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We have had a bit of fun of late down here with various aspects of nipple play. However, I thought it would be educational to investigate some of the more serious aspects of tit play and torture and especially for beginners.

 

It is common knowledge that nipples are one of the more erogenous zones. The whole point of nipple play is to heighten the effect of that already erogenous zone so as to induce increased pleasure. Of course some guys are totally satisfied with a bit of nipple action using the fingers, tongue, mouth, and possibly the teeth... and have no desire to bring things to the next level. Still others want to explore the more advanced facets of nip play.

 

The same way it is a good idea to warm up the sub when doing a flogging scene, so too it is advisable to warm up the sub's nips to ease them into maximum pleasure and especially if clamps are to be employed... and especially if they are a beginner. More than one guy has lamented the fact that they tried the nip thing and just could not tolerate its more adventurous aspects. Very often guys will first experiment with clothespins without any warm up phase as that is something that is probably more easily accessible. Since they can't be adjusted many are unable to endure the pain and think that nip play is not for them. That is unfortunate.

 

The way to gently initiate the action for a beginner it to is initially tease the nips by gently grabbing and manipulating them so as to make them more erect. That way it will be easier to place the clamps on the nips. This if course can and probably should be combined with a bit of sucking and tongue action as noted above so as to get the nip excited and prepared to go to the next level. In any event, the idea is not only to begin to heighten the erotic sensations, but also to get a bit of blood to get into the nip so as to make it more distended as this will give more tissue for the clamp to grasp.

 

http://38.media.tumblr.com/3205ff55aa55f9ffb7d6fc18d86b03ac/tumblr_n6mcc0ro2I1tcdetvo1_1280.jpg

(1. Teasing the nip... sorry I could not find a pic of two hot guys doing it.)

 

 

Of course there are different types of clamps and for a beginner adjustable clamps are advised and they should be set at a position to barely grasp the nip tissue... and for beginners it is advisable to grasp a greater amount of tissue as opposed to placing them directly on the tip of the nip. Of course this must be done in a gentle fashion because snapping them on suddenly will cause a burst of pain can can prove to be unsettling to a novice. Even then some guys can't withstand the pressure for very long when trying it for the first time. That is understandable and when first doing it one should limit the wear time to only a few minutes. One can then gradually not only increase the pressure of the adjustable clamps, but the time factor as well... not to mention the placement. This can be obviously be accomplished "in private" over time so as to get one's nips acclimated to the basic process. Practice makes perfect, and with practice one's nips will eventually be ready for prime time. Still, one must use a bit of common sense. If the nipples become swollen, change color, or feel numb, the clamps should be promptly removed.

 

http://38.media.tumblr.com/4a6755ecede9ca3a96db85c3cbfbcbee/tumblr_n5jrk1esgC1tsfu5jo1_500.jpg

(2. Adjustable clamps... After being distracted by the guy's awesome pecs note the turn screws on the devices.)

 

 

Nipple clamps and toys come in various types from adjustable to non adjustable. Some have a claw effect to grip the nip, some act like tweezers, and some are devised like a vice. There are even elastic nipple rings. One of the most preferred nip toys are Japanese clovers aka butterfly clamps. They can't be adjusted, but do exert increased pressure as they are pulled or if weights are attached. The main feature concerns the fact that they are not prone to dislodging due to the fact that they grip so tightly. When strategically placed the amount of pressure can be somewhat altered. Grasp more tissue for a less intense effect and place them closer to the tip in order to increase the intensity.

 

Other objects such as the aforementioned clothespins and even hemostats can be used as well. Of course there are nipple suckers and suction cups available for those who prefer a less biting effect. The most vicious are probably those where magnets are employed... and not magnets that are utilized as weights. Rather small magnetic marble-like balls are placed on either side of the nipple and as the magnets attempt to make contact they viciously don't give up. The pressure only increases and increases exponentially if gradually over time. This places quite a bit of constructing pressure on the nips. They are probably compatible only for the most advanced players... Which is why they are called the magnetic balls from hell. Still, they look cool and give the appearance of a nipple piercing. Unfortunately a big drawback concerns the fact that the magnets get attracted to other metal objects. Therefore they might not be practical when wearing a harness or using any other objects that are constructed with metal. I learned this the hard way... I was wearing them when I was flogging a sub and didn't realize that the flogger's handle was constructed partially of metal. Somehow the flogger handle got too close and suddenly ripped the magnets from one of my nips... Ouch!!!

 

 

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How nip clamps are removed can elicit a different effect, and different players prefer different outcomes. When removed slowly there is a minimal sensation. When released quickly there is a rush of sharp pain... an almost searing effect... that penetrates the nipple. Some guys like when the clamps are removed in such a fashion so as to be perfectly timed with cuming. When ones nips are hot-wired to the cock the synergistic effect of simultaneously experiencing pain from the nips and the surge from cuming can elicit an "off the charts" pleasure. Incidentally, there is science behind this as nip clamps trap blood in the nipple and that increases the pressure. When released quickly there is an intense rush of blood back into the nipple. Either way the nip is now more sensitive after the clamp is removed.

