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There's an escort who always gets positive reviews. I contacted him, and he kept changing the day we were to meet. All of a sudden, today he could meet (I heard from him at 12:30) for a 4:00 p.m. appt. I agreed. Then he could only meet at 3:00 (got this email at 1:00). I asked him to call so we could clarify the meeting location (Van Ness Hot Tubs). I did again ask to speak to him (to clarify the price for 2 hours). Then an emergency came up! It was clear to me he never read any of my email closely.

 

I was nothing but nice and professional, and it was alot of running to the bank and rearranging my plans. However, he gets great reviews, and I would get flamed.

 

I have reviewed escorts here many times, my last review was of Mitch Bronson. I always feel I approach escorts and treat them well. I just thought it was unprofessional and he had little concern about my convenience. A review on this behavior might help him in the long run.

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sorry that happened to you....very frustrating since you were probably all psyched to meet him

 

I don't think "no show" reviews are allowed in the regular review section at Daddy's.....no-shows are a perennial concern here and I don't remember how they are treated here in the forum....case-by-case, I think, but it will turn into drama if you name names here in the forum...you may try to search for an old thread on him, if it exists, and add to it....I think that might be allowed

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If you submit a bad review of a "favorite escort," and your "handle" for the review is the same

as your identity on this separate part of "Daddy's Review"--get prepared to be criticized

(and, sometimes even screamed at) by other members of the forum. It's like you are attacking

their best beloved buddy. At one level this is very understandable, as this is almost like a small

family. But you may find it unbearable. If you are thick-skinned..go for it. If you are a very sensitive

person, not used to really personal criticism even on an anonymous forum, it can be very hurtful.

 

[Colleagues: does that about sum it up? What do you think?]

 

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First, Daddy doesn't publish reviews of encounters that did not happen. Based on what you wrote, the encounter did not happen. Ergo, a review of an encounter that did not happen would not get published.

 

Second, there is a high probability that something is going on right now that culminated in an emergency this afternoon. If you are still interested in hiring him, send him an email saying so and suggest getting together after the holidays. I recognize what I said does not erase any frustration you are feeling, but it does offer a different perspective on what might be going on.

 

Hope this helps.

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There's an escort who always gets positive reviews. I contacted him, and he kept changing the day we were to meet. All of a sudden, today he could meet (I heard from him at 12:30) for a 4:00 p.m. appt. I agreed. Then he could only meet at 3:00 (got this email at 1:00). I asked him to call so we could clarify the meeting location (Van Ness Hot Tubs). I did again ask to speak to him (to clarify the price for 2 hours). Then an emergency came up! It was clear to me he never read any of my email closely.

 

I was nothing but nice and professional, and it was alot of running to the bank and rearranging my plans. However, he gets great reviews, and I would get flamed.

 

I have reviewed escorts here many times, my last review was of Mitch Bronson. I always feel I approach escorts and treat them well. I just thought it was unprofessional and he had little concern about my convenience. A review on this behavior might help him in the long run.

 

I don’t believe you can post a review of a no-show. If you can, and you expect you’re going to have to defend yourself in the forum, you might as well go ahead and admit in the review that everything was your fault.

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Welcome Calrichmond. If I'm reading your post correctly, by an "emergency came up" do you mean that the hire never occurred? My initial take is that you never actually went through with the hire. If that is true, then writing a negative review on a 'no-show' is not something that would be published, or rarely is. You can check with Admin, but that is my understanding. Sorry that this happened to you. No-shows are not uncommon, in the hiring process, on both sides, and to be fair, emergencies do happen. It might appear to be unprofessional on the surface, but you just never know. I tend not to let those kinds of things bother me. Keep all of this in perspective and always have a plan B. ;)

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There's an escort who always gets positive reviews. I contacted him, and he kept changing the day we were to meet. All of a sudden, today he could meet (I heard from him at 12:30) for a 4:00 p.m. appt. I agreed. Then he could only meet at 3:00 (got this email at 1:00). I asked him to call so we could clarify the meeting location (Van Ness Hot Tubs). I did again ask to speak to him (to clarify the price for 2 hours). Then an emergency came up! It was clear to me he never read any of my email closely.

 

I was nothing but nice and professional, and it was alot of running to the bank and rearranging my plans. However, he gets great reviews, and I would get flamed.

 

I have reviewed escorts here many times, my last review was of Mitch Bronson. I always feel I approach escorts and treat them well. I just thought it was unprofessional and he had little concern about my convenience. A review on this behavior might help him in the long run.

