Hot Wax

[+ Avalon]

One person dripping hot wax from a candle onto another. Anyone familiar with this?

[+ Avalon]

http://small1.myjub.com/eyecandy_img/24246/boynapped-hot_wax_hard_wanks_5_24246_8.jpg

[+ Funguy]

I've had it done a few times - interesting feeling, esp. on my nipples. When it cooled I had perfect molds of my nips for all of posterity!

 

I have a feeling, tho I didn't ask, that there are special candles/wax for this that have slightly lower melting temps so as not to incinerate the receiver.

[Rudynate]

I've done it. I find it very erotic.

[Rudynate]

I've had it done a few times - interesting feeling, esp. on my nipples. When it cooled I had perfect molds of my nips for all of posterity!

 

I have a feeling, tho I didn't ask, that there are special candles/wax for this that have slightly lower melting temps so as not to incinerate the receiver.

 

I think beeswax melts at a lower temperature than paraffin.

[Bearofdistinction]

http://small1.myjub.com/eyecandy_img/24246/boynapped-hot_wax_hard_wanks_5_24246_8.jpg

 

Nice Visual - But that is not candle wax - rather paraffin which melts at aa much lower temp - and that is pour on not dripped

[+ Avalon]

Nice Visual - But that is not candle wax - rather paraffin which melts at aa much lower temp - and that is pour on not dripped

 

Thank-you for the correction. I was unaware of the distinction.

[Bearofdistinction]

Thank-you for the correction. I was unaware of the distinction.

 

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1359539133

[Michael Paul]

I have never had this done, but I do think it is very erotic. I would love to be on the receiving end one day. If find as I get older, the more I want to experiment with new ideas and fetishes. My question is will the wax leave burn marks on the body?

[Bearofdistinction]

I have never had this done, but I do think it is very erotic. I would love to be on the receiving end one day. If find as I get older, the more I want to experiment with new ideas and fetishes. My question is will the wax leave burn marks on the body?

 

It should not -- depending on how close the candle wax is dripped. Parafin melts at a much lower temp

 

Darker colored candles burn at higher temperatures than white candles.

 

Bees Wax also burns hotter than candle wax and is much more likely to burn the skin

 

DO NOT USE SEALING WAX --- It burns at a very high heat a nd will burn you and it is a bitch to

remove and will most likely tear your skin as it is removed.

 

I would suggest that you start with white tapers or votives and experiment on yourself

 

PS - If you are hairy it will tangle in your hair and you will likely use some pubes and chesties! I suggest removal in shower between warm and hot to soften the wax and wider-tooth comb.

 

Also if you are hairy work a drop or two of baby oil into the hair before wax play - this will also make it easier to remove

Edited December 29, 2017 by Bearofdistinction

[Michael Paul]

It should not -- depending on how close the candle wax is dripped. Parafin melts at a much lower temp

 

Darker colored candles burn at higher temperatures than white candles.

 

Bees Wax also burns hotter than candle wax and is much more likely to burn the skin

 

DO NOT USE SEALING WAX --- It burns at a very high heat a nd will burn you and it is a bitch to

remove and will most likely tear your skin as it is removed.

 

I would suggest that you start with white tapers or votives and experiment on yourself

 

PS - If you are hairy it will tangle in your hair and you will likely use some pubes and chesties! I suggest removal in shower between warm and hot to soften the wax and wider-tooth comb.

 

Thanks for the advice... I would really like for someone to tie me up and do this to me ...it looks really HOT... no pun intended

[FTM Zachary Prince]

Yup! Fun stuff. After it cools & hardens, I like to scrape it all off of my victim with the blade of a pocketknife...

 

Perfect for some kink in the woods while on a camping trip.

[Adam_6969]

A hot wax scene coupled with a blindfold is intensely erotic beyond words to describe. My most intense experience was bound spreadeagle, blindfolded, two hot guys.One dripped hot was on my nipples, the other my cock and balls. They brought me to an explosive orgasm after about 15 minutes of erotic wax dripping and lots of verbal.

[samhexum]

I read an article in DRUMMER years ago that said to use the cheapest candles possible. More expensive candles are meant to melt slowly, so they melt at a higher temperature, and their liquified wax can cause serious burns.

 

So head on over to the 99 cent store and stock up!

[Bearofdistinction]

A hot wax scene coupled with a blindfold is intensely erotic beyond words to describe. My most intense experience was bound spreadeagle, blindfolded, two hot guys.One dripped hot was on my nipples, the other my cock and balls. They brought me to an explosive orgasm after about 15 minutes of erotic wax dripping and lots of verbal.

 

Next time ask them to add Ice Water drops = not knowing makes it erotic

[YOUNG_LA_DOM]

I love getting WAXED

[Bearofdistinction]

I love getting WAXED

 

Stop over -- I have 100s of candles of different types/colors

[liubit]

A hot wax scene coupled with a blindfold is intensely erotic beyond words to describe. My most intense experience was bound spreadeagle, blindfolded, two hot guys.One dripped hot was on my nipples, the other my cock and balls. They brought me to an explosive orgasm after about 15 minutes of erotic wax dripping and lots of verbal.

Wow, I definitely need to go out more.

[KazBrawley]

I think beeswax melts at a lower temperature than paraffin.

Beeswax burns at a higher temperature than paraffin by ~10° or more, usually at about 145°F provided it's pure beeswax. However, some are mixed with searin and burn at 170°F and upwards. These are usually marked as "long lasting". I personally don't use beeswax for this reason-- it's easy to buy the wrong thing. Beeswax is one of the more likely options to burn and even scar overall, so unless that's what you're going for parrafin or soy (which burns hotter than parrafin but tends to cool quickly on the skin and as an added bonus cleans up easier) are safer options.

