“Come to my place and spend a few hours with me”

[topinla]

So I’ve been chatting to this guy on Instagram for the last two weeks. He is a model. I made a comment to a post he made and he replied by direct message. I’ve been complimenting him on his wonderful physique and he’s like “aw shucks man thanks”. And I also made a comment that he must be getting tons of messages and a few indecent proposals from both girls and guys. Apart from that my messages to him has always been polite. Well, mostly anyway

 

My last message to him was how he was filling his time when he’s not doing any work or photoshoots besides going to the gym. He said he makes himself busy by doing stuff without elaborating.

 

Just a few minutes ago he sent me a message asking what I was doing on Sunday. I’ve got no plans on Sunday I told him. He then send come to my place and spend a few hours with me.

 

Not sure what to think of that or how to reply to it.

 

Guys, your thoughts? I didn’t want to be too presumptuous and ask him how much in case he just wants to chill out like I’m one of his bros.

 

Normally when I’m interested to get into a guy’s pants I’d be upfront about it especially when the guy isn’t escorting.

[Stormy]

What do you have to think about? The answer is YES. Just go in without expectations of sex play it by ear

[rvwnsd]

I would go and see what happens.

[jjkrkwood]

I wouldnt go to anyones place that I didnt know. If you are interested, suggest meeting in a public place and then play it by ear. There are alot of predators out there, Instagram or otherwise.

[caliguy]

So I’ve been chatting to this guy on Instagram for the last two weeks. He is a model. I made a comment to a post he made and he replied by direct message. I’ve been complimenting him on his wonderful physique and he’s like “aw shucks man thanks”. And I also made a comment that he must be getting tons of messages and a few indecent proposals from both girls and guys. Apart from that my messages to him has always been polite. Well, mostly anyway

 

My last message to him was how he was filling his time when he’s not doing any work or photoshoots besides going to the gym. He said he makes himself busy by doing stuff without elaborating.

 

Just a few minutes ago he sent me a message asking what I was doing on Sunday. I’ve got no plans on Sunday I told him. He then send come to my place and spend a few hours with me.

 

Not sure what to think of that or how to reply to it.

 

Guys, your thoughts? I didn’t want to be too presumptuous and ask him how much in case he just wants to chill out like I’m one of his bros.

 

Normally when I’m interested to get into a guy’s pants I’d be upfront about it especially when the guy isn’t escorting.

Usually bros will invite other bros to get together in a out and about situation. Not will you come spend 3 hours with me at my place. Either the guy is interested in you (doubtful since he's not seen you) or he's just looking for $ since you're obviously interested in him.

 

The 3 hours is mostly code for pay me. He just doesn't have the game to just bring it up.

Edited February 3, 2018 by caliguy

[LaffingBear]

Go. What have you got to lose?

Maybe you'll make a new friend or acquaintance. Maybe you'll just add some activity to a Sunday that you report is unscheduled.

Maybe he simply enjoys the company of people who admire his physique.

If things develop in a manner you don't like, leave.

If he suggests a compensated session, make a yes-no decision.

And, if, by some chance, you're wondering "what if things get frisky, and then he tells me I owe $$$?" if that wasn't clear up-front, just leave. If there are odd suggestive comments before things get started, ask him to clarify.

 

If it was me... I wouldn't break existing plans because I developed a fantasy scenario of what might happen. But I'd definitely go if I had no other plans.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Go.

[bigvalboy]

You could potentially have a lot to lose. You know nothing about him. I would do a meet-n-greet first at a local Starbucks or some public place..

 

"Better to err on the side of caution"

Edited February 4, 2018 by bigvalboy

[jjkrkwood]

God, dont any of you guys have a "caution gene" ??? You know, there ARE people out there that prey on Gays. You couldn't pay me to meet him one on one in a private place.

 

Cock and ass cant be more important to you than your Life ?

[+ Avalon]

Maybe he wants to show you his etchings?

[+ azdr0710]

can I get first dibs on your stuff?

 

has he seen a picture of you already?.....I think the meet-and-greet is the way to go....make it a place very near him to show sincere interest.....keep it all very casual and friendly

 

and, like I do, leave a note in the middle of your living room floor with where you are and the dude's name for when your friends/relatives break down your door looking for you in a few days

[topinla]

can I get first dibs on your stuff?

