Your thoughts on this.

[jjkrkwood]

Huh? Many of us who hire can easily find a partner without paying. But we hire anyway for very good reasons that have nothing to do with necessity.

 

OK

[jjkrkwood]

Well, there are several things that make me want this. I don't exactly feel that it's 100% necessary. It's just that I don't know any other bi or straight guys. My family doesn't know that I'm Bi either. Also, I want my first time to be memorable. I also really want to be with a fantastic looking man. There are not many that I know personally. I've never had good looks and I don't feel like I would ever be accepted by anyone around me. Im also quite fat. I just really want this.

 

Then you should do what you want and make yourself feel good and special. However, if you go into it with mind blowing expectations, there is a possibility it may not live up to your fantasy. So just do it with an open mind, with NO expectations, and file it away as a learning experience.

[FTM Zachary Prince]

I second the advice to book an extended date. Consider something that's part social and part sexual too. It's a guaranteed thing and might help you build the experience and confidence to transition from social settings to sexual settings in your personal life too moving forward. Plus it will probably help calm your nervousness and feel more natural.

[Bearofdistinction]

You have a highly regarded provider in Salt lake City. He is https://rent.men/VictorPowers He is truely one if the best escorts anyone could hire. I am not sure how young he takes clients. You can private message him on this board by clicking on his name @VictorPowers. He is a great escort but more importantly a respectful, kind and thoughtful individual.

Edit: and he is super hot!!!!

 

And he is great dancer and not a bad lil cook!

[jjkrkwood]

And he is great dancer and not a bad lil cook!

 

He sure knows how to wrap a little wiener !

[Cyd_StVincent]

I met with a virgin, although he was a little older than you, a while ago. He didn't tell me that that was what was going on but I could tell he was nervous. Turns out I was the first person to suck his dick, ride his cock, and put anything up his ass ever! It definitely seemed like an important and positive experience for him, I think not knowing me and knowing he wasn't in an environment where I was going to judge his skill level took off the anxiety that had been impeding him in his 30 some years of life.

 

I would suggest that you let your escort know before hand for sure, not everyone is going to be down for that kind of experience, and you want to have someone without hang ups. Also when you are doing anything for the first time, let the other person take control at first and then try to follow their lead. A lot of newbies to kissing will just go all out with the tongue action, enjoy the pleasure of being kissed and having your mouth opened, and then when you are more relaxed you can return in kind. Gentle and slow is always preferable to frantic and fast IMHO.

[Trent1500]

I met with a virgin, although he was a little older than you, a while ago. He didn't tell me that that was what was going on but I could tell he was nervous. Turns out I was the first person to suck his dick, ride his cock, and put anything up his ass ever! It definitely seemed like an important and positive experience for him, I think not knowing me and knowing he wasn't in an environment where I was going to judge his skill level took off the anxiety that had been impeding him in his 30 some years of life.

 

I would suggest that you let your escort know before hand for sure, not everyone is going to be down for that kind of experience, and you want to have someone without hang ups. Also when you are doing anything for the first time, let the other person take control at first and then try to follow their lead. A lot of newbies to kissing will just go all out with the tongue action, enjoy the pleasure of being kissed and having your mouth opened, and then when you are more relaxed you can return in kind. Gentle and slow is always preferable to frantic and fast IMHO.

 

Thanks for your input. I've actually found an escort who knows my entire situation. He is also highly reviewed. I think he will give me an amazing experience. I just have to wait for a good time to make an appointment with him.

[youngboldone]

Trent, I do hope you will let us know how it goes for you. I'm hoping you have an amazing first experience. Is the guy you've selected Victor Powers?

[Trent1500]

Trent, I do hope you will let us know how it goes for you. I'm hoping you have an amazing first experience. Is the guy you've selected Victor Powers?

 

 

Yes, indeed it is Victor Powers. He seems like an amazing guy. I will definently let you know how it goes. I'm so excited for it.

[youngboldone]

Would you mind PM'ing me after you meet? Based on what I've read about Victor as well as his thoughtful contributions to the forum, I'm pretty sure you're in for an amazing time. Enjoy, and have fun!