Any advice/directions for deepthroating

[JackSpar]

Hey guys,

I need some help to get rid of the gag reflex!! I saw a hot escort (8in dick) and I was disappointed because I wasn't able to give him a deepthroating. So I will plan to see him again within a month and I want to master the deepthroating before we meet!!

 

So any any advice or directions that will help me

 

I have a small mouth and really strong gag reflex.

[+ WmClarke]

Get a dildo the same size and practice, practice, practice.

 

Lots of saliva. Don't try to start deep throating right away. Work up to it gradually and let your saliva glands kick into overdrive.

 

Take as much as you can without gagging. Take a deep breath brought your nose since your mouth is full. Then just relax and swallow, like you are eating or drinking. It will slide right down. You will probably only be able to keep it down for a second of two. Slide it out and repeat the process. Try to keep it down longer. As you get better, try sliding it up and down an inch or two while it's in your throat for a few seconds.

 

This is what worked for me. Was able to have an escort throat fuck me with his large 9" recently. I could not have done that two years ago.

[+ Eric Hassan]

Hey guys,

I need some help to get rid of the gag reflex!! I saw a hot escort (8in dick) and I was disappointed because I wasn't able to give him a deepthroating. So I will plan to see him again within a month and I want to master the deepthroating before we meet!!

 

So any any advice or directions that will help me

 

I have a small mouth and really strong gag reflex.

 

Did he want you to deep throat him?

[LivingnLA]

@JackSpar, the gag reflex is a mostly a smooth muscle response to your body's perception it is about to choke and needs to protect itself. As such, it is not under your conscience control. Some people have very sensitive gag reflexes that they never overcome. I don't know if that's you, but you need to know that possibility exists.

 

Read the two articles below. And reread them. They have some good advice.

 

Learning to deepthroat was and is a journey for me. Just like anal sex, anatomical limits exist for oral sex too. You say you have a small mouth. That likely means you have a small throat too, so you must understand your structural limits. You might never be able to deepthroat a thick penis simply because it's not possible for your jaw to open enough to comfortably accommodate deep entry. Please be realistic and accept your physical limits. It's possible to develop very serious jaw issues if you try to force it. Dislocating your TMJ, Trismus, and TMJD are no joke.

 

The best way to begin the process of teaching your body to relax its gag reflex, is for you to be comfortable and in control while you work with someone you trust and are attracted to in a session where you are not rushed, he's very patient, and you're not trying to just shove it in. You must go slowly and work your way up to it. You will gag frequently, but if you go slowly enough, your body will begin to believe it won't choke when a penis is entering your throat. You'll need to learn how to breath through your nose while throating a cock, otherwise your body will gag when it wants oxygen.

 

@WmClarke's advice works for many people. A dildo didn't work for me because it was too impersonal. For me, I needed the incentive of wanting to please the guy I was sucking. Luckily, I had a friend years ago who's girlfriend never sucked because of his size and "it was gross." After many beers one night, he learned guys give much better head usually. Over time, I practiced on his 9" and can deepthroat fairly well now. And now he's happily married to a woman who loves sucking his cock and is as good as me. Or, at least as good as I was a few years ago.

 

But, it all depends on the size, shape, and thickness. Be patient with yourself. Your body did not evolve to have large hard objects thrust repeatedly into your mouth and throat. You have to teach your body that it's ok, safe, and enjoyable.

 

Are you current on all your vaccinations? HPV is a very strong suggestion if you're sucking cocks without condoms because oral and throat cancer rates are climbing rapidly in American men because they think cocksucking is safe. The risks vary, but many STDs and STIs are very easy to catch via oral sex, especially for the bottom.

 

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a35376/sex-talk-realness-deep-throating/

https://www.literotica.com/s/deep-throat

Edited March 1, 2017 by LivingnLA

[JackSpar]

Get a dildo the same size and practice, practice, practice.

 

Lots of saliva. Don't try to start deep throating right away. Work up to it gradually and let your saliva glands kick into overdrive.

 

Take as much as you can without gagging. Take a deep breath brought your nose since your mouth is full. Then just relax and swallow, like you are eating or drinking. It will slide right down. You will probably only be able to keep it down for a second of two. Slide it out and repeat the process. Try to keep it down longer. As you get better, try sliding it up and down an inch or two while it's in your throat for a few seconds.

 

This is what worked for me. Was able to have an escort throat fuck me with his large 9" recently. I could not have done that two years ago.

WOW ... thanks dude I will try to follow your steps

[JackSpar]

Did he want you to deep throat him?

He didn't ask directly but he said that he loves when someone deepthroating him!! So I tried my best .

[+ Eric Hassan]

Got it! I think @LivingnLA has great advice, and I second his post - especially the part about taking it easy and accepting your limitations, which may evolve over time or may remain fixed at a certain point.

