yes, the fee is in addition to any outside expenses. Dinner, movie, concert...travel, of course. I typically don't expect them to spend any of there own money. They will occcasionally want to do some shopping and depending on the escort and what they're buying, I may purchase it for them or allow them to buy it themselves.

The security issue takes care of itself. DON'T PAY THEM UNTIL YOU'RE DONE! I wouldn't have even thought to put items in a safe, because I won't carry a large amount of money on me, and will get the cash the next morning at the bank. No self-respectable escort is going to leave before getting paid!

I don't own a Rolex, but if I did I might not wear that. But, I'm comfortable with credit cards, etc., and have never had a problem. Again, don't pay for anything in advance...only following completion.

My typical hours will usually range from 5:00pm til 9:00am-10:00am.

Cocktails and dinner first for me. Sometimes something else, but not often!!

[liubit]

RE: Overnights!

 

The first time I had an escort overnight, I had the same fears. My greatest concern was being ripped off during my usually VERY deep sleep. Since I don't have a safe, I actually hid lots of stuff (like silver knick knacks and the like) in a locked drawer, and I was paranoid about the whole security issue. I did know the escort's real name and address, since I had flown him over here, so I gave them to a friend of mine, asking him to use them if I didn't call him the next morning...When the escort's visit was over, I really felt that I had overdone things in that department. They make a living out of this, so most of them would NOT even consider doing stupid things like robbing the client, but that, of course, is a subjective appreciation.

 

The advice that I was given is: do not invite an escort for an extended stay if you haven't spent some time with him before. Good advice that I have never followed, though. All of my overnighters have been first-timers. Risky maybe, but it has worked out well for me. MY own advice would be: treat the guy as your date for the evening and your GUEST for the night and not only as a sex machine. Remember: he might feel almost as uncomfortable as you about the whole adventure. Sharing someone's bed can prove difficult, and this experience may be hard-earned money for the escort.

 

As far as etiquette goes, this is the pattern I have followed: my date shows up in the early evening (sevenish or so). A little conversation at home and in most cases (depending on how horny YOU and HE are), some action. Then dinner at a nice place. Back home for the REAL piece of action. Then, shower (individually or jointly) to clean off all the juices. A nightcap and then bed. What happens during the night has varied. There has been more sex in some cases (I'm always in the mood for that ), or else plain shuteye. The morning after, you both brush your teeth (morning breath can be a real turn-off :-) and, if you both feel like it (I always do), ther can be a small repeat performance. Then, it's giving him the $ and kissing goodbye, promising to do it again soon.

 

Enjoy! I know I have...

[Guest craigrc]

RE: Overnights!

 

LAST EDITED ON Apr-08-00 AT 02:54PM (CST)[p]I often see escorts on an overnight basis. I always see them in hotels, so I don't have to worry about losing any of my valuables -- I simply put everything of value in the hotel safe for the night.

 

It's my policy not to see an escort overnight unless I've met him before. Not only is this a good safety measure, but if one has never met a particular escort there is no way to know whether one would actually enjoy his company. Spending the night with an escort whose personality one does not find congenial can be a most unpleasant experience.

 

I've found that escorts have different policies on when to begin an overnight appointment. Many want to begin at 10:00 or later, which is too late for me. It's also a good idea to reach an explicit agreement beforehand on how long the escort will stay in the morning. Some want to run out at the crack of dawn, while others have no problem staying as late as you may wish. Always ask.