Jesse Jaymes

[Gymowner]

And big ric why the snarky reply? I'm here to have conversations and debates. Not cat fights. My point was proven to you and instead of saying " yes you are right or no you are wrong because of these reasons" you throw out "parallel universes". Cmon man.

[tradehunter]

I don't know if (m)any of us needed the mini-lecture on sexuality. More importantly, I think you might be missing a broader point (obscured perhaps by an erection) more important than even the question of how any of us would definitively know about the urges, prowess, performance and Friday night shenanigans of those 3 or most any other men.

 

I think many purportedly straight providers know there are those gay men who are so titillated by being with a "straight" man that they identify as such even if "bisexual" might be a more apt descriptor for some. "Show me the money."

 

Agreed! Many fall for it. Thats y i love trade you pluck them from obscurity ignorant to the scene.

[+ harey]

Made text contact with subject. He was friendly and responsive. Looking at next month for a meeting.

[big-n-tall]

...claimed to be bisexual. That would mean he has had dated both men and women with a healthy non paying sexual relationship with both sexes.

 

I see what you're getting at, but sorry, some of what you're saying doesn't make sense to me. That's just my honest opinion.

 

By your statement, someone is only bisexual if they date both sexes, which judging by some women and men I know... isn't a correct assumption. Not to be condescending (forgive me if it comes across that way), but bisexual means someone who has a sexual interest in both sexes. The "orientation" is not defined by who they want to date or settle down with. A lot of people have no interest in dating or settling down with anyone. Someone can be bisexual and prefer one sex over the other... doesn't make their interest in sex with either sex... is less bisexual in nature.

 

An escort I see (on occasion) is married to a woman. He has told me multiple times he'd never date a man... but loves dick way too much to indulge only in female parts. He has escorted for men and women. He has also had sex with men and women without escorting being a factor. I have had encounters with him where no funds were involved. Again, by your statement, he's not bisexual because he won't get into a "non-paying" relationship with a dude? He escorts because he likes being paid for it... he actually fetishizes it. It turns him on to a degree.

 

I just don't think you can make assumptions about anyone's orientation, especially not having honest and probably extensive conversations with that person. Whether the 3 mentioned are gay, straight, bisexual, trisexual... or somewhere in between... in the realm of escorting and porn, a lot of it is selling fantasy. If you don't trust what someone says, that's fine. Don't hire them. If you do, and you both enjoy the time... as @builder boy says "If you have fun then doesn't really matter." Just don't be surprised if I end up marrying one of them.

 

I won't comment any further. This topic has already been sidetracked enough by me.

 

Back to the regularly scheduled program... Jesse Jaymes.

Edited June 24, 2018 by big-n-tall

[Gymowner]

My opinion is your friend is bisexed. He has sex with both males and females. If he were bisexual he would have the inmate desires that we have to also date and fall in love. To me he would be a bisexed heterosexual. Not bisexual.

[+ harey]

@big-n-tall @Gymowner

 

You guys need to get a room. But I want to watch.

[builder boy]

Isn't this about Jesse?

[TruthBTold]

My opinion is your friend is bisexed. He has sex with both males and females. If he were bisexual he would have the inmate desires that we have to also date and fall in love. To me he would be a bisexed heterosexual. Not bisexual.

 

I'm not sure this is about Jesse. But I think that just because I am bisexual I want to date/fall in love with either sex. It means you want/can have sex with either sex. Just because I want to fuck a guy does not mean I want to date and/or fall in love with him. I can have all the sex I want in the world and not want to have any desire to have anything more to do with anybody than to stick my cock in their mouth or ass.

[builder boy]

Better pass then.

[Keith Mertz]

Hopefully, one day all the negativity surrounding the gay and bisexual terms will cease and we can all just be sexual.

[Gymowner]

Truth.. sexUAL/sexUALITY is more encompassing than just the sexual act. It's your feeling towards one sex or the other, falling in love, desire etc. The act of sex is just that. So you having sex with both men and women makes you bisexed. If you have only feelings for, romance with only one sex... that is your sexuality. Bisexed, yet heterosexual. Much easier for others to understand you in whole than just saying "I'm bisexual" but only date let's say females. Now any sex exclusively for money...well.. makes one a hooker...hahaha but not at all even bisexed, just able to perform with motivation. Just my $.02. Call it what you will.

