Here comes my weekend of firsts.

[wisconsinguy]

Thanks to everyone for all the support, advice, AND humor in my multiple posts leading to this weekend. I really would have not forged forward if it would not have been for all who took time to post or PM me. Still feel like a virgin being led to the sacrifice a bit. Will let all know how things went next week.

[+ purplekow]

Well with the escort you have chosen you wont be a virgin for long and it will be no sacrifice. You may walk like you have been altered though.

[+ Gar1eth]

Thanks to everyone for all the support, advice, AND humor in my multiple posts leading to this weekend. I really would have not forged forward if it would not have been for all who took time to post or PM me. Still feel like a virgin being led to the sacrifice a bit. Will let all know how things went next week.

 

I must have missed a few posts. I hope you have fun!! But could you recap the planned schedule for those of us too lazy to go through all the old posts?

 

Gman

[bigvalboy]

Thanks to everyone for all the support, advice, AND humor in my multiple posts leading to this weekend. I really would have not forged forward if it would not have been for all who took time to post or PM me. Still feel like a virgin being led to the sacrifice a bit. Will let all know how things went next week.

Well I for one have my fingers crossed that it will be nothing short of memorable. Decades later, I can still remember my first hire as if it were yesterday. You will never ever forget. So glad that you shared this experience with all of us here on the MF. Take care Wisconsinguy and be safe, and we will anxiously await your report.

Cheers, BVB

[leigh.bess.toad]

As we are gathering in DC this weekend, I will still be thinking of you and hoping it is everything you could imagine and so much more. We all look forward to your reports. Give your gentleman a big hug and kiss from me.

 

Have fun, my friend.

[wisconsinguy]

I must have missed a few posts. I hope you have fun!! But could you recap the planned schedule for those of us too lazy to go through all the old posts?

 

Gman

Sure. Have been going back and forth for a number of weeks in this forum re: My first time experience, which happens this weekend. Many of the same questions that your have seen from newbies. Have received as I said, a lot of good advice, in the form of straight up what not to do, or strongly not recommended. The most adamant of which was the length of time for my first experience. Many suggested that I only go for an hr or a few at the most. I decided to stick with a weekend. So I'm driving to chicago to connect with my gentlemen early tomorrow eve, and stay into Sunday. I did share with a few of they guys/gals whom I chose. I believe that when I did share with them who it was, that made a difference of the length of time. I even asked the question of paying in advance. And really, just wanted to show my commitment. Did listen to that one I even talked with him today, and trying to work out staying with him until Monday. Even he said, "Maybe you won't even like me!" I don't think that going to be a problem. So I've got my pockets full of condoms, and dug up some fresh Viagra. That's a flash up to date of what's been going on, and travel. Not sleeping too much, but trying to tell myself what Lee has been saying all along. "Just remember to breathe." I know CPR pretty well, so hopefully I can identify it, so I can start it on myself! Rand

[Daverwr]

Just shake off the nerves and go with it. Don't get uptight if things go off-plan. That's when it can be the most fun. I was petrified my first time and I was in a foreign country. You'll do fine. Driving home you'll be planning your next one! It's addictive! Keep us posted.

[+ FreshFluff]

Just shake off the nerves and go with it. Don't get uptight if things go off-plan. That's when it can be the most fun. I was petrified my first time and I was in a foreign country. You'll do fine. Driving home you'll be planning your next one! It's addictive! Keep us posted.

 

I agree with just going with the flow if things go a bit off plan. Sometimes, going off plan leads you to discover something new.

 

Like Dave, I have a good feeling about this weekend! Have a great time!

[+ Gar1eth]

Have you shared who the fellow is yet? I remember my 1st guy. He was an out of towner. And I was a total virgin. I hadn't even French kissed before. But I walk all nervous into his hotel room. He has two beds. He explains that one is for business, and one is for sleeping. I think he also mentions that he is having a client for overnight several hours after I leave. I'm thinking to myself- who would ever want to sleep with a stranger? Well after a bit more hiring - and 12 months later it was me having an overnight with the sincerely missed Richard of DC/Baltimore. I had scheduled only an overnight. I had to get up before him the following day- left him asleep with cab fare to the airport. You don't know how much I wished I had hired him for the weekend. But I couldn't because I had a convention to go to.

 

Best wishes on your experience.

 

Gman

[wisconsinguy]

Have you shared who the fellow is yet? I remember my 1st guy. He was an out of towner. And I was a total virgin. I hadn't even French kissed before. But I walk all nervous into his hotel room. He has two beds. He explains that one is for business, and one is for sleeping. I think he also mentions that he is having a client for overnight several hours after I leave. I'm thinking to myself- who would ever want to sleep with a stranger? Well after a bit more hiring - and 12 months later it was me having an overnight with the sincerely missed Richard of DC/Baltimore. I had scheduled only an overnight. I had to get up before him the following day- left him asleep with cab fare to the airport. You don't know how much I wished I had hired him for the weekend. But I couldn't because I had a convention to go to.

 

Best wishes on your experience.

 

Gman

I have. I have been more so in our emails than in talking. When I was fumbling around with what I have never done, he assured me he would take care of "in bedroom actiivities, as well as out of bedroom activities." Of course that made me what to puke! "What's he going to do to me? I need more of a plan." I'm better, really. I'm ready for this. I will not back out. I will let him guide, take control. Maybe.

[wisconsinguy]

I have. I have been more so in our emails than in talking. When I was fumbling around with what I have never done, he assured me he would take care of "in bedroom actiivities, as well as out of bedroom activities." Of course that made me what to puke! "What's he going to do to me/ I need more of a plan." I'm better, really. I'm ready for this. I will not back out. I will let him guide, take control. Maybe.

Remember when you where in that period of life, that prepubescent area? Don't know if the girls felt it. When we just thought about sex in some way. The description of raging hormone?

I so recall that period of actually feeling in my abdomen, which can only be described as "butterflies.' Remember it like yesterday. Mostly because it was! Well, I have has those lately. Almost like fluttering. Too many hormone floating around. Feels kind of neat. I'll use the extra hormones for my advantage! Rand

[bobchitown]

Now comes the fun part! Just relax, walk in the door and give the guy a big hug and kiss, and take it from there!

[+ Funguy]

As bobchitown said, give ..... a big kiss, then take a big breath, say hi, I'm Rand. Let your man do the driving, settle back and let it all unfold. I gave you some tips in an earlier PM so don't forget to review 1 in particular as I know your guy will appreciate.

 

Now, off you go you lucky devil!

[+ purplekow]

I just received a message from the OP, 5 copies of the message in fact. I assume his brain is moving so fast that he sent the message over and over again without realizing it. I do not think I am telling tales out of school to say it went well. I am sure he will be posting some of the details soon. Congrats to him.

[+ FreshFluff]

I just received a message from the OP, 5 copies of the message in fact. I assume his brain is moving so fast that he sent the message over and over again without realizing it. I do not think I am telling tales out of school to say it went well. I am sure he will be posting some of the details soon. Congrats to him.

 

I think he may have tried to PM a number of people at once and left some overlaps in the list.

[Phil_musc]

We heard so much during the build-up and now that the deed is done we hear nothing. Perhaps our guy is in recovery mode, but hell - it's Tuesday. Shouldn't he be up and around by now?

[+ azdr0710]

We heard so much during the build-up and now that the deed is done we hear nothing. Perhaps our guy is in recovery mode, but hell - it's Tuesday. Shouldn't he be up and around by now?

 

 

he made a quick recap in another thread, but is politely withholding more info for the review as per Daddy's policy