[JackSpar]

@JackSpar, the gag reflex is a mostly a smooth muscle response to your body's perception it is about to choke and needs to protect itself. As such, it is not under your conscience control. Some people have very sensitive gag reflexes that they never overcome. I don't know if that's you, but you need to know that possibility exists.

 

Read the two articles below. And reread them. They have some good advice.

 

Learning to deepthroat was and is a journey for me. Just like anal sex, anatomical limits exist for oral sex too. You say you have a small mouth. That likely means you have a small throat too, so you must understand your structural limits. You might never be able to deepthroat a thick penis simply because it's not possible for your jaw to open enough to comfortably accommodate deep entry. Please be realistic and accept your physical limits. It's possible to develop very serious jaw issues if you try to force it. Dislocating your TMJ, Trismus, and TMJD are no joke.

 

The best way to begin the process of teaching your body to relax its gag reflex, is for you to be comfortable and in control while you work with someone you trust and are attracted to in a session where you are not rushed, he's very patient, and you're not trying to just shove it in. You must go slowly and work your way up to it. You will gag frequently, but if you go slowly enough, your body will begin to believe it won't choke when a penis is entering your throat. You'll need to learn how to breath through your nose while throating a cock, otherwise your body will gag when it wants oxygen.

 

@WmClarke's advice works for many people. A dildo didn't work for me because it was too impersonal. For me, I needed the incentive of wanting to please the guy I was sucking. Luckily, I had a friend years ago who's girlfriend never sucked because of his size and "it was gross." After many beers one night, he learned guys give much better head usually. Over time, I practiced on his 9" and can deepthroat fairly well now. And now he's happily married to a woman who loves sucking his cock and is as good as me. Or, at least as good as I was a few years ago.

 

But, it all depends on the size, shape, and thickness. Be patient with yourself. Your body did not evolve to have large hard objects thrust repeatedly into your mouth and throat. You have to teach your body that it's ok, safe, and enjoyable.

 

Are you current on all your vaccinations? HPV is a very strong suggestion if you're sucking cocks without condoms because oral and throat cancer rates are climbing rapidly in American men because they think cocksucking is safe. The risks vary, but many STDs and STIs are very easy to catch via oral sex, especially for the bottom.

 

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a35376/sex-talk-realness-deep-throating/

https://www.literotica.com/s/deep-throat

Thanks man for your advice. I will read the two articles and I will be realistic and accept my physical limits ☺

[+ OliverSaks]

I find that I can deepthroat much better when 69'ing (depending on the shape and curve) - something about the angle allows me to slurp down quite a mouthful.

[escortrod]

I find that I can deepthroat much better when 69'ing (depending on the shape and curve) - something about the angle allows me to slurp down quite a mouthful.

Interesting. I find I can most easily deepthroat on my back, with my head hanging off the end of a bed. That creates a nice straight path. On all fours looking straight ahead is a close second.

[TruthBTold]

Once you accept your physical limits (or even if you just don't feel like deep-throating) remember you can make a guy's cock feel really, really good in other ways. Figure out what he likes done and do it. Believe me they won't even notice what you are not doing if they cum by what you do. Or it has worked that way For me.

[+ WmClarke]

I find that I can deepthroat much better when 69'ing (depending on the shape and curve) - something about the angle allows me to slurp down quite a mouthful.

 

Interesting. I find I can most easily deepthroat on my back, with my head hanging off the end of a bed. That creates a nice straight path. On all fours looking straight ahead is a close second.

 

Both are great positions for getting more cock down your throat.

[Mo Mason]

Yeah, I need to work on this as well, and I'm seeing some good tips here that I'm gonna try. My gag reflex is terribly sensitive. I once threw up all over a guy's lap because of it.

 

TMI, I know.

[escortrod]

Yeah, I need to work on this as well, and I'm seeing some good tips here that I'm gonna try. My gag reflex is terribly sensitive. I once threw up all over a guy's lap because of it.

 

TMI, I know.

Happened to me once too. When I was younger, and much more submissive, I stayed with a guy for a weekend as his 'puppy'. At one point he had me in a cage, with a head restraint hole in the end. He throat fucked me in that, and I was unable to warn him...

 

These days if I know I'm going to deepthroat a challenging cock I fast for at least a few hours.

[tanman4u]

 

These days if I know I'm going to deepthroat a challenging cock I fast for at least a few hours.

 

That's excellent advice. If you've just downed a big meal you're much more likely to gag and potentially even throw up than on an empty stomach.

[+ WmClarke]

Yeah, I need to work on this as well, and I'm seeing some good tips here that I'm gonna try. My gag reflex is terribly sensitive. I once threw up all over a guy's lap because of it.

 

TMI, I know.

That's a "Roman Shower" for those that are into it.

