Was this muscle worship? What was I supposed to do?

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

Hi guys. I'm hoping someone here can help me understand what happened last night during a "hot" massage.

 

It started out the regular way, me face down. But almost immediately he told me to turn over and started massaging himself rather than me. When he was absolutely shiny with oil, he performed a sequence of poses that looked choreographed -- like a dance routine with flexing. He seemed lost in a fantasy world. I have never seen a body building competition but I think that's what he was re-enacting. Eventually I asked him to put some of that oil on me and he took the hint, but he seemed surprised. When we were cleaning up he said he hoped I'd enjoyed my massage and apologized for "the confusion with the booking".

 

The guy was hot and hard (everywhere) and he got me off. But I felt like I'd missed my cue, or just didn't know my lines.

 

What was I supposed to do?

 

(nearly always a) VeryHappyCustomer

[whipped guy]

Hi guys. I'm hoping someone here can help me understand what happened last night during a "hot" massage.

 

It started out the regular way, me face down. But almost immediately he told me to turn over and started massaging himself rather than me. When he was absolutely shiny with oil, he performed a sequence of poses that looked choreographed -- like a dance routine with flexing. He seemed lost in a fantasy world. I have never seen a body building competition but I think that's what he was re-enacting. Eventually I asked him to put some of that oil on me and he took the hint, but he seemed surprised. When we were cleaning up he said he hoped I'd enjoyed my massage and apologized for "the confusion with the booking".

 

The guy was hot and hard (everywhere) and he got me off. But I felt like I'd missed my cue, or just didn't know my lines.

 

What was I supposed to do?

 

(nearly always a) VeryHappyCustomer

Well I have had very few massages, but one of the rules was not touching... The masseuse would do all the touching, in all the right spots, and then provide the "happy ending". However, I think that this guy might have been sending some clues or hints.

 

I very often hire very muscular escorts and they like not only to show off their assets, but also to be worshiped in the sense that they like their muscles to be kissed, licked, and all in addition to being fondled. Of course some guys can get off just looking and not touching with a muscle worship scene. So I am not sure if he would have allowed some touching. Also, perhaps he was "confused" regarding the booking as he might have quite a few clients who simply like to watch and then go for the happy ending.

 

That said, if I found myself in such a "predicament" I would have attempted to touch and fondle. I did once and the guy quickly pushed my hand away, I took the hint, and like a good little boy enjoyed the rest of the massage. So if touching were not allowed... or that would mean that the rates that he was charging would escalate to the next level... I'm sure that he would have informed you of the situation quite readily.

 

Bottom line: I think the guy was probably confused! But!!!!!!!

[Diverdan]

I agree with Whipped Guy's comments on this. I had a very similar experience to yours, VHC. It started out in the usual way, me face down and he started massaging my back, legs, buttocks, etc. then he went from using two hands to just one, and I realized that he was oiling himself with the other hand. At that point, he asked me to turn over, and basically did a flexing routine, played with himself until he got hard, but soon asked me to join in. After a couple of minutes he went back to complete my massage and "finishing" the both of us. Because of the oil he used, I asked to take a shower, and while I was in the shower he joined me and asked if I liked the posing, flexing, etc. He was a very muscular guy, handsome and well endowed, but I was never sure about the whole scene. I did not go back for a repeat visit. My bottom line advise is always to "go with the flow".. as long as you are comfortable with what is happening..

[bigvalboy]

I am a massage-aholic, and never get a massage unless erotic is advertised. Most of the time that means that you get a massage with the masseur being nude, and "mutual touch" is almost always expected, but very often the massuer will go beyond what most would consider the norm and everything quickly transcends into playtime. I agree with Diverdan, just go with the flow, and if things get playful, well that is just a bonus. It sounds to me like he was enjoying you and just wanted to take things a little further. He might not have been expecting you to join him, but it sounds like he didn't mind.

 

Every single encounter is different. I've even had different experiences with the same masseur, depending on how many times I have seen him or how comfortable he is being with me. Sounds like "All's well that ends well"

[tom1980]

I agree with BVB. I get a lot of erotic massages, and most guys expect you to touch them and enjoy. Some also like you to kiss/lick/worship, but that's not a given the way mutual touch is.

[EastbayMike]

A masseuse is a woman. A masseur is a man.

[whipped guy]

A masseuse is a woman. A masseur is a man.

Well!!! I think that we all know that... all except my spell check... and especially when you are typing on phone keyboard. Insert smiley face here here? Not really!

[whipped guy]

Back to massages...

 

(Warning to BVB: based in your reaction in the Hot Wired thread don't read this until after noontime as it involves nip action. )

 

To illustrate that anything can happen during a massage here's what happened at the conclusion of the session mentioned above where I attempted to touch the "masseur" and was rebuffed. Just prior to the time being up and while I was face down in the table he suddenly climbed on top if me and began massaging my torso with his ample chest. I could feel his appendage running against my butt crack in a faux fuck. He then whispered in my ear, "I know what you want. This is what you want!" Well it was not what I wanted or expected, but it was hot as freaking hell and when he subsequently flipped me over for the happy ending it made said ending all the more happier!

 

Another time with the same guy I brought my Japanese Clover nipple clamps and as a special request for the denouement had him place them on my nips and then pull as forcefully as possible which makes them tighten and increases the pressure not only exponentially but oh so blissfully. When the final rush was eminent I popped them off to up the pain ante. Heaven and big smile on this hot wired guy's face! Now this is the time to insert that smiley face!

