JAMES XL

[builder boy]

Your story has holes in it too

It happened about 2 years ago

And not what you said either I’ve talked to him about it , and now you want to disrespect

Him

Trust me this one is as bad as the orginal poster

[LoveNDino]

With all due respect to @TruHart1, Mister Congeniality of the Realm

[Gymowner]

And guys you are deflecting on my matter. I gave this man $400 for something for him to get for me. He took the money and never again responded to my texts. I went to his house, he feebly said he was still waiting and never again responded. That is stealing....period. a person with character would have communicated back after this 2 month period and said he couldn't get was agreed upon and do I want my money back or to trade for sessions...period. case closed!

[Gymowner]

Who are you builder boy to trust? The judge here? Or are you just going to believe your beautiful friend and his scheme? I said get us together face to face many times. You don't have the balls to do that do you? See it's easier to hide behind a computer and beschmerch someone. I asked a question that I now want an answer to. Instead you try to come up with a "trust me this one is as bad as the original poster". What a fool you are.

[NJmusclelover]

And guys you are deflecting on my matter. I gave this man $400 for something for him to get for me. He took the money and never again responded to my texts. I went to his house, he feebly said he was still waiting and never again responded. That is stealing....period. a person with character would have communicated back after this 2 month period and said he couldn't get was agreed upon and do I want my money back or to trade for sessions...period. case closed!

Really because he told me he got you what you paid for than didn’t want it and wanted your money back, and he could not return that particular item

[builder boy]

And guys you are deflecting on my matter. I gave this man $400 for something for him to get for me. He took the money and never again responded to my texts. I went to his house, he feebly said he was still waiting and never again responded. That is stealing....period. a person with character would have communicated back after this 2 month period and said he couldn't get was agreed upon and do I want my money back or to trade for sessions...period. case closed!

Well I guess your not to "proud" to deal with escorts. lol what a load of crap you are. And yes I am proud of my friendships with several guys. I don't discriminate based on what someone does for a occupation.

[builder boy]

Who are you builder boy to trust? The judge here? Or are you just going to believe your beautiful friend and his scheme? I said get us together face to face many times. You don't have the balls to do that do you? See it's easier to hide behind a computer and beschmerch someone. I asked a question that I now want an answer to. Instead you try to come up with a "trust me this one is as bad as the original poster". What a fool you are.

When it comes to you, hands down James any day. Sorry I know your antics. You have shown enough here alone. Ciao

[Gymowner]

Deflecting again. Put me down. I don't care. You can't answer the question I asked of you. Get me a meeting face to face. As I said over and over ain't gonna happen folks. So instead of being a man you try to discredit me. What a little man you are.

[Gymowner]

And what you just said he said...omfg!!! That is such a lie if lies I can't see straight! The man will burn in hell for such a non truth.

[Gymowner]

Get the god damn meeting..period! I wanna see this fucktard face to face!!!

[NJmusclelover]

Get the god damn meeting..period! I wanna see this fucktard face to face!!!

I can see why he stoped seeing you

[builder boy]

Deflecting again. Put me down. I don't care. You can't answer the question I asked of you. Get me a meeting face to face. As I said over and over ain't gonna happen folks. So instead of being a man you try to discredit me. What a little man you are.

I don't owe you squat. And obviously he wants nothing to do with you and who can blame him.

[builder boy]

I can see why he stoped seeing you

CLEARLY as well as several others.

[Gymowner]

Neither of you will have the decency to get a meeting. Now it shows your character is just the same as his. I said from my first post a meeting ain't gonna happen. Because I am right and the thief is a thief. If I want this meeting so badly and the two cheerleaders keep deflecting and putting me down it should easily show who is telling the truth and who does not want the truth to be told.

[builder boy]

Neither of you will have the decency to get a meeting. Now it shows your character is just the same as his. I said from my first post a meeting ain't gonna happen. Because I am right and the thief is a thief. If I want this meeting so badly and the two cheerleaders keep deflecting and putting me down it should easily show who is telling the truth and who does not want the truth to be told.

I simply think your a lunatic. He's far better off to have you out of his life. Look at your posts. Crazy

[LookingAround]

Deflecting again. Put me down. I don't care. You can't answer the question I asked of you. Get me a meeting face to face. As I said over and over ain't gonna happen folks. So instead of being a man you try to discredit me. What a little man you are.

Put you down?! You’re putting yourself down!!!

[Gymowner]

The gang can gang up all you want. I want a meeting and deflect deflect deflect. No meeting I'm done with your haberwocky!!

[Strafe13]

How dare you so flippantly say I know nothing of what I speak of. I was there..you were not! How the fuck would you know cheerleader if he stole anything or not? How? You werent there! I want my $400 back. Get a face to face meeting with me and the escort and see for yourself. Ain't gonna happen! You keep the escort shielded. And some on here are conflicting my story and mingling with the doctors. Mine is separate. So run along and contact him, tell him my requests and see what happens.

 

Dude, I don't know anything about your story. I've only been commenting on the original poster's story. You're the one who's conflated his story with yours, when you accused other posters of being James's cheerleaders and of running to him with the OP's story, when you asked if they also told him about "stealing" a client's money and not providing the service for which he was paid. The OP never alleged that.

