Your thoughts on this.

[Trent1500]

So, I've know that I was Bi since about 7th grade. I've never had any luck with any relationships, ever. Thus far, I am still a 100% a virgin. I've never even kiss a single person. I kind of had this crazy idea to hire an escort for my first experience. Does this sound like a horrible idea? On that note, I have no idea what I'm really into. I don't know what to say to an escort other than that I want them to "teach me" or "experiment". I want this experience quite a lot. Any advice, suggestions, or objections? I'm also 19 years old.

[Bearofdistinction]

Sounds like a good plan --- just communicate well -- Ask for what you want up front --

 

Then leave with a renewed sense of confidence - and go out and meet people! Enjoy

 

being 19 and horny! Oh and at 19yo -- you should not be looking for Mr. Right -- you

 

should be looking for FUN!

[+ poolboy48220]

My first experience with a guy wasn't with an escort, but my second was. I'd say go for it, let the guy know you're inexperienced/experimenting, and do your research for a guy that seems like he'd take that into account.

 

Man, when I was 19, there was no way I had the money to hire.

[+ freecahill1965]

So, I've know that I was Bi since about 7th grade. I've never had any luck with any relationships, ever. Thus far, I am still a 100% a virgin. I've never even kiss a single person. I kind of had this crazy idea to hire an escort for my first experience. Does this sound like a horrible idea? On that note, I have no idea what I'm really into. I don't know what to say to an escort other than that I want them to "teach me" or "experiment". I want this experience quite a lot. Any advice, suggestions, or objections? I'm also 19 years old.

I think that is awesome. You just want to make sure you pick an escort that is going to give you a great experience. What state are you from?

[Trent1500]

 

Man, when I was 19, there was no way I had the money to hire.

Luckily, I've been given a good job with amazing pay. Thanks for your comment!

[Trent1500]

I think that is awesome. You just want to make sure you pick an escort that is going to give you a great experience. What state are you from?

I'm in Utah. However, I thought about making a trip to Vegas if I find a good escort there. From what I see, there aren't many in Salt lake city.

[+ freecahill1965]

I'm in Utah. However, I thought about making a trip to Vegas if I find a good escort there. From what I see, there aren't many in Salt lake city.

You have a highly regarded provider in Salt lake City. He is https://rent.men/VictorPowers He is truely one if the best escorts anyone could hire. I am not sure how young he takes clients. You can private message him on this board by clicking on his name @VictorPowers. He is a great escort but more importantly a respectful, kind and thoughtful individual.

Edit: and he is super hot!!!!

Edited January 17, 2018 by freecahill1965

[+ VictorPowers]

Thanks @freecahill1965 for the praise!

 

To OP, I've worked with clients in your same exact situation. I'm glad you found this forum for some guidance.

[+ freecahill1965]

Thanks @freecahill1965 for the praise!

 

To OP, I've worked with clients in your same exact situation. I'm glad you found this forum for some guidance.

Gee, @VictorPowers where were you when I was 18. O yeah, you were not born yet. Silly me.

[mr.brief]

If you are in Utah and can afford a trip to Vegas---Get an evening with Peter Hung.... Tell him the whole deal before---and you will be more than satisfied with your "first" entry into a bi experience... Take him to dinner and then a few hours in your hotel and you will see what you have been missing...The only problem will be that when you hire in the future---you will attempt to match everyone else up to Peter's standards and they will not meet your first evenings entertainment.... Let me hear your thoughts...

[jjkrkwood]

So, I've know that I was Bi since about 7th grade. I've never had any luck with any relationships, ever. Thus far, I am still a 100% a virgin. I've never even kiss a single person. I kind of had this crazy idea to hire an escort for my first experience. Does this sound like a horrible idea? On that note, I have no idea what I'm really into. I don't know what to say to an escort other than that I want them to "teach me" or "experiment". I want this experience quite a lot. Any advice, suggestions, or objections? I'm also 19 years old.

 

 

It just seems like a "sacrilege" to ME that at 19, you find it necessary to HIRE... You have the world at your feet, have youth and vitality and have the best of BOTH world, sexual fluidity. You should easily be able to find a partner without paying ?

[KeepItReal]

My first M2M experience was with an escort. One of my better decisions!

[BluDay]

@Trent1500 believe it or not, this is fairly common for escorts (of which I am not one). @VictorPowers (who I have never met) is well reviewed, and if you tell him or any other such good escort, they will help you out and make it very easy for you.

 

It will be vastly better for you to tell the escort before hand so they are prepared. Good escorts try to figure out what the client wants if they are not expressly told. Tell him it's your first time, that maybe starting slow will make it easier on you, and they will be prepared for just that. It will be a much better experience for you.

 

I was not very experienced with my first escort, only having kissed and some (probably quite bad) sucking. He's a regular hire for me now, and his time has been invaluable to me.

 

You are not alone. Lots of us were in the same boat. You have the sense to check what will make it work for you. Follow that sense, and I think you will be satisfied in more ways than one.

