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Have him meet you, you are sitting in the dark and instruct him not to turn on the lights. You blindfold him with a black silk kerchief and then loosely bind his arms and legs with velvet ropes. He could escape if he wanted to escape, but the intoxicating smell of a mysterious incense and the feel of the velvet and the silk and then your hand and tongue keep him immobile except for the involuntary rising of his cock and the slow pulsation of his hips. Is this a bit more Johnny on the spot for you?

 

In reality, we are usually are own harshest critics and the small imperfections which we would ignore in others or not observe in others become major calamities when they are ours. Best solution, avoid the mirror. I have not purposely looked in the mirror in more than 2 decades and when I imagine how I look, the image of myself in my mind's eye. is 20 years younger, with a thick head of hair and an angular jaw line. In reality, today I was walking in the city near Macy's and there was an urgent need for a store Santa Claus and I was offered the position. I did not apply for it, they just thought I had the right look.

I have never seen a purplekow :)

I hope I never see one ;)

But I can tell you this and how I would rather see than be one :D

 

Help there is a purplekow in my mirror :eek:

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Any last second tips or secrets to share

for looking great on a date?

 

Yes. Here's the fool proof absolute beauty regime to follow before a date.

 

Up to a day before, avoid garlic. Up to a couple hours before, avoid raw onions. However... (And this is very important) two hours before your session have a regular meal. Many men, especially the ones that feel self conscious about their weight, starve themselves two days before a session thinking it will make them thinner. It doesn't make them thinner but it makes their breath toxic from all that empty stomach acid. You don't want that breath if you are going to kiss someone. Eat. You will need the energy.

 

If you will bottom, learnt the proper technique for douching, and follow it carefully, at least one hour before your session.

 

Take a conscientious shower. Thoroughly shampoo your pubes, rinse and repeat. (You would be shocked how many people don't realize their pubes can accumulate odours.)

 

Clean inside your ears and behind them. Thoroughly wash your armpits and every crevice of your body to make sure there are no lingering smells.

 

Shave carefully and closely. Especially pay attention to all around your mouth, which might come in contact with your partner's tender parts.

 

Clip your nails and if there are any jagged edges smooth them out with nail files. (You would be shocked how many men show up with long and sharp, scratchy nails.) Apply non-intrusive deodorant. Moisturize.

 

Carefully floss... (This is really important!) carefully brush your teeth with minty toothpaste. Preferably with a sonic toothbrush. A hand held brush will be fine if you know the proper technique and do it for long enough. (You would be shocked how many men brush their teeth like a toddler.) Rinse with mouthwash, preferably minty listerine, with alcohol. (All the other flavours have too much sugar and will make your breath worse after a few minutes.) If you have tooth problems, fix them. Nothing will damage your breath as badly as tooth decay and nothing will be able to cover it up. If you don't know if you commonly have bad breath, find a ruthless friend and beg him or her to tell you the truth. Have some breath mints at hand, anyway.

 

Wear clean clothes. (All your clothes, from underwear to outerwear.)

 

Smile. Relax. Show up. If you are nervous, breathe and let your partner know you are nervous. There is nothing more endearing than a man who is man enough to accept he feels a little exposed. Vulnerability is beautiful.

 

 

 

 

It may seem that I went a little overboard, but all I want to stress is this: There's no trick to beauty. You are beautiful just being yourself. You are good enough, you are ready. If you show up clean, fresh, ready and relaxed, your best qualities will come to the fore and your partner will be able to see and enjoy who you are.

 

This is true when it comes to going on a date, but also applies to meeting with an escort.

 

It always amazes me how many men show up to sessions without having had a shower, smelling bad, with dirty clothes and a huge chip on their shoulder and then they complain that no escort has been able to keep it up before. It is then that they say that if only they were beautiful (Or better endowed, or richer, or you name it) their lives would be so different. You are what you are and there is always a way to make what you are now enjoyable.

 

If I get to a session and I find a client that is clean, has beautiful, clean breath and is ready for the session I am the happiest man alive.

 

Cleanliness is next to Godliness. Godly is beautiful.

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Yes. Here's the fool proof absolute beauty regime to follow before a date.

 

Up to a day before, avoid garlic. Up to a couple hours before, avoid raw onions. However... (And this is very important) two hours before your session have a regular meal. Many men, especially the ones that feel self conscious about their weight, starve themselves two days before a session thinking it will make them thinner. It doesn't make them thinner but it makes their breath toxic from all that empty stomach acid. You don't want that breath if you are going to kiss someone. Eat. You will need the energy.

