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"Little things" (said or done by an escort) that turned you OFF/ON. Inspired by LivingnLA

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marylander1940 Grand Master

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I wonder what I'd expect. I've never thought about an "overnight BFE." I don't count the criminal overnight last year. Lol!

 

I imagine if I woke up first, I'd probably suck him awake since that's one of my favorites, being woken by good head.

 

If he woke up while I was in the shower, going to make coffee seems reasonable to me so long as he makes a cup for me too. After all, isn't that what a boyfriend would do?

 

I guess it all comes down to what was discussed and leading up to the night before.

 

It's these kinds of "little things" that separate the professionals who are worth top dollar and those who aren't "always on point" in the services they provide. Having said that, unless the escort is a telepathic mutant, I'm unsure what my expectation as a client would be if we hadn't discussed our "morning after" when booking the overnight.

 

I've never been irritated by an escort except the ones who didn't show up or didn't look like their pictures...

 

I hope this thread won't get any of yinz depressed, but let's talk about those little things said by escorts that cheered you up and in other cases turned/pissed you off.

 

Little things that made a big deal making you feel great or not.

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jjkrkwood Grand Master

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I am always humbly thrilled when they tell me I am one of the Best cocksuckers they've ever had, and that I eat ass like nobody's business.... It's good to know I've perfected my craft, and that they appreciated my $300 and mouth.

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I am always humbly thrilled when they tell me I am one of the Best cocksuckers they've ever had, and that I eat ass like nobody's business.... It's good to know I've perfected my craft, and that they appreciated my $300 and mouth.

 

Wait a minute!! I've had escorts tell me the same thing verbatim. Hmmm, some of these guys must say that to all their clients. Whell!! Harrumph!:eek:

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Blowing an escort, I look up--and he's on his phone. :mad:

lol I've worked with other escorts and have seen them do this. Never worked with them again. I have clients who actually like it when i watch porn on my phone while they are performing any other case i try to stay in the moment

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@marylander1940, thanks! I'm flattered to have inspired you to create this thread. I've only had 3 hiring experiences so far, let me speak to the little things I've enjoyed.

 

1. A friendly, professional, and timely communication style. This is basic professionalism, but I've been surprised so far how many escorts I've contacted via RM who don't reply, are incredibly slow to reply, or rude or inconsistent.

 

The three I've hired--including the guy who robbed me last year--were at least great communicators. This is a "little thing" but it sets the tone for the entire experience. Communication is fundamental and critical.

 

2. Eye contact is very powerful for a reason. It many be a "little thing" but for those of us seeking an intimate/intense encounter, eye contact at the right moments takes an "ok" experience into at least "good" experience territory.

 

3. Authentic compliments. Find something you honestly like and mention it.

 

4. End well and follow-up. My second and third hires both gave what felt like real and honest hugs before they left. It was quite powerful for me as a way to end our private time. Follow-up is part of communication, but I've greatly appreciated receiving a brief and discreet thank-you follow-up message via text or email.

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Put the phone down...

 

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maybe he was taking a video of you to blackmail you in the future...

 

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Haha. Mobiles are always close at hand nowadays. The blackmail thing is a real concern and something that would likely freak me out in the moment, but I'll share a point of view I bet shared by @Mark tunnel's clients who request he watch porn. This is going very deeply into my psyche, but I've whipped it out for y'all before so...

 

The idea of a guy watching porn while I'm sucking is a turn on. It creates a dismissive dynamic reinforcing the fantasy of being used by a straight guy to bust his nut.

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quoththeraven Grand Master

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Blowing an escort, I look up--and he's on his phone. :mad:

 

On thr flip side, being told to blow an escort while he's on his laptop. (We'd both been checking our respective devices for email and such.) I was kinda hoping he was responding to something on the forum as I bkew him, but he was probably checking his email. But the idea that I was busy serving him while he was nonchalantly (or maybe not so nonchalantly) doing something else was a big turn-on.

 

Same appointment, a little thing that annoyed: being asked to leave before he settled up with the host (it was an AirBnB rental) instead of walking out together. We'd started late (it was a 24 hour appt.) and he had to catch a train; I had to walk to the garage where I parked my car. How was making me leave by myself in order to uphold an exact "24-hour" w/o an upcharge for another hour that he didn't have available anyway a good business move? Getting slapped in the face with the transactional nature of the encounter as I'm leaving when it would cost nothing to continue to treat me like a human being, as he had until then, made no sense unless he didn't want the AirBnB guy to see me, but that's not how he presented it.

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I've been pretty lucky�, my only turn-off was one guy who cut short a session for some reason-- to his credit, he cut the fee too. But it made me feel as if I had somehow turned HIM off, and he was anxious to go. Great for the self-esteem.

 

Turn-ons for me are a friendly, easy-going demeanor, sense of humor about what we're doing (really), eye contact, and an apparent interest, whether real or not, in me as a person. I wouldn't like it if it felt like an anonymous hookup. And yes, a big hug on good-bye is a plus.

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Oh I'm so petty but...

One of my (known) peeves is when, while showering/cleaning up after our time together in my hotel room, the gent uses my toiletries (hair stuff, face spray, etc) without checking first. Of course I would say yes if asked, but there's something about the not checking first that annoys me. And, bitchy me, not only do I remember which two gents helped to reveal/confirm this pet peeve but also those who checked first...

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Oh I'm so petty but...

One of my (known) peeves is when, while showering/cleaning up after our time together in my hotel room, the gent uses my toiletries (hair stuff, face spray, etc) without checking first. Of course I would say yes if asked, but there's something about the not checking first that annoys me. And, bitchy me, not only do I remember which two gents helped to reveal/confirm this pet peeve but also those who checked first...

 

I don't consider it petty. Respect for personal boundaries and autonomy is important to me.

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