[+ GregM]

You're 19, any decent hotel requires you to be 21 to rent a room in Vegas. They will check ID at the desk. With that said, I would suggest @Ace He's got an awesome personality, tastes amazing and is a cool guy.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Trent1500]

You have a highly regarded provider in Salt lake City. He is https://rent.men/VictorPowers He is truely one if the best escorts anyone could hire. I am not sure how young he takes clients. You can private message him on this board by click on his name @VictorPowers. He is a great escort but more importantly a respectful, kind and thoughtful individual.

It just seems like a "sacrilege" to ME that at 19, you find it necessary to HIRE... You have the world at your feet, have youth and vitality and have the best of BOTH world, sexual fluidity. You should easily be able to find a partner without paying ?

 

Well, there are several things that make me want this. I don't exactly feel that it's 100% necessary. It's just that I don't know any other bi or straight guys. My family doesn't know that I'm Bi either. Also, I want my first time to be memorable. I also really want to be with a fantastic looking man. There are not many that I know personally. I've never had good looks and I don't feel like I would ever be accepted by anyone around me. Im also quite fat. I just really want this.

[+ JEC]

You have a highly regarded provider in Salt lake City. He is https://rent.men/VictorPowers He is truely one if the best escorts anyone could hire. I am not sure how young he takes clients. You can private message him on this board by clicking on his name @VictorPowers. He is a great escort but more importantly a respectful, kind and thoughtful individual.

Edit: and he is super hot!!!!

I second this - Victor Powers is what you need. Prepare to be in the upper bunk

[Trent1500]

I second this - Victor Powers is what you need. Prepare to be in the upper bunk

 

Well I'm feeling like that's something I want so it works out, haha!

[+ JEC]

There is some wisdom in your thinking. If you feel awkward about relationships and sexuality (M or F) this is a way to "have it your way" and with no expectations, pressure or judgment. Be sure to communicate fully what you want/need both before and during. Also I’d book at least 2’hours longer if you can so you don’t feel rushed and can enjoy the experience.

Edited January 18, 2018 by JEC

[Trent1500]

There is some wisdom in your thinking. I’d you feel awkward about relationships and sexuality (M or F) this is a way to have it your way and with no expectations, pressure or judgment. Be sure to communicate fully what you want/need both before and during. Also I’d book at least 2’hours longer if you can so you don’t feel rushed and can enjoy the experience.

If I hold off for a bit, I'll be able to save up for probably 3 hours. I think it would be worth it as well. I think I'll need some time to chill and get comfortable. I know for a fact that I'll be nervous.

[OneFinger]

If you are in Utah and can afford a trip to Vegas---Get an evening with Peter Hung.... Tell him the whole deal before---and you will be more than satisfied with your "first" entry into a bi experience... Take him to dinner and then a few hours in your hotel and you will see what you have been missing...The only problem will be that when you hire in the future---you will attempt to match everyone else up to Peter's standards and they will not meet your first evenings entertainment.... Let me hear your thoughts...

I am a huge Peter Hung fan. I hire him again in a micro-second.

[Trent1500]

I am a huge Peter Hung fan. I hire him again in a micro-second.

 

I will definently look into it!

[tenderloin]

I would also urge you to educate yourself on health issues - not just HIV, but the full range of STDs. There are many great gay health sites to do this. I don't want you to be scared of doing anything, but you should go into an encounter fully aware of the risks you take and decisions you make.

[+ purplekow]

As far as needing three hours, even with some "get to know you" time, my guess is that there will not be that much time between the rocket being ready for take off and the actual end to the flight. So, if you hire for three hours, I would be sure that the escort is good for you to go a second time, at nineteen that should not be an issue for you. Also, be prepared for the full gamut of responses from ecstatic to guilt ridden. Those first few times with a man can play havoc with the head of anyone even men who have had many female partners. For you, with no experiences whatsoever, I would expect performance anxiety as a natural occurrence. Do not build it up in your mind, Do not expect too much or too little. Ultimately, I will tell you what I have said numerous times before, in the end, it is just sex and this may be your first time but it will not be your last, so relax, enjoy, learn....rise repeat. By the way, Victor Powers is a great way to start this adventure. You will remember this event and remembering Victor will be a joy. It is for me.

[Trent1500]

I would also urge you to educate yourself on health issues - not just HIV, but the full range of STDs. There are many great gay health sites to do this. I don't want you to be scared of doing anything, but you should go into an encounter fully aware of the risks you take and decisions you make.

Definently noted. I so believe that I'm educated. However, I'll make doubly sure. Thanks for your concern!

[+ SundayZip]

It just seems like a "sacrilege" to ME that at 19, you find it necessary to HIRE... You have the world at your feet, have youth and vitality and have the best of BOTH world, sexual fluidity. You should easily be able to find a partner without paying ?

 

Huh? Many of us who hire can easily find a partner without paying. But we hire anyway for very good reasons that have nothing to do with necessity.