 

I don't need to tell you the details of each session. Yes I hired him many many times. I believe I said so. As an escort...good. very very handsome guy. Please read all my input to know the situation

 

You can start your own thread if you want to solicit feedback on your bad experience with James, but most of us on this thread were not talking about that until you effectively hijacked it with your repeated rants about wanting a $400 refund for an incident for which you've provided virtually no details. None of us are going to jump through hoops to research all of your past posts to gather these details. Say what you will about the OP, but at least he provided us with the relevant details of his experience before soliciting our opinions. You haven't even done that. You are getting way too riled up here, to the point that you're not even engaging in rational discussion anymore, but you're instead insulting folks and pleading for a conversation and/or resolution with someone who clearly wants nothing more to do with you. For your own sake, please just let this go, and find a way to be happy and fulfilled outside of your experiences with escorts and fighting with unknown forum members. This is not a good look.

[Gymowner]

I did not start a new thread since there us a thread already started condemning this thread! I have given the honest truth full story of what happened at least twice on here now. I wZnt a face to face meeting set up since I KNOW I am the one who is honest. Who would ask for such a thing if dishonest. These cheerleaders when directly asked for this deflect off of doing so and then try to discredit me. Sort of like saying " my wonderful son would never rape you. He is a good sweet boy. You must be a slut". The victim is being attached. This can all go away with one simple thing.. me and the escort face to face. Ain't gonna happen folks...ain't gonna happen. The escort doesn't want anything to do with me since nce I am right on this and he is a coward.

[builder boy]

I did not start a new thread since there us a thread already started condemning this thread! I have given the honest truth full story of what happened at least twice on here now. I wZnt a face to face meeting set up since I KNOW I am the one who is honest. Who would ask for such a thing if dishonest. These cheerleaders when directly asked for this deflect off of doing so and then try to discredit me. Sort of like saying " my wonderful son would never rape you. He is a good sweet boy. You must be a slut". The victim is being attached. This can all go away with one simple thing.. me and the escort face to face. Ain't gonna happen folks...ain't gonna happen. The escort doesn't want anything to do with me since nce I am right on this and he is a coward.

Stop asking others to set your "so called" meeting up. You know how to reach him yourself.

You appear desperate and somewhat unstable, which are traits you've shown before.

I for one am moving on. James is a stand up guy and all I need to know.

[Gadfly22]

It appears to me that you guys had a difference of opinion about what "now" means.

Now means now

May seem anachronistic as the thread has gone in a different direction but I just can't resist asking the musical question.......

 

[HotWhiteThirties]

Siri, what is the best example of a ‘train wreck?’

 

“According to Webester’s Dictionary, currently the best example of a ‘train wreck’ can be found at m4m-forum.org under the title ‘JamesXL.’”

 

Though you try, you simply can’t turn away.

[Strafe13]

I did not start a new thread since there us a thread already started condemning this thread! I have given the honest truth full story of what happened at least twice on here now. I wZnt a face to face meeting set up since I KNOW I am the one who is honest. Who would ask for such a thing if dishonest. These cheerleaders when directly asked for this deflect off of doing so and then try to discredit me. Sort of like saying " my wonderful son would never rape you. He is a good sweet boy. You must be a slut". The victim is being attached. This can all go away with one simple thing.. me and the escort face to face. Ain't gonna happen folks...ain't gonna happen. The escort doesn't want anything to do with me since nce I am right on this and he is a coward.

 

Would you even listen to yourself? You don't get to demand that someone meet you face to face, especially when you're acting so nutty on an online forum. Either you're engaging in some grade-A trolling of everyone here, or something is seriously wrong with your coping skills and emotional state. Again, for your own sake, please get some help and move on.

[Aaron_Bauder]

guys..... we all realize that the Dr should and could have done better...and he even said so. my question to all of you is this....isnt it a little sketchy that a person for any reason whatsoever that drives 45 minutes and texts "can i come now", doesnt send at least one more text in a 15 minute time span before turning around and driving another 45 minutes? Please dont defend this as well. you all know the answer would and should be a resounding "yes". if your boss gives you $75 to deliver the money to someone and says to you "if he doesnt respond then you keep the money", you drive, text "can i come over now" and then wait a few minutes and gleefully pack back up without sending another text that you are here. i am on both sides of this matter. please dont glorify the escorts efforts as back breaking to get into the session. it just didnt happen on his part as well.

 

Not at all when he's already been there once before and waiting in freezing rain for 15 minutes, only to have the client no-show.

 

I fail to see what's sketchy about escort's communication. He said explicitly, "Come now or wait till 11:30?" He was told to "come now." He did that. He texted, "Here." He got no response from a dude who'd already flaked on him before. No, it's not his responsiblity any more at that point to beg and plead with the client to meet him. Sorry, but no. It's called boundaries. At some point, enough is enough.

 

As to cheerleading, I don't know James XL and don't want to know him. Not defending him based on any personal relationship. Also I don't find the veiny, cartoon muscle look attractive, so not defending him based on my loins either. My assessment is based purely on the known facts. Now if he had Pietro Boselli's body or Cam Newton's face, then maybe yeah, I'd be biased. As it is, no.

Edited February 9, 2018 by Aaron_Bauder

[former lurker]

I did not start a new thread since there us a thread already started condemning this thread! I have given the honest truth full story of what happened at least twice on here now. I wZnt a face to face meeting set up since I KNOW I am the one who is honest. Who would ask for such a thing if dishonest. These cheerleaders when directly asked for this deflect off of doing so and then try to discredit me. Sort of like saying " my wonderful son would never rape you. He is a good sweet boy. You must be a slut". The victim is being attached. This can all go away with one simple thing.. me and the escort face to face. Ain't gonna happen folks...ain't gonna happen. The escort doesn't want anything to do with me since nce I am right on this and he is a coward.

 

Again, I ask you for specifics. You don't offer them. And you keep saying the same stuff without providing any details. And, btw, what you think you "know" is usually open to interpretation.