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Most of the escorts I have met are well-educated, smart, and confident. Some had corporate careers which they gave up in order to be full-time sex workers. All of this just makes them even more attractive to me. Knowing that they have chosen this work when they had other options gives me a woody.

You know very different escorts than I do. “Gave up corporate careers?” Wtf

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You know very different escorts than I do. “Gave up corporate careers?” Wtf

 

Maybe you're running with the wrong crowd. Without even trying I can think of one escort who was a practicing attorney, another who was a healthcare professional with an advanced degree and another who was a c-level executive in Silicon Valley.

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Most of the good escorts I’ve talked to (which is a partial sample of those I’ve hired) wandered into the trade because they like sex, they’re good at it, they like people and they like the validation they receive from providing pleasure. Now the degree to which each of those factors motivates may vary but the mix seems the same.

 

I’ve met doctors who preferred teaching and a Harvard Law grad who hated the biz and became gifted psychologist. And then there are the bankers . . . I know of a client who engaged a prominent escort now retired who realized after a time that the escort had been a banker with whom he had dealt but only over the phone.

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Yes, it really does happen! I quit my professional job because the people I worked with were awful and this is way more fun.

 

As did I. I have an MS in Occupational Therapy. I worked clinically for almost 15 years. I worked directly with patients and in upper management, all over the US, and in hospitals, nursing homes, rehabs, neuro units, NICUs, mental health facilities. I specialized in cognition and mental health, and spent years training other therapist to sharpen those skills. I left over 2 years ago, and I feel more successful, more fulfilled, more happy than I ever did before. I use many of the same skills that I developed as a therapist and I'm grateful for my training and time, but this feels like a much better fit for my interests and the way I want my life to go.

 

Regarding the OP's question - I find that when someone asks a question, they are really telling you something about what they believe and understand. On some level, some people might think that escorting/porn, etc are fields where you don't to be smart and/or smart people do not do this work. There isn't a reason to get offended. Be smart, and have a conversation.

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I have no issue with them asking why I escort, I just tell them if they have any issues with me escorting then I will gladly stop and find something else to do if you in return pay me at least the majority of what I currently make.... I'm sure they won't ever ask again :p

 

It sounds like your saying:

http://www.picslyrics.net/images/103960-beyonce-cause-if-you-like-then-you-shoulda-put-a-ring-on-it.jpg

:D:D:D:D:D:D

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I guess my thinking may be skewed but except maybe for adding in the your educated and smart line the question is perfectly normal to ask anyone in any profession. However, even if they did apply that line would not the answer to that be that it is because I am educated, smart, highly skilled, and know myself well enough that I can flourish to be an amazing escort.

 

To me the only unasked question is a stupid question. It would seem to me if one did get offended by it then you are probably already thinking this way about yourself. For me at least I find it amazing hearing the story of what brought a person to do the things they do or why they like the things they like.

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As did I. I have an MS in Occupational Therapy. I worked clinically for almost 15 years. I worked directly with patients and in upper management, all over the US, and in hospitals, nursing homes, rehabs, neuro units, NICUs, mental health facilities. I specialized in cognition and mental health, and spent years training other therapist to sharpen those skills. I left over 2 years ago, and I feel more successful, more fulfilled, more happy than I ever did before. I use many of the same skills that I developed as a therapist and I'm grateful for my training and time, but this feels like a much better fit for my interests and the way I want my life to go.

 

Regarding the OP's question - I find that when someone asks a question, they are really telling you something about what they believe and understand. On some level, some people might think that escorting/porn, etc are fields where you don't to be smart and/or smart people do not do this work. There isn't a reason to get offended. Be smart, and have a conversation.

 

OT FTW!

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Early in my college teaching career, I was on a joint trustee/faculty committee for which I wrote a well-organized memo. One of the trustees asked, “If you can write like this, what are you doing in a job that pays so little?” If I had had the body for it, escorting would’ve played much better!

 

Ditto...people are always going to suggest you be doing this instead of that:

 

You got AMAZING BODY! You should play for the gay sports league.

 

You escort full time? YOU SHOULD ALSO DRIVE FOR UBER.

 

Coulda, shoulda, woulda. I personally don't find those questions too annoying or dumb, but more a projection of what other people perceive themselves to be doing with such qualities. Some people just need to let others live their life they see fit.

 

I mean...look at the guy who played Barney. He's in the adult XXX business too:

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