When should the hour begin?

[nsguy45]

When an escort first arrives? If you spend some time chatting and having some wine before heading to the bedroom, is that time considered part of the hour? Or, does the hour begin once the two of you head to the bedroom?

[bigvalboy]

For me the hour begins when the escort walks in the door. How someone chooses to spend that time is up to the client. It's up to you how soon you decide to head to the bedroom. ...

[LaffingBear]

For me the hour begins when the escort walks in the door. How someone chooses to spend that time is up to the client. It's up to you how soon you decide to head to the bedroom. ...

As a client, I feel the same in practical terms. We pay for time. Over the years, Ive had guys ask for a few minutes to make a call, use the bathroom, shower as they just finished a workout, finish something on their laptop, etc. So, to be a little more precise... its when the rentguy's ready to spend time with me - whether we're sitting and talking, or.......

 

If Im hosting, I always offer use of my shower after.

 

With a few exceptions, clock-watching has rarely been an issue in my experiences. Most guys spend a bit more than the alotted time when all is said and done. And Ive had guys choose to spend alot more time just hanging out, going for a meal, etc.

[+ GregM]

For me usually when I walk in the door till I walk out. But like Out Is said theres sometimes wiggle room. For me sometimes I get an appt right after my day job. That usually means I need to shower up wh3n I get to the appt. I don't start the time if that happens. But as soon as I'm done and the towel comes off it's on.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Rudynate]

When an escort first arrives? If you spend some time chatting and having some wine before heading to the bedroom, is that time considered part of the hour? Or, does the hour begin once the two of you head to the bedroom?

 

 

Why wouldn't the time spent sipping wine and chatting be paid time? Just about any escort establishes in their profile that you are paying them for their time. When I call on a client, the clock starts running the moment I walk in the door. If I sit in the lobby for 15 minutes because they need to pull a bunch of people together for a meeting, I still get paid.

[+ nycman]

When the door opens...or when my dress hits the floor...

 

Whichever is first!

 

Tricker is when does the appointment end?

 

Rarely had it be an issue with professional men

with whom I am having an enjoyable time.

 

On the flip side....I have ended sessions early.

If it’s 10-15 minutes and just because the

chemistry is off. No big deal.

 

Is it’s 45 minutes to an hour or more because

the escort misrepresented himself. The fee

gets cut. Up to 100% depending on just how

deceitful the escort was.

 

Never had it be an issue. Liars know they are lying.

[MassageDrew]

From the time the escort walks in. However long it takes you to get in the mood you’re still using the escort’s time.

[crushme99]

I've only hired four times, twice with each of two guys. On all four occasions, I chose to be the one to mention that it looked like our allotted time was near its end. The sessions were great and I didn't want them to stop, but I thought it only respectful to acknowledge that I understood there were time limits and that I wouldn't try to abuse that. If I want to be respected as a client, I should try to be respectful of the escort. Both guys were pleasant, enjoyable, packed with muscle, and were just fine with continuing longer than we had planned.

[OccassionalHire]

Sometimes I'll have an appointment at, for example, 7:00 and say "I'll be in the bar having a drink by 6:30 if want to come by early and have one" (the drinks are on me, of course). In all cases the official clock has started at 7:00 when we go to the room, not 6:30 if they chose to come early for a drink. That sound about right to people?

[Rudynate]

Sometimes I'll have an appointment at, for example, 7:00 and say "I'll be in the bar having a drink by 6:30 if want to come by early and have one" (the drinks are on me, of course). In all cases the official clock has started at 7:00 when we go to the room, not 6:30 if they chose to come early for a drink. That sound about right to people?

 

As long as you've made it clear that 6:30 - 7:00 is off the clock and totally optional, what could be wrong with it?

[OccassionalHire]

I think "if you want to come by early and have one" indicates that it is off the clock and optional. At least, everyone I have hired appeared to understand that.

[Rudynate]

I think "if you want to come by early and have one" indicates that it is off the clock and optional. At least, everyone I have hired appeared to understand that.

 

It's obviously been working for you, but to completely eliminate any misunderstanding about time and charges you could expressly state that drinks are off the clock. I had an email exchange with an escort who, it seemed to me, had misrepresented his rate structure, and he insisted that it was all right there in his profile. I looked at it again, and if you carefully parsed the language it was suggested, but not explicitly stated. I told him that he had drafted the profile sort of like a CYA legal document and if he wanted to avoid misunderstandings he should describe his rate structure in language that could be readily understood.

[+ nycman]

I think "if you want to come by early and have one" indicates that it is off the clock and optional. At least, everyone I have hired appeared to understand that.

While I read it that way as well, I always believe that

it’s best to be explicitly clear when talking about money.

 

If I really like an escort, I tend invite them out after

we’re finished. “I’m headed to dinner. I’d love to

buy you dinner off the clock if you're interested.”

 

It’s certainly less romantic sounding....but then

I’ve got no problem telling them to “hit the road Jack”,

if after dinner they start in with “but I thought we

we’re still on the clock you owe me $600 more”

 

For the record that’s never happened to me so far, but

I do believe that’s due in part to clear communication

up front.

Edited February 3, 2018 by nycman

[FTM Zachary Prince]

Ok, first of all, I don’t offer one hour sessions, but my internal clock begins the moment I press you up against the wall and kiss you... that’s not as exploitable as you might think tho- I am QUICK on the draw for that first kiss!!

[arnie]

When I make an appointment I am clear about the time I am hiring for. As I do in calls and also bottom, I am literally and physically not in a position to monitor the time. I'm not sure when they start the clock. At most I take a moment to pee and maybe take a glass of water before the fun begins but most of the time there is a hug and a kiss as I walk in the door. I assume most of the guys have a clock descretly placed in their play space. I usually book for an hour . The real pros have a good sense of how to pace the time. Usually the fun ends at about the hour. Occasionally I do notice a change in his demeanor as the time runs out and he winds it down. The time to get dressed and say goodbye usually is off the clock, but that maybe 5 minutes at most and there is some wind down chat occurring. Of course if the guy is in a chatty mood and keeps the conversation going I am happy to oblidge, but thats at his initiative. I do remember one time where I had booked for an hour and had a little extra time before and appointment. The guy announced he didnt watch the clock and was prepared to spend quite a while with me but I had to cut it short, my loss

[JTtorretto]

When the door opens...or when my dress hits the floor...

 

Is it’s 45 minutes to an hour or more because

the escort misrepresented himself. The fee

gets cut. Up to 100% depending on just how

deceitful the escort was.

 

Never had it be an issue. Liars know they are lying.

 

What does this mean NYCman? Lol. I’m surprised no one else has commented on what you stated.

So if an escort “misrepresents himself”, rather than showing the jerk to the door, you go forward with the session anyways, and THEN you just pay substantially less (if at all) upon the conclusion of the session? And you have never had this turn out poorly? That’s hard to believe.

[+ nycman]

What does this mean NYCman?

 

I just re-read what I wrote and I see how it could come across the

way you I interpreted it. I’d say if it’s clear the escort misrepresented

himself, then he gets turned away as soon as I open the door. But

other times it not immediately clear when you open the door. Sometimes

it takes a few minutes (long before any physical contact has occurred)

until you realize...”wait...I’m being scammed”.

 

In the rare senario where it takes a second to register.....I’ll offer

a partial fee as I show the escort to the door. If i were to initiate

physical contact and then decide something was wrong...that’s on

me and I would pay 100% of the fee. In my book, once you’ve

touched the merchandise...you’ve bought it.

 

I’m not sure that makes sense, but I hope it clarifies what I was

trying to say.