Security, Health Safety and Fun...

[Guest David]

Hey All....

 

My guess is I am a typical site user - relatively unexperienced and looking to experiment. While I am definately passionate and erotic and looking to have fun I am also concerned about personal security and health safety. If I was more comfortable with these topics I would be more likely to be out there enjoying the skilled services of the talented folks being reviewed.

 

I would be very interested in a forum on this very topic....how about you?

 

David

[Guest steelydan]

Greetings David.

 

You are where I was a year or so back. And this site didn't exist then. I had a few bad experiences in Vegas my first couple of times hiring a guy but nothing earthshaking. Just lousy escorts of which there are many. However with the help of this wonderful site you can find that there are truly great escorts out there. And you can find the ones that are what you are looking for. Just keep reading this site and when you find the right guy ask him questions. A good escort will want you to be comcortable with him. Good escorts will want to satisfy your wants, needs, and sometimes even your wildest fantasy. And safety from a health standpoint should always be at the top of your's and your escort's list. And as far as security I have never felt threatened or in danger from an escort. I suspect their security is faw more at risk than ours. Good luck!

[Guest Shooter]

My advice...read the reviews carefully and they should give you a pretty darn good indication of who plays safe and is legit. They should also give you some indication of whether the person is into the same things you are and if you will hit it off. Just my POV. :-)

[Guest torjon]

Hey,David. Welcome to the fraternity.Seven months ago I went through all that angst, but didn't then know about this site...this liberating site.

It took me a half a bottle of wine and about 3 hours to make the phone call to the escort that I had chosen on the basis of a voice mail. I sweated buckets, but in just a minute talking to him I felt great. I got lucky the first time out with a terrific Toronto escort named Mike Conway, and will forever be grateful for the "kindness of this stranger". (Strangers no more, I should add, but kindness never left the equation!) You, my friend, have these reviews, and they are filled with wonderful young men who will make you feel like a million. Read carefully all the reviews on the ones that strike your fancy, because it becomes pretty clear what kind of man they are and how they treat a client. For some of us cost has to be a consideration, but if the first time is not up to par, try another. I find the best escorts have a special quality about them, and they are kind. Here too, you usually get to see the guy. I didn't have that option, though like I said I got lucky. Male beauty can be a combination of many things, and it doesn't necessairly mean drop dead gorgeous, though a lot of these guys are. You know what you like, and that's what you look for. There has to be a small amount of risk, David...it's unavoidable...but the alternative is to miss out on something that could be out of this world. These men are professionals for the most part, and respect begets respect. As for health, yeah, most definitely have safe sex. That shouldn't even be an option. If you choose wisely, and you can pretty much do that here, the fun will be a given.

Good luck, David. I wish you the same good fortune that came my way.

[Guest Dr. DG]

As you explore your sexuality, please explore safer sex methods...they can be fun! Just be aware that many escorts (male and female) do not always volunteer their HIV status willingly, even under pressure.

 

There are no tell-tale signs of an HIV positive individual. Every time I hear one of my patients describing their "ability" to spot HIV-infected men, I just want to scream "WAKE UP!" to them. Outside of definitive signs/symptoms like a large visible Kaposi's sarcoma, folktales such as "he didn't look well..." are meaningless. Just practice safer sex consistently.

 

Best wishes...

[Will]

Dear David, Eighteen months ago I too was trembling (with both anxiety and desire) about whether or not to contact an escort, and how to do it. The first time, I used a (good) escort service in New York. There was no problem with the escort -- he was an incredibly nice young man, a graduate student earning money for his master's degree -- but I didn't have a chance to get to know him before he showed up on my front doorstep. So the next time, I found an escort on Escorts4You.com, contacted him by e-mail, and then set up a (just) dinner appointment, to see whether we hit it off. The third time (which turned out to be a repeatable feast) I posted a query on this site. I described myself and what I was looking for (in personal, not physical or sexual, terms) and asked for advice. I got very good, very understanding advice, and followed it. As I said, the result is that for the moment my "shopping days" are over.

 

In all this, I have (a) enjoyed meeting the escorts as human beings, (b) never felt in any way threatened or menaced, © never met with any backing away because I am a little shy sexually. On the contrary, your lack of experience is exactly where they get to be experts. And, believe me, those top escorts know a thing or two about the male body that I never saw in a porn magazine or even video!

 

Most important of all, I have decided that you get what you pay for. I seriously doubt that there are any bargains out there; if there are, I don't want to be the one looking for them. For your first time, and until you feel confident in yourself, I suggest that you think about saving your pennies until you can afford the absolute creme-de-la-creme (no pun intended). After all, your feelings and your own self-respect are worth more than any amount of money. You are wise, I think, to be cautious. But thanks to this site there are plenty of us who are only too willing to help each other out.

 

Most of all, have fun. Relax. So what if it's not the best sex you've ever had? As long as you've done your homework, you can be assured that you'll be in good hands. As for safety as well as security, the really top drawer escorts are top-drawer for a lot of reasons. And being reasonable and level-headed about health is one of them. HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Will

[Guest Ken]

After reading all of the above advise, I can only add that they are all on target. I was extremely fortunate that the first escort I hired was the best escort I ever had.I found him thru an agency in NYC.(fortunately for me, there were photos to look at). We met several times until he moved to the west coast and,"retired" from the business. From that point on, I've hired several and they ranged from OK to just plain awful. Now, there is this website with reviews, pictures, etc. which is a trememdous source of info. I can only advise you to follow instructions given you in the above postings. They know what they're writing about. Above all, BE SAFE.