Escorts, what defines a "good" client?

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Very curious on what your thoughts are , what makes you like doing business with a client ? Are there certain behaviors and courtesies ( non monetary) that you like to see extended ? I know all of you have stories about the clients from hell , but talk about the clients you gladly see again . ( keeping privacy and discretion in mind).

[BlakeBenz]

My favorite clients to do business with are respectful clients. Clients who are on time. Clients who do not ask for bareback repeatedly, because one ‘no’ should be enough. Clients who do not try to take the condom off when they think you’re not looking. Clients who do not open closed doors in my home without permission. Clients who use proper greeting/introduction when contacting me. Clients who do not make racist or other ignorant uneducated comments based on opinion. Clients who genuinely care about me. Clients who ask me what they can provide for our time together (I.e, drinks, snacks, etc.) and most importantly, clients who are just simply good energy to be around!

[crushme99]

Based on what BlakeBenz has said so far, I think this thread promises to be excellent. Let's keep it coming.

Mutual respect counts for so very much. In my limited experience – admittedly only 4 occasions, and those focused on muscle worship – I have approached the provider with respect, admiration, conversation, sincere interest and, I would hope, with some good humor. Things can backfire, of course, and maybe I've just been lucky with my choices, but everything BlakeBenz wrote is what we should strive for, both client and provider alike.

[Deadlift1]

[+ Tarte Gogo]

@BlakeBenz , I find unthinkable to commit any of the sins you describe. It cannot be very difficult to be in your good books.

 

As for this one:

Clients who do not try to take the condom off when they think you’re not looking.

....I think that client who try to take off a condom without consent should be punished by law in a similar way to rapists.

Edited February 21, 2018 by Tarte Gogo

[+ Funguy]

For goodness sake, these are simply common courtesies. Anybody who can't do/not these things was simply not raised right!

 

I try to be the best example that I can be to these generous guys. And yes, at least to me they are all generous.

[BlakeBenz]

....I think that client who try to try to take off a condom without consent should be punished by law in a similar way to rapists.

 

It actually is considered sexual assault in some states and is punishable by law, I am not certain it is that way in all of the states though. Eventually we will get there. This is one of examples of why I collect my donation UP FRONT. If you pull this kind of stunt, you can count on me leaving (if it’s outcall) or being unwelcomed from my home immediately. I do not care if we are 10 minutes into our session, I don’t tolerate the disrespect. No refunds. Not sorry.

[+ peterhung85]

Very curious on what your thoughts are , what makes you like doing business with a client ? Are there certain behaviors and courtesies ( non monetary) that you like to see extended ? I know all of you have stories about the clients from hell , but talk about the clients you gladly see again . ( keeping privacy and discretion in mind).

Everybody who is willing to spend time with me in exchange of some form of gratification is a "good client".

As far as personal preferences concerned, for me this is rather simple: CC = Connection & Chemistry. Those 2 defines whether the client is someone I would gladly see again or not.

[+ occ3672]

Peter, you are the best!

[big-n-tall]

Oof, there are so many things I could write about what NOT to do. But this isn't the thread for that, lol.

 

Literally the best thing a client can do for me is ask me what I think. Some guys have a tendency to assume I'll go along with everything they say and do. I'm a pretty easygoing person, but I've had experiences with guys who just ordered me around or ignored what I was telling them (similar to what BlakeBenz was saying about guys repeatedly asking for bareback). Ask me how I'm doing some time! And if I tell you something, listen to me! Communicating so that we're both on the same page makes everything so much more comfortable, which makes our time together so much more pleasant!

 

Btw... welcome to the forum Cody.

[TruHart1]

Everybody who is willing to spend time with me in exchange of some form of gratification is a "good client".

As far as personal preferences concerned, for me this is rather simple: CC = Connection & Chemistry. Those 2 defines whether the client is someone I would gladly see again or not.

Peter, you are the best!

Peter's positive spin on everything in his life certainly is one of the things that defines him as one of the greatest escorts available right now! That he has been an escort for so long and still defines a "good client" as everybody who is willing to spend time with him in exchange for some form of gratification just proves that he has never become jaded or burnt out.

 

As for his CC = Connection and Chemistry definition, I personally found that he seems to effortlessly find those with the majority of his clients. Just take a look at his numerous excellent reviews (109 so far!) on Daddy's review site!

 

I agree. Peter, you ARE the best!

 

TruHart1

[+ nycman]

Clients who ask me what they can provide for our time together (I.e, drinks, snacks, etc.)....

Wait....I’m supposed to provide drinks and snacks?

 

That wasn’t in the manual.....

 

Just when were you fuckers planning on telling me??.

 

Jesus! I’ve been doing it wrong for years!

 

Grin

Edited February 23, 2018 by nycman

[BabyBoomer]

@Cody Converse

 

You might want to add a link to your RM ad in your signature.

