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On the radio they were saying for women it's 66 and for men it's 64. The reason being that they are no longer concerned with body image. It didn't say where the info came from.

 

I think that's delusional crap. It’s always nice to try and fool one ’s self, but at the age of 61, I have reached three conclusions.

 

1. The accuracy of the statement: “Remember that it is sex not youth that is wasted on the young.”

 

2. That applying the wisdom of advancing years can increase the overall sexual experience.

 

3. At some point, all the illusions and wisdom in the world don’t make up for the loss of the ability to have an erection several times a day, cum three times in a night, shoot your cum several feet and look at yourself in the mirror and be impressed with something other than the fact that you’re hanging in there pretty well considering your age.

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I think the important thing is at some point a person is no longer going to be concerned about body image. When you're young it is everything.

I have never met a gay man of ANY age who wasn't concerned about his body image. You might get to a place of acceptance, especially if you are playing with men of your own age, but I'm not buying for a minute that sex is better when you're in your 60s. Not saying it can't be good. Just that it can't be better then your younger years.

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I wish I could shoot and hit the ceiling like in my 20's that's for sure. Did i look better of course. I look back now and think damn I was pretty good...lol

However I hire escorts and my self image is good and these men have made a lot of difference and Viagra helps as well. But the most important thing when I'm having sex now is how experimental and open I am to try and have a mutually great time. That comes with age. If only I knew then what I know now. As Edith Piaf would say no regrets.

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I'm only in my mid 40s and the sex is already going to hell because of back issues(which I am actively working on with a physical therapist but the nature of the problems is such that not much improvement is to be expected). It's a significant social impairment that keeps me from dating.

 

Now if my testosterone level were to plummet to the point I didn't have the urge and didn't care I suppose I would rate myself as "more satisfied."

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26-29 I was a sex machine with the looks to go with it. 30's my libido started to dive and I put on weight despite diet and exercise. 40's no testosterone, no drive with aches and pains which made anything more than receiving a bj too much effort. 50's I started testosterone therapy, a form of human growth hormone, careful of my diet and I exercise. Nothing what I was in my 20's, but a re-glimpse of my 30's. I fucked a lot in my youth, but wish I did a bit more.

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The best age for sex is the age I am now. There are no other choices. The age at which I had the best sex, well that is a different question. In general I had the most orgasms, most from self gratification, from 12 to 30. In my 30's, I had a lot of sex but I was of the opinion that any sex was good sex. In my 40's I learned that good sex could be great sex with a bit of imagination. From 50 on, I have been of the opinion that all sex can be great sex and that quantity may be less but quality can be much more. My best sexual encounter will be my next one, or at least, that is the goal.

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I say at whatever age one has a genuine connection both emotionally and sexually.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

Any Age -- Sex is Natural -- Sex is Fun -- Sex is a wonderful way to pamper, support, heal, and help your mind and body. It is not just about the orgasm - whether alone or with another/others - sex is a way to love yourself and get that amazing emotional charge from the contact with others - the touch - the kiss - the hug - the rub - all good!

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