 

has he seen a picture of you already?.....I think the meet-and-greet is the way to go....make it a place very near him to show sincere interest.....keep it all very casual and friendly

 

and, like I do, leave a note in the middle of your living room floor with where you are and the dude's name for when your friends/relatives break down your door looking for you in a few days

 

Yes he has seen pictures of me. He follows me on Instagram.

 

I agree. Meet and greet would be the way to go. I don’t think he has anything sinister planned. He has a famous face and bod :D

[jjkrkwood]

Yes he has seen pictures of me. He follows me on Instagram.

 

I agree. Meet and greet would be the way to go. I don’t think he has anything sinister planned. He has a famous face and bod :D

 

Pretty CAN be crazy too !

[Bearofdistinction]

I wouldnt go to anyones place that I didnt know. If you are interested, suggest meeting in a public place and then play it by ear. There are alot of predators out there, Instagram or otherwise.

 

"IT rubs the lotion on itself and then places the lotion back into the basket"

[+ PapaTony]

@topinla

Well I for one think you should be sharing his IG so we can all have a little peek!

[MichiganMan]

Isn't the model taking a chance also? It DOES work both ways!

[MikeyGMin]

Yes he has seen pictures of me. He follows me on Instagram.

 

I agree. Meet and greet would be the way to go. I don’t think he has anything sinister planned. He has a famous face and bod :D

Do some reasonable due diligence. Is his Instagram his actual name, can you find anything to verify that name and his address. If that all checks out, I don't see this as a particularly hazardous venture. People meet and/or hook up via Instagram ALL the time.

 

As far as the expectation that he may have about compensation. You know what he looks like and he knows what you look like. Honestly evaluate the situation using the general norms of hooking up. He's a model with a great body. I assume he's young.

 

Would you be competitive if meeting him at a bar? Or are you an average guy 20 or more years older than him? If it's the latter you should at least be prepared to compensate him if you are interested in having sex with him. If you've never said anything about being generous and he's never mentioned money, I would not bring it up before meeting him, but if things started getting heated I would certainly bring it up before the sex.

[jjkrkwood]

[rossthebosssf]

Personally, I would just ask what he's looking for in exchange and go from there. I hate ambiguity and it's clear he's looking for paid time. I enjoy exchanges like these with non-full-time pros. Have fun and please share the dirty details

[+ beethoven]

Yes, please share the details. Names aren't necessary. This sounds like an attractive offer, and I'm sure I'm not the only one who wants to hear how it played out.

[jjkrkwood]

If he pulls out "duct tape"...RUN !!!

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Cock and ass cant be more important to you than your Life ?

Pretty CAN be crazy too !

Don’t you think you are over reacting a bit JJ? There are millions of hook ups happening everyday through grinder or the like on this planet, they don’t book a hotel every time to be sure they are not at “someone’s house.”

 

Yes there are crazy people on this planet, but then why ever risking to leave your house? Imagine, you could meet this model in your street tomorrow and he could kill you and run away!

Edited February 5, 2018 by Tarte Gogo

[jjkrkwood]

Don’t you think you are over reacting a bit JJ? There are millions of hook ups happening everyday through grinder or the like on this planet, they don’t book a hotel every time to be sure they are not at “someone’s house.”

 

Yes there are crazy people on this planet, but then why ever risking to leave your house? Imagine, you could meet this model in your street tomorrow and he could kill you and run away!

 

All totally TRUE tarte, but my only point was to always proceed with CAUTION, not to stop meeting up or having sex.. For myself, I wouldnt go to a strangers home OR even a hotel to meet for the first time. SEX is NOT that important to me. I can wait until I feel comfortable about it.

 

So Everyone.....Just

 

Edited February 5, 2018 by jjkrkwood

[Bucky]

 

So Everyone.....Just

 

 

That young dude is on Chaturbate dancing quite often, has great rhythm, and interestingly is 6'7" !

[jjkrkwood]

That young dude is on Chaturbate dancing quite often, has great rhythm, and interestingly is 6'7" !

 

Yes he has talent worthy of a pedestal in a Gay go-go bar.