 

Of course many guys want to continue the action after the clamps are removed and postpone cuming. The nips are now literally singing with pain and now is the time to really begin their torture... Be it from flogging the chest, working them over with a slap paddle, or twisting, pulling, sucking, and biting. Other options can be the use of ice, hot wax, and even a bit of cigar action with ash flicked on the nips. At this point even gentle tongue action can prove to be quite painful. Some guys have even been known to want to add insult to injury and reapply the clamps after their nips have been additionally tortured to achieve that final denouement of exquisite synergistic pleasure as the clamps are subsequently removed the second time around.

 

http://38.media.tumblr.com/7c77a28f55cac38b8fb4ca3ab7d3b840/tumblr_n4brmjrhR81sylqako1_1280.jpg

(3. Note the redness on the guy's chest. I'm sure there was a bit of advance play so his nips must have really been singing at this point!)

 

 

Other options for nip play include piercing and the use of clamps with unprotected tips and/or sharp pin like projections. Since these can potentially induce bleeding such devices are to be avoided Another situation that is not recommended is the use of electrical stimulation. In fact any type of electrical play should be avoided above the waist. Of course a few years ago not realizing this I foolishly did partake in such activities. I even wrote a review where I and a former EOY were wired in tandem and we challenged each other to see who would cry uncle first as the dials were turned up. It was a draw, but emphatically not something I would consider doing today. We all at some point in time do unwise things that show poor judgment. That was one of my poorer choices.

 

Incidentally, at times one nipple can be more sensitive than the other. One favorite escort now retired had a very sensitive left nip. That was the one to work on if you wanted to push his buttons... He jokingly admitted that playing with the other one would get you absolutely nowhere!! Accordingly some adjustments might need to be made regarding how each individual nip is to be "accommodated".

 

In summary, the possibilities are indeed virtually endless and can run the entire gamut from mild to wild. Either way, and very often after a more aggressive session, nip play can prove to be the gift that keeps on giving as the nips can be sensitive for days on end post session.

 

So pick your level of pleasure, play responsibly, and enjoy to the max!

 

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(4. At times simple things can give the most pleasure... Or are these guys just getting warmed up for the main event?!?!)

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My Fantasy Nipple Scenario

 

My personal fantasy nipple predicament. Upside-down suspension, Japanese clovers, weights! Of course the chest and nips get worked over with the crop and ultimately get flogged as well after the clamps are removed. The clamps get reapplied, the undies ripped off, the cock and balls are "played" with, a bit of edging occurs, and when finally allowed to cum the clamps are ripped off at the precise moment... Yes, the most heavenly denouement imaginable!!! I doubt that I would be able to do it upside-down at this stage... right-side up and feet planted firmly on the floor would probably not be an issue... but it's fun fantasizing about such a scenario!

 

http://38.media.tumblr.com/8bf558c2f21621fa25b82a8b654ca64d/tumblr_n7v03yh35x1so34pto1_1280.jpg

 

PS: I love the smile on the guys face...PRICELESS!

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Two excellent posts WG. The first was more informative than I could have imagined. Yes admitted newbie here, and I learned several new things, and learned I made some classic mistakes, like allowing someone to use clothes pins on me. Dear God, what was I thinking. I am also learning that to enjoy maximum about of pleasure, your partner must be focused and his senses dialed in to the sub. I have taken note of several suggestions that you made that will enhance the experience.

 

I think that there is a level of intensity of pleasure that I want to achieve, and finding someone who is as tuned in as I would be, is probably paramount to all other aspects of nipple play. And by that I don't mean necessarily increased pain. As you have already figured out, that is not really what I'm interested in. To this day I can remember with unbelievable clarity an experience I had with nipple play, well let's just say 30+ years ago, with a guy who was so focused on the intensity of my pleasure as well as his, that we would just lay there, for what seemed like hours, and just get lost in the extreme pleasure of it all. I have not been able to duplicate that feeling, but think about it all the time. The more I learn, the more I realize that my approach was all wrong. I have made some classic mistakes, like not finding the right partner. Anyway, I'm rambling, but this was a pretty intense post to read before coffee.

 

Now as far as your second post regarding the upside down suspension scene is concerned, we have had some good laughs about it, but the only thing I can think of when I see an image of it being performed is "neck injury"...and I know that's probably non existent, and many will say a non-issue, but all I can think of is, what if there was a mishap, and you hit the floor head first. I don't care what the distance would be, I just see serious neck and spinal cord damage that could result in paralysis. OK, admitted, I can be a bit of a buzz kill, so you may not want to invite me to your next party, lol...but I just can't get it out of my head. Although when you say that he gets his undies ripped off, and the cock and balls flop out to be played with, that's pretty hot too.

 

At any rate, excellent information and excellent posts. Two thumbs up!!