 

If you submit a bad review of a "favorite escort," and your "handle" for the review is the same

as your identity on this separate part of "Daddy's Review"--get prepared to be criticized

(and, sometimes even screamed at) by other members of the forum. It's like you are attacking

their best beloved buddy. At one level this is very understandable, as this is almost like a small

family. But you may find it unbearable. If you are thick-skinned..go for it. If you are a very sensitive

person, not used to really personal criticism even on an anonymous forum, it can be very hurtful.

 

[Colleagues: does that about sum it up? What do you think?]

 

BC

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BC is spot on.

 

Don't do it. Escorts are allowed to jerk you around like a yo-yo and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it on this website. That is management's decision and we abide by it or we go somewhere else, end of discussion. Simply move on and be thankful you didn't lose money on travel expenses or pay a deposit that you would never see again. This escort is displaying behavior that I 100% guarantee he would not accept from you. If an escort will not respect your time, you have no reason to waste any more time or effort on him. Find another escort that will respect you as much as you will respect him instead.

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If an escort will not respect your time, you have no reason to waste any more time or effort on him. Find another escort that will respect you as much as you will respect him instead.

 

Well said, DTB. It's been my personal experience that if an escort is unprofessional (i.e., jerks you around) while scheduling the appointment, he'll most likely be less than professional and disappointing during our time together too.

 

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There's always three (if not more) sides to every story. If you didn't actually meet the escort, there is no grounds to review. Perhaps you should review your language in contacting or maybe there was something said that could raise a red flag? Just asking. I know some escorts will stop communicating if you're overtly vulger or give a hint of not being a serious client. Or perhaps he did actually have an emergency. If he's a well reviewed escort that would be pretty crappy to make a possibly already unfortunate situation turn into even more of one. Personally, I would just move on and let it go. There's plenty of escorts in the sea.

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On the other hand, if we all got better at PMing each other about these types of things it wouldn't take long before forum members knew what escorts to avoid. Although you can't review someone that you've never been with, imagine what airlines would be like if they weren't required to report late or cancelled flights? I'm absolutely sure there are two sides to everything, but that's true when an encounter takes place and a review is written too. Quite honestly I would tend to be more concerned about this type of behavior since it should apply to everyone, whereas in an encounter where so much depends on chemistry what could be a horrible client or escort for one person could be great for another. I know that my favorite escort in the world probably has other clients who strongly dislike him, but I don't think anyone is being unfair, it's just that different personalities "click" or don't.

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I understand how you feel, but let it go--these things happen. I would also advise not to try to hire him again, because your irritation over this experience will color your attitude toward the next one with him. If other posters ask about him--posters often do ask about our experience even with frequently reviewed escorts, because lots of clients don't submit reviews--send them a PM about your experience with him rather than discussing it in a post, to avoid negative blowback against yourself.

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Well, as a different perspective, post his name here and now. If you get grief, so what. You feel put upon by someone in a service industry and this is one of the review sites for that industry, even at the holiday season Santa gives coal to those who have been bad. So name names and i will thank you for it (as long as it is not one of my favorites, then 'i will hunt you down and make you sorry you ever learned how to type.)

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True... some people will get upset if you mention this "well reviewed" escort; some won't care; and yet, some will be grateful, even curious to know of whom you speak. It's solely up to you to mention who this escort is.

 

I have spoken about particular escorts who I know rather well and been pm'd about there conduct or lack there of. :-) So expect the gamut of responses... good and bad.

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I understand how you feel, but let it go--these things happen. I would also advise not to try to hire him again, because your irritation over this experience will color your attitude toward the next one with him. If other posters ask about him--posters often do ask about our experience even with frequently reviewed escorts, because lots of clients don't submit reviews--send them a PM about your experience with him rather than discussing it in a post, to avoid negative blowback against yourself.

 

Totally Agree! Suck it up and Move On ..it's all part of The Wonderful World of the Working Guys"!

 

We have all at one time or another run into an Alleged Popular Stud who personally was not our experience! ;)

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There's an escort who always gets positive reviews. I contacted him, and he kept changing the day we were to meet. All of a sudden, today he could meet (I heard from him at 12:30) for a 4:00 p.m. appt. I agreed. Then he could only meet at 3:00 (got this email at 1:00). I asked him to call so we could clarify the meeting location (Van Ness Hot Tubs). I did again ask to speak to him (to clarify the price for 2 hours). Then an emergency came up! It was clear to me he never read any of my email closely.

