how much to offer non-pro?

[Doe Be Doe]

To clarify: are we talking - for example - about those advertising as pros on a4a or are we talking about finding a regular ad and offering them money or both ?

[imrthr]

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It is called evolution and competition.

 

I have had a recent hire off of CL, he fit my bill to a 't'. Tall dark and handsome, struggling actor, sweating waiter. Dangerous not, kid is awesome and I will see him again.

 

The above being said, what about a 'well reviewed' $250/ hour escort reviewed here who ripped off a series of clients. Don't know all the details, but Caveat Emptor !!!!

 

 

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With reference to armadillo’s post, let me say that my observation shows that too many professional escorts “shoot themselves in the foot” which causes many clients to seek non “professional” escorts.

 

There are a number of reasons for my conclusion.

 

I will cite just one example that relates to the agreed, contracted physical time with a professional escort, be it one, two or more hours.

 

Occasionally, some escorts stay with a client longer than the agreed or contracted time and chat with a client and some actually invite themselves for dinner or lunch or even a trip (at a client’s expense). This friendly “gesture” appears as a good thing until an escort, who has invited himself, asks to be paid for his time at lunch or dinner, even though the client is footing the bill for the meal.

 

I and a some friends have experienced a similar situation described above. For us, the above described attitude and behavior of the professional escort destroy any desire to contract for future time with that professional escort even though the physical encounter with the escort may have been great.

 

There are some clients on this forum who feel it is appropriate for an escort to “charge” for his non sex time while having dinner or conversations with clients. I can understand that opinion provided an understanding of payment is made in advance of the dinner or extra non sex time.

 

Paying a professional escort for sex is quite different from paying an escort to sit with you at a restaurant while you pay the restaurant bill. Paying anyone to sit with you while having a meal is self-deprecating and borders on desperate behavior. That is not a healthy thing for a client or anyone, for that matter.

 

As I wrote above, the above is but one example. This example plus others I could cite is the reason many professional escorts sit home, in vain, waiting for the telephone to ring, for a text message to arrive or an e-mail in their inbox.

 

As the above poster wrote, “it is called evolution and competition.”

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[bigvalboy]

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With reference to armadillo’s post, let me say that my observation shows that too many professional escorts “shoot themselves in the foot” which causes many clients to seek non “professional” escorts.

 

There are a number of reasons for my conclusion.

 

I will cite just one example that relates to the agreed, contracted physical time with a professional escort, be it one, two or more hours.

 

Occasionally, some escorts stay with a client longer than the agreed or contracted time and chat with a client and some actually invite themselves for dinner or lunch or even a trip (at a client’s expense). This friendly “gesture” appears as a good thing until an escort, who has invited himself, asks to be paid for his time at lunch or dinner, even though the client is footing the bill for the meal.

 

I and a some friends have experienced a similar situation described above. For us, the above described attitude and behavior of the professional escort destroy any desire to contract for future time with that professional escort even though the physical encounter with the escort may have been great.

 

There are some clients on this forum who feel it is appropriate for an escort to “charge” for his non sex time while having dinner or conversations with clients. I can understand that opinion provided an understanding of payment is made in advance of the dinner or extra non sex time.

 

Paying a professional escort for sex is quite different from paying an escort to sit with you at a restaurant while you pay the restaurant bill. Paying anyone to sit with you while having a meal is self-deprecating and borders on desperate behavior. That is not a healthy thing for a client or anyone, for that matter.

 

As I wrote above, the above is but one example. This example plus others I could cite is the reason many professional escorts sit home, in vain, waiting for the telephone to ring, for a text message to arrive or an e-mail in their inbox.

 

As the above poster wrote, “it is called evolution and competition.”

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