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Do you find sex or dirty talk during sex to be a turn-on, turn-off, erotic, or just plan funny?

 

Other the the usual moans and groans I never had a sex partner to talk dirty during sex until I hired an Escort. Actually the first one, Tony Cummings started saying "Yeah fuck that hole" plus other things. At first it caught me off guard and I found it funny but then I really got into it. Once an Escort said "Fuck me harder...DADDY". I don't see myself as his DADDY and I immediately lost my erection. My last serious BF, also an Ex-escort, starting laughing very loudly when I started talking dirty to him during sex once, kept my mouth shut after that.

 

So what do you think... Turn-on, turn-off, funny?

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Several years ago I was with a hot but rather dim trick. I shouted, "I love to fuck your pussy, baby!" and he looked across the room to his cat.

 

But, yeah, talk can be a very exciting part of it. And some guys do it really well, the way some people have a talent for swearing really well.

That may suggest another thread: what escorts can really talk dirty?

 

Derek Ross doesn't say a lot, but when he tells you to "Say please" or "Put a 'sir' on that," you may find your legs reaching higher and opening wider.

 

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I think that dirty talk during sex can be very hot. Alot of guys just do it naturally during sex and I think that it enhances the mood. (However, I agree with KY. Do not use the term Daddy during dirty talk unless you are having sex with a 40ish, hairy chested, musclebound Colt model looking guy.)

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I LOVE the dirty talk during sex! When it's sex-for-me, I like the feedback on how I'm doing, plus I enjoy verbal humiliation--"yeah, suck my dick you fucking cocksucker!"--"Show me how much you like Daddy's cock!". With clients, I find myself talking dirty automatically, usually things I like to hear when I'm being dominated. Some clients try to "dirty talk", but fail, such as--"I'd love to orally stimulate your penis" or "I'd like you to penetrate me anally". x(

 

RE: Orgasms-- I'm fascinated by the different ways guys react when cumming. I've one client who doesn't make a peep when he cums...nothing, no noticeable difference in his breathing, no flailing of the limbs--at the other extreme, some guys can probably be heard a block away and appear to be having an epileptic seizure.

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>RE: Orgasms-- I'm fascinated by the different ways guys react

>when cumming. I've one client who doesn't make a peep when he

>cums...nothing, no noticeable difference in his breathing, no

>flailing of the limbs--at the other extreme, some guys can

>probably be heard a block away and appear to be having an

>epileptic seizure.

 

I dated a guy about 10 years ago that screamed so loud when he came, that you had to put a pillow over his face to muffle him. He could literally be heard blocks away. Fun guy :+

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I would much rather have somebody talk dirty than make no sounds during sex -- I've had some escorts that would keep their mouths shut the whole time, barely even moaning when cumming. That's almost a turn-off -- I like to know he's enjoying it, getting into the act; and, if talking dirty adds excitement and passion, then please talk dirty to me!

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One of my regulars once tried something new, for some reason. As we were going at it he usually moans/purrs but suddenly he started saying "fuck me! fuck me!"

 

It came out as "fug me! fug me!" and came as such a surprise I started giggling. We had a brief interruption, and then he was back to his usual moan/purr. ;-)

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I love dirty talk--when it is believable. When it is not spontaneous, it can sound like a memorized script, and most escorts are not very good actors. They tend to imitate what they have seen in porn films. When it is spontaneous, of course, it can destroy the fantasy of what you think/hope the escort is feeling. Sometimes the hottest sex is with someone who barely speaks but conveys everything with facial expression and body language. The best dirty talker I ever hired was Rex Brant (now, sadly, retired).

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Opinions

 

As the saying and Doug so frequently prove, opinions are like asshole: everybody had one.

 

I agree that most dirty talk frequently makes me think that someone saw too many Falcon Video Pac commercials and memorized the dialogue. The quickest way I could make my best friend in college laugh was to come up to him at our college bar and say "yeah, take that cock, fucking make love to my fat cock with your pussy hole, boy" or whatever it was that Jeff Stryker enuciates in Power Tool.

 

>I love dirty talk--when it is believable.

 

Even when believeable, it does nothing for me. However, I do like my partner to be and act responsive to both what I am doing and what he is feeling.

 

>Sometimes the hottest sex is with someone

>who barely speaks but conveys everything with facial

>expression and body language.