[tom1980]

I love it when a masseur climbs on my back and I can feel his whole body on top of me. I like that with an escort too. In fact, my favorite bottoming position has changed from being on my back with my legs up to laying on my stomach with the escort laying on my back. Lots of bonus points for holding my arms down and whispering hot things in my ear like WG described. It may not be what WG wants, but it's often what I want!

[bigvalboy]

(Warning to BVB: based in your reaction in the Hot Wired thread don't read this until after noontime as it involves nip action. )

 

To illustrate that anything can happen during a massage here's what happened at the conclusion of the session mentioned above where I attempted to touch the "masseur" and was rebuffed. Just prior to the time being up and while I was face down in the table he suddenly climbed on top if me and began massaging my torso with his ample chest. I could feel his appendage running against my butt crack in a faux fuck. He then whispered in my ear, "I know what you want. This is what you want!" Well it was not what I wanted or expected, but it was hot as freaking hell and when he subsequently flipped me over for the happy ending it made said ending all the more happier!

 

Another time with the same guy I brought my Japanese Clover nipple clamps and as a special request for the denouement had him place them on my nips and then pull as forcefully as possible which makes them tighten and increases the pressure not only exponentially but oh so blissfully. When the final rush was eminent I popped them off to up the pain ante. Heaven and big smile on this hot wired guy's face! Now this is the time to insert that smiley face!

 

Well it's before noon, but with coffee in hand, I have recited the Serenity Prayer, so I am good to go.

 

Two great stories WG. In many respects I was right there with you on that massage table. I do have a question for you that has come up with other members here. When a masseur climbs up on top of you, and begins massaging you with his body, does it bother you when he has shaved his chest and there is only stubble left? I like the look of a shaved chest, but personally find that feeling of the stubble rubbing all over me a little distracting. I've talked to some guys here that just hate it. I won't quite go that far, but depending on the amount, it does take away from the over all experience. At any rate, thanks for the post, and have a great Sunday.

[+ poolboy48220]

I agree with you BVB. I'm a big fan of hairy chests in the first place, so I prefer natural over clippered or shaved, but stubbly is the worst. That was one of the reasons I never repeated with an escort who's been working Detroit for years - great body, but just a weird giggly personality, and feeling his stubbly chest was just one more complaint.

[+ purplekow]

Well, I will start the pro-stubble side. I love the feel of stubble either from the face of the chest rubbing over me. A hot stubbly faced man rubbing his facial hair over my neck and massaging it with his tongue and then hot heavy breathing on the neck is enough to get me right to the edge. Chest stubble over my back from his face and chest, gives an extra pop to the encounter. I also enjoy facial stubble rubbing brusquely against my inner thighs as his tongue and mouth move magically over me.

However, I draw the line at ass stubble. I find rubbing a hot man's ass with any body part of mine, at turn on if it is naturally hairy or shaved or naturally smooth. A stubbly ass definitely takes away from my enjoyment and might make entry a problem.

[whipped guy]

I might have given the wrong impression when I relayed the story about the guy who hopped on top of me while I was face down. I thought that it and he were totally HOT! When he whispered in my ear that this is what you really want and I implied that his faux bang was not what I wanted or expected it was because I almost never do the traditional bottom thing. So it was not what I would have normally done, but beyond hot nonetheless.

 

Incidentally, the guy had a hairy chest and it was very pleasurable even though I ususlly prefer smooth. (Not bothered by stubble either by the way.) For the record I very rarely do the massage thing. I only do so when I'm horney and I also have aches and pains so as to kill two birds with one stone.

 

For the record the masseur in question for both of my stories was Jake Deckard from a few years ago when he was in NYC. He was not only sexy, but very knowledgable regarding therapeutic aspects... and in fact knew more and helped me more than any number of MD's, chiropractors, and even so-called pain specialists. His insight regarding my problems was even better than the happy endings! Seriously, the proverbial low man on the totem pole helped me the most. I am grateful for his sage advice to this very day!

[Steven_Draker]

When we were cleaning up he said he hoped I'd enjoyed my massage and apologized for "the confusion with the booking".

 

What was the confusion, VHC?

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

When we were cleaning up he said he hoped I'd enjoyed my massage and apologized for "the confusion with the booking".

 

Reminds me of a situation with a massage appointment I had two years ago. The appointment was at the home of the masseur, and as I neared his subdivision, the traffic lights were out at some of the intersections. I had a great massage, and after the happy ending, the masseur pulls out his camera to take some pics. Needless to say, I was startled.

 

Turns out the power to his house had come back on just before I arrived and he hadn't had enough time to power up his computer and review his schedule. His next client had asked for photos.

[dcman]

Hmmm. So, I really like those massagecock.com videos....where to find that kind of guy doing that kind of massage?

[+ poolboy48220]

If you find out let me know. Those really get me going too.

[tanman4u]

Hmmm. So, I really like those massagecock.com videos....where to find that kind of guy doing that kind of massage?

The site appears to be down. Only the main page works.

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

What was the confusion, VHC?[/color]

 

Hi Steven,

Sorry for the delayed response. I've been on the road, and thumb typing on an iPhone is not my forte.

 

I am no stranger to massages, hot and not. This was a case of me being in a hurry and not communicating well. I'd just gotten off a plane and my back was killing me. I wanted a massage (with something extra at the end) from a strong man. ASAP. He was listed as "available now" on rentboy and their massage site(?). So, I called and left a message. I'm sure I said something about not wanting to have sex. He texted me a price that was high for massage, but low for an escort. Since I was asking for a two hour massage outcall with no notice the premium was credible. So, I figured we were clear. It turned out his English was very weak, and in retrospect I think I should have been more clinical in my explanation of what I did and did not want.

 

I got no relief for my back that night, but no complaints. This one was on me.