 

I was nothing but nice and professional, and it was alot of running to the bank and rearranging my plans. However, he gets great reviews, and I would get flamed.

 

I have reviewed escorts here many times, my last review was of Mitch Bronson. I always feel I approach escorts and treat them well. I just thought it was unprofessional and he had little concern about my convenience. A review on this behavior might help him in the long run.

 

I never understood not just coming right out and saying the name of the escort in question. This is an open forum and the escort can refute your claims if he wishes to. So what if his fan base gets up in arms? Yes, emergencies come up but these men are professionals. Did he offer to reschedule? Discount the session when it occurs? Do anything but say "sorry emergency, maybe next time?"

 

Thankfully I haven't had a bad experience or a rescheduling nightmare happen yet but if I did, and if it was someone vetted by this forum, I sure as heck would come here and open the floor. Isn't that what we are here for?

 

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I never understood not just coming right out and saying the name of the escort in question. This is an open forum and the escort can refute your claims if he wishes to. So what if his fan base gets up in arms? Yes, emergencies come up but these men are professionals. Did he offer to reschedule? Discount the session when it occurs? Do anything but say "sorry emergency, maybe next time?"

 

Thankfully I haven't had a bad experience or a rescheduling nightmare happen yet but if I did, and if it was someone vetted by this forum, I sure as heck would come here and open the floor. Isn't that what we are here for?

 

While there may be a strong bias toward very popular escorts here, it seems truly unfair to mention him by name in the forum when the rules do not allow reviews of no shows. For once, I would be glad that the bias exists on the site.

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I have had more than a few cancelations with a very well known well liked (here at least) escort from CA. I was out time and his airfare. I didn't mind the money part of a loss, but he handled it by then ignoring my emails. I think he just wanted it all to go away

 

I think some of these more popular guys can't manage a schedule and it shows. more than a few 'names' have been accused of not returning email, double booking and other things

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Here's what I've never understood about this entire thing from the get-go of participating here:

 

While this site has many functions, it seems to me that its core purpose is to provide a place for clients to exchange information with each other so that we can make informed choices before spending lots of money on escorts.

 

To that end, I would consider it a key piece of information to know who keeps appointments and who breaks them (and especially who breaks them when it involves prepaid airfare).

 

Now I do understand you can't review an event that never occurred. Here's what I don't understand: Why don't we have any other mechanism to relay the events of an appointment not kept? Said escort could always provide his side of the story of why he dropped the appointment.

 

It would be a great service to me if I had the ability to learn from other clients which escorts habitually set and then don't keep appointments. And how do you know it's habitual? Well, if we all were able to get on here and relay the information, patterns would start to emerge over time. The escort who habitually appointment drops would soon enough be distinguished from the escort who has the rare emergency if we actually could relay the information.

 

So do we have any mechanism at hand on this forum to find this out, or will the current rules of the forum leave us perpetually in the dark? While I really value this forum, the inability to find out about no-show repeat offenders is a serious weakness.

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I have had more than a few cancelations with a very well known well liked (here at least) escort from CA. I was out time and his airfare. I didn't mind the money part of a loss, but he handled it by then ignoring my emails. I think he just wanted it all to go away

 

I think some of these more popular guys can't manage a schedule and it shows. more than a few 'names' have been accused of not returning email, double booking and other things

 

I'd be furious over that loss of money. In fact, the fear of being stood up on a fly-in is the main reason why I have never done one. Too many stories from clients about that happening -- and no mechanism to relay who was involved. Apparently, the way I understand it, I can't come on here later and say: Beware, I paid $450 to fly escort John Doe to Atlanta and he never showed up. I can't raise him on e-mail or phone to find out why.

 

So not knowing the ones who have done this pretty well makes everyone a suspect because it apparently happens a lot. Gosh, the escort I'd really like to fly out to me next year might be the one who did this and I have no way of knowing with the way things are set up now.

 

I'm simply not in a financial position to pay for plane tickets on the off-chance the escort might show up. Some of you might have that kind of money. I don't.

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To quote Decatur Guy:

 

"So not knowing the ones who have done this pretty well makes everyone a suspect because it apparently happens a lot. Gosh, the escort I'd really like to fly out to me next year might be the one who did this and I have no way of knowing with the way things are set up now."

 

This is a problem and yesterday afternoon a popular Califofornia escort said basically the the same thing on this thread. He thought the escort should be identified.

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