[LivingnLA]

I've written about human sexuality, sexual orientation, etc. in quite a few posts before. Here are some links to those posts, because I don't want to rewrite all the points again.

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/do-you-have-sex-with-both-men-and-women.115359/page-3#post-1113451

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/straight-male-bud-sex.120339/page-2#post-1205182

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/apparently-im-not-the-only-one-who-isnt-aging-well.127847/page-3#post-1349778

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/apparently-im-not-the-only-one-who-isnt-aging-well.127847/page-3#post-1349837

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/apparently-im-not-the-only-one-who-isnt-aging-well.127847/page-3#post-1350225

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/apparently-im-not-the-only-one-who-isnt-aging-well.127847/page-4#post-1350423

[biggerbilly]

Truth.. sexUAL/sexUALITY is more encompassing than just the sexual act. It's your feeling towards one sex or the other, falling in love, desire etc. The act of sex is just that. So you having sex with both men and women makes you bisexed. If you have only feelings for, romance with only one sex... that is your sexuality. Bisexed, yet heterosexual. Much easier for others to understand you in whole than just saying "I'm bisexual" but only date let's say females. Now any sex exclusively for money...well.. makes one a hooker...hahaha but not at all even bisexed, just able to perform with motivation. Just my $.02. Call it what you will.

CAN WE ALL JUST FUCKING STOP WITH THIS!!!

 

I’m not directing this at you @Gymowner . But I’m fucking tired of these fucking categories being invented every day! I’m tired of all the fucking letters being added to LGBTIGASAPC... come on. Now bisexed vs bisexual? So I’m a heterosexual because I have meaningful relationships with women but homosexed, because I only fuck dudeso_O???

 

Let’s all just agree that everyone is fucking different, and you’all are all sex weirdos because you don’t fuck the way I do, and vice versa.

[Gymowner]

Um bigger.... everyone is different. That's the point. And discussions tend to go into multiple directions. Its natural. If you want the discussion to go in a certain direction, then interject in that direction.

[builder boy]

This diatribe has gone far to long. Wasn't the post about Jesse ???

[wklucas]

Not sure if it's been this way forever or a recent change / addition - Jesse's video included with his ad is now available for viewing to everybody -

 

https://rent.men/JesseJaymes

[BaronArtz]

Damnnnnn ... I want to get up close and personal with this muscle mountain. Does he live in NYC now, or is he visiting?

[NJmusclelover]

I think he lives in nyc

[TDAkers]

MY experience last night with him was great. I'd do it again any time.

[tradehunter]

Not sure if it's been this way forever or a recent change / addition - Jesse's video included with his ad is now available for viewing to everybody -

 

https://rent.men/JesseJaymes

 

His manager luvs him some photoshop. Sometimes its best not to fuck with someone who looks good n then make that person look vein n articial on top of it

[builder boy]

So true. V

[tradehunter]

Dude - Do you ever have anything to say that isn’t weird or negative?

 

Dude there is nothing weird about wut i said. His manager is?known for being heavy handed with photoshop when pics are fine to begin with. In the end it turns a perfect pic into a silly artificial looking pic. Thats fact ls deal with it! That was nothing againat jesse. He looks amazing and is one of the few sensible guys being spoken about on here.

[former lurker]

Dude there is nothing weird about wut i said. His manager is?known for being heavy handed with photoshop when pics are fine to begin with. In the end it turns a perfect pic into a silly artificial looking pic. Thats fact ls deal with it! That was nothing againat jesse. He looks amazing and is one of the few sensible guys being spoken about on here.

 

Please stop. Really. This is all you're theories. We are all capable of making our own judgments based on the same information.

[tradehunter]

Please stop. Really. This is all you're theories. We are all capable of making our own judgments based on the same information.

 

What is the theory? R u sayin pics arent shopped to the gods???? I like jesse so i will give him the benefit he isnt doin it.

 

Btw for everyone with thin skin who cant have a discussion without being offended. Log off the internet.

[NJmusclelover]

His pics look the same as his IG account

So I would say he doesn’t