[KazBrawley]

Apologies, I missed Michael Paul's post and accidentally ended up repeating him

[whipped guy]

Just a couple of addition thoughts to expand on the great advice offered above. Simple is better regarding wax.. Since one can not always be in a position to chemically analize the wax that is available avoid expensive scented and pigmented candles as they usually have more additives and a higher melting point. So use a cheap votive unsented type candle. Also, the further the wax falls the more opportunity for it to cool off. So higher is safer. So if you are unsure of the melting point allow the wax to cool as it falls to avoid injury.

 

One additional tip is to use a water based creamy lotion to protect the skin prior to play. It can ptevent burns and aids in clean up as well.

 

Also, it is good to have ice cubes on hand as a precaution... not to mention that the fire and ice effect can be quite HOT! And a fun surprise if the sub is blindfolded!

 

(PS: I was burned but not scared for life by a guy who had no clue many years ago. I was blindfolded at the time so I am not sure what he did improperly. I have since learned more about how to do it safely. So lesson learned... know with whom you are playing.)

[whipped guy]

I had a similar experience at NY Bondage Club a number of years ago, but at the Sunday night events in NYC no one seems to be interested in this activity. If there are any guys in NYC who would like to strap me down and have some hot wax fun, hit me back. I enjoy having it done in a place where others can watch; large or small group:) I can not host.........

I can not believe that no one is currently interested in playing with hot wax at the NYBC. Since I moved out of the area I have not been able to attend frequently, but the last time that I was there which was in August of 2017 there was indeed hot wax play. Byran and especially Phen who run the club are into such a scene.

 

Of course, in recent years the club has morphed into something different from its BDSM origins with many guys attendeing to “get lucky” to phrase things in a diplomatic manner in what is a public forum as opposed to having S&M type activities. Hence, I can understand that on a given night many guys who attend might not be into wax or even flogging etc. However, Phen definitely is an expert at wax (and so many other things) so ask any you just might get your wish.

[nynakedtop]

In many of the "show bars" in Bangkok, there is a dripping candle/"hot wax" show - call me small minded but I never really "got it".

[whipped guy]

NY Bondage Club activities for BDSM and Sunday night parties are far different than they used to be when they were at Js. There are very few bondage scenes and those who do bondage seem to be very much a click and don't seem interested in others. Almost everyone comes to play in the backroom, and some of the regulars from a while ago don't come to the parties anymore. I hate the Paddles location, it is dirty, damp, and guys are not very friendly. Fascist Giuliani closed down what use to be fun in NYC.

I totally agree, but it is the only show in town. The guy who owns the place has probably never cleaned it. Not sure if you have ever seen it with the lights on, but it is indeed beyond dirty with cum from the dark ages on the walls and floor. They also keep it way too dark in the place which makes it difficult to do S&M scenes and especially in the back room areas. Plus some of the equipment... namely the wooden contraption on the upper loft area needs to be repaired.... the chains and cuffs broke several years ago and the powers that be never replaced or even repaired them last that I knew. That is my favorite spot to do a flogging. Also, unless the crowd is large not all of the lower areas are opened on most nights. That usually only happens on Folsom East and Pride weekends.

 

Some of the regular guys do tend to be clicky. One person in particular... a rather young guy who thinks that he knows it all... seems to want to be in charge of every scene. If you ask to help him he always has things “under control”. There is also an older regular guy who has an attutude as well. He has a snooty British accent

 

Yet there are a couple more or less regular guys with whom I have played who are quite a bit of fun. Plus, at times guys who are friendly and knowledgeable do attend and it is tnteresting to learn some of their tricks of the trade. Also, I have on occasion clicked with some younger guys who were interested in expanding their horizons. In addition, Bryan and Phen are both very friendly and personable. Bryan is more into the Bondage aspects but that is not really my thing. Phen (aka the Thai that binds) is quite knowledgeable regarding not only Bondage but S&M as well. However, since he has has issues with his eyesight he refrains from doing flogging and single tail scenes.

 

The solution is to go there with others who you know. I have also met various forum members there over the years and on a few occasions gone there with escorts as well in both hire and non-hire situations. I have even submitted reviews of three escorts where I describe our NYBC activities... for one escort it included a description of the first time that he was flogged... and yes he enjoyed it.

 

I was not familiar with the NYC scene in the Giuliani years, but I do recall that at the beiginning of this century that you had to literally show your cock to the guy at the door at Paddles to gain entrance. I assume that was to prevent any undercover cops from entering. In the era of “Communist” (no fascist he) Mayor DeBlazio really anything goes now at the place and that includes even some seemingly questionable activities in the darker recesses of the place. Unfortunately those activities are not related to the S&M scene. Hence the change in clientele.

 

Bottom line nowadays it’s a crap shoot regarding what you might find on any given night. Unfortunately since I moved out of the area I can not attend on a regular basis. Still as I noted in my first sentence it is the “only show in town”, at least the only show with which I am familiar.

Edited June 3, 2018 by whipped guy

[JCarr]

I get my cock and balls waxed frequently. Not just for the smooth hair free feeling afterwards, but the feeling of hot wax on my cock and balls is such a turn on. I always go to a male therapist and I’m hard as soon as the treatment starts, and stay hard as the hot wax is applied, and he hold my hard cock and rips the wax off. Often, pre cum leaks out, and I’ve cum during the treatment too.