 

I am very quiet during the actual sex act (as my reviews attest) although (again as my reviewers have commented) I am far from quiet before and after the act. For the most part, my sexual direction tends to be non-verbal, although with clients much less so since their needs are usually the paramount objective.

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There are different types of “dirty talk” and different escorts are more or less adept at different types of “talk”. For example, I prefer my BDSM sessions to include talk of encouragement such as “good boy” etc… This helps me endure the “pleasure”. Now some guys are into the humiliation thing. I’ve tried both, but depending on my mood, I mostly prefer the former. On at least one occasion I requested the former approach from an escort who preferred the latter method. This actually seemed to throw him off his game. I could sense that something just didn’t click… and he admitted as much at the conclusion of the session. Still other guys, who probably are better “actors”, have been able to provide either approach with equal facility. One guy who I used to hired quite a bit actually developed acting skills over time… together we progressed as a team from the comical to the believable…

 

However, in general, regarding the talk aspect, what comes naturally for the escort probably helps him perform his physical duties more genuinely, sincerely, and comfortably. In the long run, that’s probably a good thing for the client.

 

As for myself… I am usually a man of few words… usually “Yes, Sir!” and “No, Sir!”

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< However, I agree with KY. Do not use the term Daddy during dirty talk unless you are having sex with a 40ish, hairy chested, musclebound Colt model looking guy >

 

You obviously haven't met KY. ;-)

 

Hey KY, I TOTALLY love verbal sex. The hottest thing is a bottom who moans and begs for more and harder. }( }( }(

 

Oops. Got a lil carried away there. :p

 

Loved your NOLA posts, btw. Awesome job! :-)

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Dirty porn talk makes me laugh, especially when I'm requested to do it (like, when someone tells me to "Beg for (their) cock!", I usually try to get out of it and ask, "Can't I just suck it?"). Derek and I do moan a lot, and we can be noisy cummers. Oh wait, Derek does say, "FOOOCK!" when he cums. That's a word, right? :p

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Personally, I *loooove* dirty talk during sex. Especially being gently dominated/humiliated.

 

First of all, I love moaners and people who give audible feedback how good it feels. I tend to moan (I can stop myself if I want, but it's no fun - I like to moan), and I also like to say "I'm close." or "I'm gunna cum!" before I do... I also like to beg on occasion ("Please, please fuck my ass, sir..." - that kinda thing). Though I wish I could find a better word for sir or master...I just don't like them, and since I like twinks, it just sounds wrong. =oP

 

Now as far as what I really love, I love to be told things like "Suck that fat cock", "good boy", "Gonna fuck your tight boipussy"...any of that porn-type stuff. =oP

 

There are SOME verbal thing that are turnoffs. I once was with a partner (non-escort) that liked to say "I'm going to fuck the shit out of you." Had he used any other word, I might have been turned on, but the word "shit" is an immediate turnoff for me - it just is. lol. I just could not get into that at all. He wasn't being literal, but the image that puts in one's mind just does not work at all. lol.

 

My best experience was with a really hot escort who I still think about often. He seemed to know exactly what to say and how to say it to turn me on. He loved to say things like "Yeah...Suck my fat cock" and "I'm gonna fucking fuck you til you're pregnant." Stuff like that. Once he even told me if he was horny at night (it was an overnight), he'd slide his fat cock inside me and wake me by reaming my ass. (This was all play, btw, and the sex was always safe.) This was accompanied by spanking and just a very nice gentle domination. Loved every minute. =oP

 

So yeah, in general, I love it, but there are certain types I don't like.

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my experience is that the wrong guys try to say dirty things and i have to laugh....like...put your fish up my ash.....i'm very active but pretty quiet.....however i do like a hot verbal command whispered in my ear...hot and wet...a little tongue in my ear...goes a long way....:9

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>I love dirty talk--when it is believable. When it is not

>spontaneous, it can sound like a memorized script, and most

>escorts are not very good actors. They tend to imitate what

>they have seen in porn films. When it is spontaneous, of

>course, it can destroy the fantasy of what you think/hope the

>escort is feeling.

Sometimes the hottest sex is with someone

>who barely speaks but conveys everything with facial

>expression and body language.

 

 

TOTALLY agree with you, Charlie!

;)

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