 

If you will bottom, learnt the proper technique for douching, and follow it carefully, at least one hour before your session.

 

Take a conscientious shower. Thoroughly shampoo your pubes, rinse and repeat. (You would be shocked how many people don't realize their pubes can accumulate odours.)

 

Clean inside your ears and behind them. Thoroughly wash your armpits and every crevice of your body to make sure there are no lingering smells.

 

Shave carefully and closely. Especially pay attention to all around your mouth, which might come in contact with your partner's tender parts.

 

Clip your nails and if there are any jagged edges smooth them out with nail files. (You would be shocked how many men show up with long and sharp, scratchy nails.) Apply non-intrusive deodorant. Moisturize.

 

Carefully floss... (This is really important!) carefully brush your teeth with minty toothpaste. Preferably with a sonic toothbrush. A hand held brush will be fine if you know the proper technique and do it for long enough. (You would be shocked how many men brush their teeth like a toddler.) Rinse with mouthwash, preferably minty listerine, with alcohol. (All the other flavours have too much sugar and will make your breath worse after a few minutes.) If you have tooth problems, fix them. Nothing will damage your breath as badly as tooth decay and nothing will be able to cover it up. If you don't know if you commonly have bad breath, find a ruthless friend and beg him or her to tell you the truth. Have some breath mints at hand, anyway.

 

Wear clean clothes. (All your clothes, from underwear to outerwear.)

 

Smile. Relax. Show up. If you are nervous, breathe and let your partner know you are nervous. There is nothing more endearing than a man who is man enough to accept he feels a little exposed. Vulnerability is beautiful.

 

 

 

 

It may seem that I went a little overboard, but all I want to stress is this: There's no trick to beauty. You are beautiful just being yourself. You are good enough, you are ready. If you show up clean, fresh, ready and relaxed, your best qualities will come to the fore and your partner will be able to see and enjoy who you are.

 

This is true when it comes to going on a date, but also applies to meeting with an escort.

 

It always amazes me how many men show up to sessions without having had a shower, smelling bad, with dirty clothes and a huge chip on their shoulder and then they complain that no escort has been able to keep it up before. It is then that they say that if only they were beautiful (Or better endowed, or richer, or you name it) their lives would be so different. You are what you are and there is always a way to make what you are now enjoyable.

 

If I get to a session and I find a client that is clean, has beautiful, clean breath and is ready for the session I am the happiest man alive.

 

Cleanliness is next to Godliness. Godly is beautiful.

 

Wow, that was a really helpful post. I imagine a lot of guys will want to keep this in mind, regardless of how they see themselves and particularly when they are nervous before meeting their guy.

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Great list Juan. Wise words as usual. The only caveats I would add would be 2 specific cases. The deodorant and the clean clothes. I do know of one escort who doesn't like deodorant (and says so on his likes/dislike page on his website). And I've had other escorts tell me not to wear it. I've gotten to the point where I ask before any first hire.

 

The clean clothes only come into play if there is some gym fantasy scene going on. But I have had escorts ask me to keep on a jock I've worn to the gym recently. But clean clothes otherwise. Absolutely.

 

You'd be surprised that most times I schedule my manicure just before I see my escorts so my nails are good to go. That is something that i think is very often overlooked. That was something that was taught to me very early on in my hiring career and it is something that has stuck very well.

 

Your list is a simple, common sense list of things you'd think would just occur to anyone. Sort of like my list: be kind, considerate and treat escorts exactly like you would like to be treated. It's amazing how such simple things go a long, long way.

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Juan and Lee,

What great, succinct posts... thanks for repeating what most of us learned when we became of age and started dating. If all clients and escorts would follow this advice almost everyone would be happier. Unfortunately some escorts and masseurs I have met have not followed most of this advice, and they were one time hires for me. But I suspect that is the clients who are more typically at fault here. I used to have an escort who liked to shower with me before our regular "session" started. What a fun way to start an evening. I commend that to you all and doing it together before much else happens has a wonderful way to break the ice when meeting for the first time !!

