Some more thoughts....

[Trent1500]

I'm very new to this site, thus, I might be posting a few times. I have another question. From the responses in my other post, I think that I'm set to hire for my literal very first sexual experience. I do have a concern though. I'm pretty fat. Is that a no go for most escorts? I mean, like, I will tell any escort that I'm a big guy (295lbs to be exact). But still, will this be a problem?

[+ GregM]

We see guys in every color, size, fetish etc. For most it's not an issue. But if you feel it will be mention it before the meetup.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ freecahill1965]

I'm very new to this site, thus, I might be posting a few times. I have another question. From the responses in my other post, I think that I'm set to hire for my literal very first sexual experience. I do have a concern though. I'm pretty fat. Is that a no go for most escorts? I mean, like, I will tell any escort that I'm a big guy (295lbs to be exact). But still, will this be a problem?

You have come to the right place for support. I assure you that providers like @GregM and @VictorPowers see people for which they provide a service. They do not see body size, shape or other perceived imperfections. As you move to select your provider, you can post their information. We will do our best to give you feedback. The information I hope will allow you to make the best choice for you.

[LaffingBear]

Let them know.

 

Put on your thick skin....

 

The narrow-minded guys will decline your business. Some may caution that their services may be limited... e.g. a fantasy of being held aloft during sex may not be realistic.

 

For the most part, once you put it out there, the better escorts will not only tell you its not a problem, they'll put you at ease.

 

100% speculation on my part, but I'd bet that the nice rentguys spend time allaying self-image concerns with a significant percentage of clients.

[+ Funguy]

I'm very new to this site, thus, I might be posting a few times. I have another question. From the responses in my other post, I think that I'm set to hire for my literal very first sexual experience. I do have a concern though. I'm pretty fat. Is that a no go for most escorts? I mean, like, I will tell any escort that I'm a big guy (295lbs to be exact). But still, will this be a problem?

 

I think you should mention this but for most of the good guys it should not be a problem.

Of more importance is hygeine, incl. brush your teeth, comb your hair, prob best not to wear deodorant but make sure you have washed AND project confidence (even tho it might be a bluff) and excitement. Nothing wrong in telling him this is your first experience either so you get that out of the way.

 

Perhaps let us know who you have chosen and we can chime in.

[+ GregM]

 

100% speculation on my part, but I'd bet that the nice rentguys spend time allaying self-image concerns with a significant percentage of clients.

 

Yup.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ Tarte Gogo]

being held aloft

I didn’t know this phrase at all. One learns English everyday!

[youngboldone]

I hope you have a great first experience no matter who you choose. My first time wasn't so great, and upon reflection I realize that it was partly due to me. So, lessons learned: communicate, communicate, communicate! Be very clear and explicit about your expectations for the session up front, and if something isn't happening during the session that you want to happen, speak up and ask. And above all, please play safe.