G4P And Bottoming

[jjkrkwood]

I understand now why a G4P would bottom but to suck cock? That is so gay!

 

Nothing screams masculine and Str8 like taking a cock up your Ass !

[Rudynate]

There are men who enjoy anal penetration and anal play but are only sexually attracted to/aroused by women. What term would you apply to them?

 

 

A woman I worked with had this boyfriend who was incredibly hot, but a flaming asshole. She asked me once if I thought he could be gay. I never thought he was and I asked her why she thought he was. She blushed and tried to tell me but was too embarassed. So I asked her point blank, "Are you saying he likes to be anally penetrated?" She nodded. I said I thought that there were occasional straight guys who liked that. Afterward, I thought, "Gosh, what an interesting conversation."

[+ quoththeraven]

My basics are - a sexual attraction to men = gay, a sexual attraction to women = straight, a sexual attraction to both = bi. Once you start introducing fringe examples, like men fucking trans women, I’m less certain about the definition. I believe that it’s possible for a straight fitness model to continually put a dildo up his bum for paid performances, and still be straight, he’s just a straight money-whore.

"Money-whore" implies he does it solely for the money, not because it's enjoyable.

 

I used a dildo on a guy who's only attracted to women. That includes trans women. (I'm a cis female, for anyone who doesn't know.) I asked him about it, and having a partner who presents as female is important to him. That seems to me to be a reasonable definition of straight.

[+ Gar1eth]

"Money-whore" implies he does it solely for the money, not because it's enjoyable.

 

I used a dildo on a guy who's only attracted to women. That includes trans women. (I'm a cis female, for anyone who doesn't know.) I asked him about it, and having a partner who presents as female is important to him. That seems to me to be a reasonable definition of straight.

 

I think that’s the way it worked for Seann William Scott.

 

 

Gman

[+ pitman]

Just lay back and think of England.

Always works for me!

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[+ Gar1eth]

Just lay back and think of England.

 

Always works for me!

http://img.huffingtonpost.com/asset/594b831a15000020008ff97e.jpeg?ops=scalefit_630_noupscale

 

I just saw him on TV, and it looks like he is getting thin at the crown. So maybe Prince Charles is his father.

 

Gman

[rocky]

For a long time I wondered why a straight male would bottom in gay porn.

 

But I once read an interview with a G4P porn model. He was to do a flip-flop but just couldn't get aroused enough, hard enough to fuck. So he just bottomed.

 

I've read that some G4P porn models will even look at straight porn to be able to top.

Sorry, I hear of a straight guy again who likes it up the butt, hmmm not so straight to me. If straight well might enjoy having dick sucked or being a top but once a bottom, not sure sure

[LoveNDino]

Honestly - fucking a straight guy sounds so hot to me...

[+ Avalon]

Sorry, I hear of a straight guy again who likes it up the butt, hmmm not so straight to me. If straight well might enjoy having dick sucked or being a top but once a bottom, not sure sure

 

I think it odd they would not at least call themselves bisexual. There used to be a model at Corbin Fisher called Connor. He did everything even DP yet he insisted that he was straight. Would not even entertain the idea of being bi!

[+ Gar1eth]

Sorry, I hear of a straight guy again who likes it up the butt, hmmm not so straight to me. If straight well might enjoy having dick sucked or being a top but once a bottom, not sure sure

 

I met a guy-well talked to a guy-on Grindr. All he wanted was to be f-cked-no kissing, no oral, no cuddling, no stroking. So I think it is likely. After all I’m a gay man who doesn’t like anal stimulation-well maybe a little rimming or a fingertip-but I don’t want anyone going near my prostate. So we two guys are almost diametric opposites. If I as a gay man can be allowed not to like prostate stimulation, why can’t we allow a straight man to like it?

 

Now admittedly it can also be the first step for someone who is finally admitting an attraction to men. But I don’t think, considering the guy I described above, that it necessarily has to be.

 

Gman

[+ sniper]

I think part of the problem in categorizing is that there seem to be a lot of men who would fuck virtually any woman but will only interact sexually to a VERY specific kind of guy, whether it's a ripped guy, an old guy, a guy with a potbelly, a femme twink with a specific hair/eye color/ethnicity, a guy who looks exactly like their HS wrestling coach, etc, to the point it's almost a fetish/kink as opposed to an orientation.

[+ sniper]

I think it odd they would not at least call themselves bisexual. There used to be a model at Corbin Fisher called Connor. He did everything even DP yet he insisted that he was straight. Would not even entertain the idea of being bi!

 

We all do things for money we wouldn't do for free. That's why they call it "work."

[+ Avalon]

We all do things for money we wouldn't do for free. That's why they call it "work."

 

But sex is suppose to be pleasurable for both / all parties involved. One should not have to work at it. Sex is normal and natural.

[+ sniper]

But sex is suppose to be pleasurable for both / all parties involved. One should not have to work at it. Sex is normal and natural.

Except porn is people having sex for money. Why would you assume you can infer anything about what's going on in their head from that?

[+ Avalon]

Except porn is people having sex for money. Why would you assume you can infer anything about what's going on in their head from that?

 

If the escort climaxes then he's doing something right. Like what is porn without the "money shot"?

[+ Gar1eth]

But sex is suppose to be pleasurable for both / all parties involved. One should not have to work at it. Sex is normal and natural.

 

It’s more of work for me. It doesn’t mean I don’t like it. But it’s definitely not as easy as falling off a log.

 

Gman

[Rudynate]

I read an account, written by a straight guy of his time in prison. He said that unless you were really big or really mean, you had to learn to take it in the ass. Learning how to relax so you could get fucked without it hurting was an essential skill.

[+ Gar1eth]

I read an account, written by a straight guy of his time in prison. He said that unless you were really big or really mean, you had to learn to take it in the ass. Learning how to relax so you could get fucked without it hurting was an essential skill.

 

I’d be dead.

 

Gman

[maninsoma]

But sex is suppose to be pleasurable for both / all parties involved. One should not have to work at it. Sex is normal and natural.

 

Odd to see that comment posted here, of all places. I'm not saying that no escorts enjoy having sex with any of their clients, but it is work. Other people may enjoy their work as well, but it's still work and it might not be what people would want to do during their leisure time.