A Second Question For The Ages- Are You Into Deep Passionate French Kissing?

[EastbayMike]

No kissing is a deal breaker. I need the passion when I have sex.

[+ Gar1eth]

I had the chance to hire Jason Land years after he had outgrown his twinky stage and had become a muscle guy (more muscled than the picture below) But I declined when I found out he wasn't 'into' kissing. Same thing two years ago with Trenton Ducati.

 

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Gman

[Decatur Guy]

I love it, but it's not a deal breaker for me if the escort doesn't.

[Phil_musc]

I am a kisser! I am told often a accomplish kisser. In fact I don’t remember when I haven’t been told how good of a kisser I am. Here is the problem, I have been with horrible kissers and didn’t know how to tell them. How do you tell them?

 

How about in your very most tactful voice, "Darling, you're so incredibly hot, your chest is to die for, you clearly have the Rock of Gibralter for a dick, your ass puts the melon section in the produce aisle to shame, but you absolutely suck at kissing." You know - kind of soften the blow a bit.

[Juan Vancouver]

Here I go again sharing a different point of view.

 

I love kissing. To me sex is not possible without kissing. It is the most intimate, tender, passionate thing two human beings can do and through kissing the rest of the body gets ready for a fulfilling intimate encounter.

 

Kissing is very important and very dear to me and I love passionate kissing with my clients.

 

That being said, whether kissing happens or not in a session depends entirely on my client. As my reviews attest to I fucking love to do it and go crazy with it if my partner is prepared, has clean breath, freshly brushed teeth, and understands kissing is a two way street. A dance where two partners exchange ideas and explore one another's preferences. Intimacy, kissing, sex has to be a concerted, consensual negotiation. There has to be a constant understanding and honouring of boundaries based on basic respect of each other's humanity.

 

I do unto you, I see you, I listen to your response and I react accordingly. You do unto me, I communicate clearly, you listen and we dance.

 

If my partner, however, arrives unprepared with garlic, coffee, food or unhealthy breath, if he refuses to brush his teeth if I ask or even take a breath mint, if he thinks passionate kissing means throat raping with a blubbery drooling tongue or if he repeatedly tries to force his approach without listening to my reactions and body language, the kissing shop closes on the spot.

 

I belong to the Canadian school of escorting and saying that I charge for my time is not a legal loophole or euphemism to avoid saying I am a *****. I really charge for my time of companionship. Everything I do while being with a client is because I want to do it, because I enjoy it, because I am having a great time doing it. With me, sex, fucking, kissing, caressing, talking is free. I don't charge for that. If my partner wants to try something with me he has to communicate it politely, be prepared and has to accept my boundaries and see me as a human being. I am not a machine. I am a loving, slutty, playful guy who loves to spend intimate, fun times with men.

 

A couple times I have read a suggestion from experienced posters here. This suggestion came after other posters wondered how to determine whether the escort kisses. The suggestion was something like this: (I am paraphrasing) "While communicating definitely tell your escort that kissing must happen. Demand a commitment and a clear response from him. When the door opens, pin him down to the wall and push your tongue as deep as you can into his throat."

 

Nobody, not my wonderful partner, whom I adore, not the hottest man in the world, not Brad Pitt, no client or lover should ever open with forcible kissing. I will shut down immediately. Kissing is like fucking; you need to warm up, you need to announce the body, you need the anticipation, the caresses, the touches, the tentative stroke or two, until naturally, one opens up to the other and is receptive and ready.

 

My suggestion?

 

Show up prepared. Ask a friend often how is your breath. Take good dental hygiene, avoid garlic, onions spicy food a day before a session, don't have coffee right before kissing, floss carefully, brush assiduously, learn to pay attention to your partner's reactions and learn to dance. I assure you, there is no escort worth his salt who will refuse to kiss you under those circumstances.

[Rudynate]

I love it, but I don't have to have it

 

I've noticed a fair number of escort ads- although nowhere near a majority-where the escort advertises a 'boyfriend experience but never mentions kissing in his ad copy, likes, or skills. Now while I can't imagine having a boyfriend, but if I did, I couldn't at all imagine having boyfriend who didn't kiss. And of course there are also escort reviews that mention 'dry kissing' but also give the escort a positive recommendation. I don't think I could really ever give an escort who wasn't into deep passionate kissing/make-out sessions a highly passing evaluation no matter how otherwise spectacular they are.

 

But I know others on here who feel differently. I can think of two members right off the bat- but I won't name them.

 

So For Deep Passionate KISSING, Me and my Willie (whoops- I mean...) Willie

 

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and I vote

 

 

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Gman

 

I love passionate french kissing. But dry kissing can be pretty hot - brushing lips, nibbling, getting into each other's breath, etc.

[+ quoththeraven]

I'm sorry I missed this earlier! French/open-mouthed kissing is incredibly hot and for me it's an important part of foreplay. I would feel bereft if a session didn't include it.

 

I agree, though, that dry kisses are better than bad French kisses. I really hate slobbery kisses. As for someone who's bad at it, rather than telling him he's bad at it, I'd suggest trying to lead him toward something more satisfying for you, although it's been my experience that doesn't always work.

[gallahadesquire]

I've always loved what Tristan Baldwin says in his ad copy:

 

" Kissing takes place during ALL my sessions- it's what turns me on the most as an escort- my 'trigger' so to speak. "

 

I know exactly what he means.

[bigvalboy]

I've always loved what Tristan Baldwin says in his ad copy:

 

" Kissing takes place during ALL my sessions- it's what turns me on the most as an escort- my 'trigger' so to speak. "

 

I know exactly what he means.

 

+1 As the future ex Mrs. Baldwin, I completely agree.

[wisconsinguy]

There is nothing that will start me going but a beautiful set of full soft lips and a probing tongue.

[Daverwr]

No deep kissing, and I'm movin' on. Just like if they say they're Straight, or short, or twink....

 

My! It's surprising I can find anyone.

[+ Gar1eth]

I've always loved what Tristan Baldwin says in his ad copy:

 

" Kissing takes place during ALL my sessions- it's what turns me on the most as an escort- my 'trigger' so to speak. "

 

I know exactly what he means.

 

+1 As the future ex Mrs. Baldwin, I completely agree.

 

I guess I'll be sharing the Baldwin Harem with you two. I'm putting my bids in now. I want to "entertain" Tristan on Wednesdays, Saturdays, and every third Friday.

 

Gman

[+ Socalguy]

No kissing thread worth its spit (get it? wakka wakka) could be complete without mentioning Tyger. The very first time I met him he kissed me and I finally understood the expression 'weak in the knees'

[loverboy95]

If there is no french kissing with me, then there is no connection! I am always up for some good kissing!

[+ Gar1eth]

I'm also quite fond of a guy blowing in my ear and nibbling on my neck.

 

 

Gman