 

https://rent.men/CodyConverse

 

Welcome to the forum.

 

~Boomer~

[nsguy45]

Wait....I’m supposed to provide drinks and snacks?

 

That wasn’t in the manual.....

 

Just when were you fuckers planning on telling me??.

 

Jesus! I’ve been doing it wrong for years!

 

Grin

My current regular escort is a wine enthusiast, as am I. Each time he arrives, after several minutes of deep, passionate kissing, we retreat to my kitchen and share a fine bottle of wine . . . then we move the proceedings to my bedroom for a couple hours of fun and frolic.

[+ bashful]

My current regular escort is a wine enthusiast, as am I. Each time he arrives, after several minutes of deep, passionate kissing, we retreat to my kitchen and share a fine bottle of wine . . . then we move the proceedings to my bedroom for a couple hours of fun and frolic.

 

Similar experience I had with a guy a few times. I'd ask whether red or white when setting up the appointment, and bring it to his place. We sit in the living room and talk, have a couple of glasses, until he suggested we go to the bedroom.

[instudiocity]

As for his CC = Connection and Chemistry

All I focused on was the CC, I thought, CC&7, Connection, Chemistry & 7 hard inches!

 

A couple of Canadian Club & 7’s might be handy, too.

[+ nycman]

My current regular escort is a wine enthusiast, as am I. Each time he arrives, after several minutes of deep, passionate kissing, we retreat to my kitchen and share a fine bottle of wine . . . then we move the proceedings to my bedroom for a couple hours of fun and frolic.

Damn...I want that gig!

 

I’ll fuck ya for a nice bottle of wine....no problem!

 

Grin

[TruHart1]

All I focused on was the CC, I thought, CC&7, Connection, Chemistry & 7 hard inches!

 

A couple of Canadian Club & 7’s might be handy, too.

Well, all I can say is, @peterhung85 is excellent for me when we are both completely sober! I have little doubt that he is just as amazing if you've had a CC&7 or two before enjoying the Peter(well-)hung experience!!! Whether you are sober or more relaxed due to a couple of drinks, he will rock your world!!! Of course, you may take longer to reach a climax than if you are in a sober state! ;)

 

TruHart1

[instudiocity]

Well, all I can say is, @peterhung85 is excellent for me when we are both completely sober! I have little doubt that he is just as amazing if you've had a CC&7 or two before enjoying the Peter(well-)hung experience!!! Whether you are sober or more relaxed due to a couple of drinks, he will rock your world!!! Of course, you may take longer to reach a climax than if you are in a sober state! ;)

 

TruHart1

Oh, yes, if Mr Hung is inserting said Peter, I’ll need several CCs before the 7 plus!

[Cyd_StVincent]

All that has already been said definitely. Also a great client is someone who shows me their investment in our relationship by being friendly and affirming - a simple 'I'm so happy you are here' at the beginning of a session will really set us in the right direction. By being dependable as a regular and letting me know when I can expect to see them again, or letting me know if our regular schedule has changed whats up. By offering me a glass of water or a shower - which shows that they are considering me and my needs. Also clients who don't take increasing intimacy as an opportunity to undercut or barter with me, realizing that while we like each other more and more my bank account still needs the same amount of money in it.

[Cannon]

If someone is thoughtful, a gentleman, doesn't patronize me, and sees me regularly, I would definitely consider him to be a good client.

Edited February 27, 2018 by Cannon

[+ PapaTony]

Oof, there are so many things I could write about what NOT to do. But this isn't the thread for that, lol.

 

Literally the best thing a client can do for me is ask me what I think. Some guys have a tendency to assume I'll go along with everything they say and do. I'm a pretty easygoing person, but I've had experiences with guys who just ordered me around or ignored what I was telling them (similar to what BlakeBenz was saying about guys repeatedly asking for bareback). Ask me how I'm doing some time! And if I tell you something, listen to me! Communicating so that we're both on the same page makes everything so much more comfortable, which makes our time together so much more pleasant!

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OMG, this man is beautiful. Welcome to the forum Cody

[+ Pensant]

Thank you!

 

Also, I forgot this in my first post, but just last weekend I had a three-day vacation with a client, who at one point asked if I wouldn't mind spending a few hours on my own so that he could recharge-- and I LOVED that! By taking a few hours for personal time, we were both able to recharge our social batteries, and I had some time to explore a new city on my own. The downtime put less pressure on both of us to "perform" and gave us a fresh boost of energy for the rest of the weekend. It was the first time I'd had a client do that and it honestly made such a huge difference!

 

That’s essential for both parties.

[docred]

As has just been mentioned some down time is essential during multi-day visits. When I am in that situation I have breakfast with the escort and then tell him that the next few hours are entirely his time to do what he needs to do (emails, scheduling, working out...whatever) and that we will get together again around noon. I get to rest a little after the previous day's play and we have a lunch together before resuming the fun time.