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Thanks for the post... for one who has no connection between his nipples and other parts of his body, this does not really excite me, although I can see that it is intense pleasure for those who are so wired. I met one fellow in LA who was an excellent masseurand would occassionally escort as well. His nips were so sensitive and directly wired to his cock. You could play with his nips alone, get him erect and eventually cum without touching anything but his nips. I have never met anyone else like that before or since. Unfortunately, he moved back to Australia, but I have great memories of being with him. So, BVB... good luck on your quest !!! :D for perfection in this department...

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WG, So is it your contention that with the right amount pre-play that anyone could increase there enjoyment of nipple play with the right amount of foreplay? I enjoy gentle kissing, sucking of my nipples, but I turn around when I sense discomfort. So, I do I get past this? I would love know since I have an upcoming appointment that the participant loves NP.

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WG, So is it your contention that with the right amount pre-play that anyone could increase there enjoyment of nipple play with the right amount of foreplay? I enjoy gentle kissing, sucking of my nipples, but I turn around when I sense discomfort. So, I do I get past this? I would love know since I have an upcoming appointment that the participant loves NP.
If you have something on the horizon I would practice in private as noted above in anticipation of the event... Practice will hopefully get your nips ready for the main event... Plus with any luck the participant of whom you speak knows a thing or two as well... That would certainly help! Hopefully you will enjoy to the max!
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BVB... Regarding the suspension scene, most every time that I have seen it done there was some sort of stool with a soft padding placed under the subject's head so as to cushion things. That does not mean that something could not go wrong, but it would theoretically minimize any potential complications.

 

If you look closely you can see the red stool under the guy's head. This is usually the standard at the NYBC.

 

http://nybondageclub.com/images/04082012/DSC00781.jpg

 

Once again note the smile on the guy's face! ;)

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Excellent and "exciting" post WG. As you know, I am a nipple play lover ever since childhood, and I've tried every technique and device that you mention (plus others like weighted vise grips!). Love it all. One caveat, NEVER do any oral stimulation on magnetic nipple clamps. It's too easy to accidentally get them in your mouth and cause yourself real GI trouble.

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Excellent and "exciting" post WG. As you know, I am a nipple play lover ever since childhood, and I've tried every technique and device that you mention (plus others like weighted vise grips!). Love it all. One caveat, NEVER do any oral stimulation on magnetic nipple clamps. It's too easy to accidentally get them in your mouth and cause yourself real GI trouble.

 

Or lose a filling?!

 

On a serious note: Thank you Whipped Guy for the multitude of good information. As you know, I am enjoying your suggested Japanese Clovers to the max, especially as I get ready for a particular event.

 

I have extremely sensitive nipples and when I had my first good erotic massage (not the kind with 80 minutes of so-so massage, then 10 minutes of rub and tug) I went ballistic, and I hung on (to a particular part) for dear life! I did have an experience with the wrong kind of clamps and when they were removed (albeit, carefully) I also went ballistic, and not in a good way! It took me a long time to get back to where I wanted to add them again. The Clovers are great because of the smooth grips and they don't eat into you. I'm slowly working up the time as you suggested. Just picture me vacuuming and doing the laundry with those chains hanging down!

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Excellent and "exciting" post WG. As you know, I am a nipple play lover ever since childhood, and I've tried every technique and device that you mention (plus others like weighted vise grips!). Love it all. One caveat, NEVER do any oral stimulation on magnetic nipple clamps. It's too easy to accidentally get them in your mouth and cause yourself real GI trouble.

 

 

Or lose a filling?!
Or crack a tooth! Or if you have a removable metal base partial denture... and you end up with a mouthful of metal balls!! Not the type of suckable balls with which one normally would want to deal.

 

 

On a serious note: Thank you Whipped Guy for the multitude of good information. As you know, I am enjoying your suggested Japanese Clovers to the max... Just picture me vacuuming and doing the laundry with those chains hanging down!
Or my favorite... Mowing the lawn...

 

 

PS: In all seriousness... Unsub2017 is totally correct with his caveat about the magnetic balls from hell. I had forgotten to mention that and I appreciate his input as that is an important safety issue that I should have addressed.

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I'm almost speechless. That was amazing. I loved how he took him to the edge and back so many times. Thanks for the post. Two thumbs up.

 

Hot, but what was that long [presumably electrical] device? What is its purpose, and does it hurt, hurt? Apparently the guy was in pain or in lots of ecstasy!! Answer this for me, please because it's all new to me!!!

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Hot, but what was that long [presumably electrical] device? What is its purpose, and does it hurt, hurt? Apparently the guy was in pain or in lots of ecstasy!! Answer this for me, please because it's all new to me!!!

It's a Magic Wand vibrator type thing... Sort of like an electrical spinning rolling pin... Not technically an electrical device where electricity is directly delivered to the area such as a Violet Wand. It stimulates the area mechanically vs. directly with electrical current. It massages rather than hurts... But with clothespins, clamps, etc... it can cause a "disturbance" to the nips... it all depends on how you perceive things! The original Magic Wand is shown below:

 

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