Just a question

[bigvalboy]

I second missing your posts while you were away. Glad you are back BVB!

 

Thanks tom1980....Always good to come home again.

[Steven_Draker]

Now if you ask me to choose between two risks, the unlikely chance of an animal attacking two healthy male adults or going into the woods with an ex cop, doing something illegal (escorting) far away from civilization while the said ex cop carries a gun... I think we have all watched that movie and know how it ends. Buddy, I am not saying that you are a sick psycho luring dumb boys into the woods to get your jollies, I am just sharing with you the way I asses the possible risks of different sessions. I am sure you are the salt of the earth, the nicest guy ever, but I am not taking a sunset walk in the remote woods with an armed stranger.

 

I'm wondering what the reaction would be if buddy12 wasn't a stranger?

 

If someone really wished to harm you, he wouldn't even mention the gun in the initial conversation.

[+ buddy12]

Hey guys, first off let me say I really appreciate all the great feedback. I've been gone for a couple of days and just came back to the aftermath of a major ice storm...powers out and may not come back on for 5 days but I do have a generator for such dilemmas! Just to let you guys know, the escort I talked about has contacted me back and said this is not a problem. Maybe I jumped the gun a bit, he did tell me that December is busy for him but after 10 days of not hearing from him, I thought it was my bad on the gun thing. We'll see how it goes and I'll surely get back and let you know. But let me address a couple of things here...I had no idea this would generate so much response...I almost have to write a book!

 

First, BSR, I wish I could do a meet and greet. Unfortunately, I live in a place which is very limited for escorts. So the guys I chose, I have to fly in here. And I always do overnights or weekends. I've done this 3 times, and all the guys have been great and no one has a problem with this. If anyone wants to PM me, I'll definitely let you know who they are (although one guy is out of the biz right now).

 

And you're absolutely right BSR, bigvalboy on your other point. I would not walk out in those woods without my gun. Funny you should mention coyotes because I completely forgot about them. I woke up last summer up there about 3 am...went to get a drink of water from the kitchen and across the road there was a pack just howling away. And also big, my dog means the world to me. As a matter of fact, I won the Humane Society Award for cops for kindness to animals. Sounds stupid, but I cared more about them then some of these shitheads I arrested.

 

And Juan, ESCORTING IS NOT ILLEGAL! If that were the case, sites like rentboy, etc. wouldn't be up. I think many have a confused legal definition of what this is. In my state, when you pay for an escort, you're paying for time...not sexual services. Never, ever,ever discuss sexual services. Of course we all know what MAY happen, but we don't talk about it until the 2 consenting adults get together. Trust me when I say I have worked "vice' and picked up pros. You have to have an act coupled with a payment at the same time...other than that, they have nothing. And this comes from a guy who worked this...in my state anyway.

 

Hope everyone has a great Christmas and thanks for listening to me! Gotta fill the generator with gas!

[bluboy]

And then there is someone who carries a gun and says "dont fucking tell me I don't need a gun" ....... oh lord have mercy, I don't even want to be in the same building as them. Please please please tell the escorts upfront. And escorts please please please don't meet guys who feel the fucking need to carry guns to the appointment.

[+ buddy12]

Ok bluboy...did you read the whole post? He's got every right to post that opinion. That's what BSR feels and I completely agree. But if you don't want to have a gun...that's great too. As BSR said, there is no reason to tell law abiding citizens they have no right to carry a gun because you would feel more comfortable thinking everyone else is not carrying a gun. Hate to tell you, but I guarantee there are people in your building that have guns that are not legal...people that you pass on the street, people that you drive by in their car. I've arrested people in all these scenarios. I arrested 3 people on different occasions with a shotgun stuck in their pant leg. So for me that's why I tell the escorts up front. If the escort will chose to say no to our meeting, I'm fine with that.

 

I do want to say there are alot of great posts on here and a lot of people that are great! I really appreciate all the feedback from a guy who hasn't hired that much. I really appreciate all your responses. I wish I could respond to each of you individually, but that would take a week. Hope you all have great Holidays!

[Steven_Draker]

As a Texan, I own guns and have my concealed carry license. My aversion to meeting an escort who brings a gun to the appointment is not fear of guns or those who carry them.

 

Do you carry guns when you meet with an escort?

[tom1980]

Do you carry guns when you meet with an escort?

 

No. When I'm at home, I do not host, and I don't carry guns with me to other people's homes or hotel rooms. When I travel, I don't take my guns with me because there is too much hassle and the possession laws vary so much from jurisdiction to jurisdiction