[JackSpar]

Once you accept your physical limits (or even if you just don't feel like deep-throating) remember you can make a guy's cock feel really, really good in other ways. Figure out what he likes done and do it. Believe me they won't even notice what you are not doing if they cum by what you do. Or it has worked that way For me.

can you please give some examples? ? I really want him to enjoy his time with me

[TruthBTold]

My main advice is to 1) intermingle licking/sucking his shaft and sucking on his head, 2) suck and stroke his cock at varying his rates, 3) suck on his balls (at varying points you are doing the above), 4) lick from the head of his cock to his hole in a masterful swoop so it seems effortless and seamless, 5) stroke his cock while you tongue fuck him - if he lets you - 6) finger his ass while you paying attention to his cock - again if he lets you - and 7) kiss him and stroke him when it seems right. At all times, I use as much saliva as possible. And I try to mix things up as much as possible. The highest compliment I have gotten is after the guy came as the result of a blow job he said to me, "It was like you were making love to my cock."

 

P.S. Incorporate nip play if it seems that gets him hard.

Edited March 2, 2017 by TruthBTold

[LivingnLA]

can you please give some examples? ? I really want him to enjoy his time with me

 

My advice: pay attention. Learn your limits. Learn what he likes. Trust me, when you focus on what you're doing and his reactions, you'll notice a hitch in his breath when you lick a certain way. Or maybe he likes very light suction. Or maybe he enjoys alot of lube, a firm hand--but not too firm--on his shaft while you gently suck and lick the head of his cock in a motion that simulates penetration. Every guy is different. Some LOVE a finger rubbing behind their balls while you suck. Some love a finger rubbing over their anus or perhaps playing with their nipples. Some really get off on having their balls licked or gently sucked. Does he get off on holding your head and fucking your mouth? If he enjoys deepthroat and you're able to go there, does he enjoy holding your neck so he can feel as his cock penetrates your throat? Does he want lots of saliva?

 

Oh! I almost forgot, many guys like how gagging feels on their cock, plus it adds a psychological dimension that makes them feel very powerful (control over your life) and turned on that you'd submit yourself so completely. If your guy enjoys gagging, you can learn how to control it a bit so it doesn't actually lead to throwing up, but that's an advanced course.

 

Ask him what he likes and explore. Pay attention to his reactions. His breathing. Does his cock throb when you do a certain thing? The list goes on.

Edited March 2, 2017 by LivingnLA

[+ Eric Hassan]

can you please give some examples? ? I really want him to enjoy his time with me

 

I think mindset helps. Find a way to completely fall in love with his dick. Find that zone in your head and then let it guide you. Remain connected to the guy, remain connected to your love for his cock and you'll blow his mind.

[+ quoththeraven]

Just to note: men on average have a natural advantage over women when it comes to deepthoating: their mouths are larger and wider and their throats are deeper. They may also have a better idea of what works from personal experience.

[beachboy]

All this talk about deep throating is sooo hot. Can't wait to get my lips around a certain escort's throbbing cock & give it my best shot - and his !

[Zman]

I taught myself to be able to throat any size dick.

 

--I lube up the dick first. Lube helps. I use a silicone lube but most any will do.

 

--My favorite position is lying on my back on the bed with the guy straddling me. He faces my feet. I find this really lets me open up the throat and the dick enters in at a good angle.

 

--Try to find a guy who really knows how to face fuck and force it in. For me at least, that really helped. LOL. Seriously, this was really sexy to me and helped me get into.

 

--Do your deep throating on an empty stomach. First thing in the morning was a good time for me.

 

--Personally, I never practiced with a dildo. It didn't work for me. Though it sounds like it works for some so you might try it.

 

 

Enjoy. Keep towels handy in case there is any mess.

[Kippy]

Just to note: men on average have a natural advantage over women when it comes to deepthoating: their mouths are larger and wider and their throats are deeper. They may also have a better idea of what works from personal experience.

Raven-- ya darty thing! Nice to see you out of the political forum and contributing to general hotness!

 

Kipp

[Bearofdistinction]

Hey guys,

I need some help to get rid of the gag reflex!! I saw a hot escort (8in dick) and I was disappointed because I wasn't able to give him a deepthroating. So I will plan to see him again within a month and I want to master the deepthroating before we meet!!

 

So any any advice or directions that will help me

 

I have a small mouth and really strong gag reflex.

 

Cough Syrup --- Fort Troff take It Bitch Spray - and Make sure your nasal passages are clear or use Afrin spray

 

(over the counter at every drugstore) Breath through your nose

 

Ask your top to go slow till you get used to his size --- Relax -- If your Top is Good he will train you slowly - till you are pulling

 

him deeper into your throat -- picture yourself with your nose buried in his sweaty pubes and his balls slapping your chin

 

and before you know it -- You will be wearing a TShirt that says

 

WILL DEEP THROAT FOR RECYCLED BEER

Edited March 4, 2017 by Bearofdistinction