DD

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I am redoing my master bathroom and am installing a 6 by 6 foot shower with multiple heads and rain feature. Also will be able to use it as a steam room as there is going to be a large granite bench If I am so fortunate as to have an escort come to my home, we may start in the shower and never leave,

I have never seen a purplekow :)

I hope I never see one ;)

But I can tell you this and how I would rather see than be one :D

 

Help there is a purplekow in my mirror :eek:

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I am redoing my master bathroom and am installing a 6 by 6 foot shower with multiple heads and rain feature. Also will be able to use it as a steam room as there is going to be a large granite bench If I am so fortunate as to have an escort come to my home, we may start in the shower and never leave,

 

But no mirrors, right! ;)

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thanks for repeating what most of us learned when we became of age and started dating.

 

I always try to get ready for an appointment with an escort the same way I would prepare for a date. I always keep a toothbrush and listerine in my car so they are available for after work appointments. If it's been a particularly long day, I'll ask the escort if I can use his shower when I arrive.

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Any last second tips or secrets to share

for looking great on a date?

 

Tom Ford just came out with a makeup and skincare line for men, so I think it's now acceptable for men to do a little more to beautify themselves. Also keep in mind, that the only different between makeup for men and women is packaging.

 

 

If you want some eye candy, here's Tom Ford doing his routine. [video=youtube;JIolGVkAwKE]

 

If it were me, I'd skip the mud mask and other BS and do the following:

 

1. Exfoliate your skin using a cheap microfiber cloth or a gentle scrub like these

http://www.ebay.com/itm/MD-Formulations-Face-and-Body-Scrub-8-3-oz-250-ml-/151085602939 (my favorite, expensive, but has acids that make your skin really smooth)

http://www.drugstore.com/queen-helene-soothing-cocoa-butter-natural-facial-scrub/qxp87795

If your skin is dry, put on a moisturizer.]

2. Put some concealer on pimples and under your eyes to look more awake. Getting a match with your skin is important, or you'll look like you're wearing makeup. Makeup Forever Full Cover is creamy (so it doesn't settle into lines) and has a wide range of shades. Wash your hands, put a tiny bit (side of a pinhead) on your ring finger, then apply it.

Tip: Go to Sephora and ask for free samples of the closest matching shades, then look at them in sunlight. If it looks like makeup, you applied too much or have the wrong shade.

 

3. Put some bronzing gel on your face and neck. (Let dry before putting on clothes.). If you have a light touch, this will look natural and make you look much better. You can buy it from Tom Ford; no idea how good it is. I use Laura Mercier's, which is 30% cheaper and very realistic looking.

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From win and lose and still somehow

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Really? This whole thread has now taken on a completely other-worldly, "Oprah does make-up hints" tone. Really?

 

Read Juan's post. That is what's important to an escort. Not applying mascara or rouge for God's sake. I realize FF comes at it from a woman's perspective, but guys, come on. Do you really think makeup makes a difference to your escorts? Don't you think they'd appreciate you spending the time following Juan's list more? Do you think they'd rather you spend time on a bronzing gel or making sure you have fresh breath?

 

My looks are what they are. You look as presentable as you can. I'm more of the Mr. Clean school of looks. But be yourself. Be confident in yourself. Being confident in yourself is extremely sexy. A hell of a lot sexier than someone who is fretting about did I put some concealer under their eyes. All I know is if I ever caught my partner with anything other than acne cream, it would be off to Betty Ford for him.

Lee

 

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Really? This whole thread has now taken on a completely other-worldly, "Oprah does make-up hints" tone. Really?

 

Read Juan's post. That is what's important to an escort. Not applying mascara or rouge for God's sake. I realize FF comes at it from a woman's perspective, but guys, come on. Do you really think makeup makes a difference to your escorts? Don't you think they'd appreciate you spending the time following Juan's list more? Do you think they'd rather you spend time on a bronzing gel or making sure you have fresh breath?

 

My looks are what they are. You look as presentable as you can. I'm more of the Mr. Clean school of looks. But be yourself. Be confident in yourself. Being confident in yourself is extremely sexy. A hell of a lot sexier than someone who is fretting about did I put some concealer under their eyes. All I know is if I ever caught my partner with anything other than acne cream, it would be off to Betty Ford for him.

 

I applaud Juan and you for compiling this list of MUST DO's for an enjoyable meeting of both a client and escort. Although all the guys I have had the privilege to spend time with are impeccable in hygiene, etc. and are also very upfront about the same traits in clients, it is important to frequently repeat this list.

 

I'm sure men's "cosmetics" have greatly improved, but I'll never forget my one and only time years ago using some type of facial bronzer. The poor escort had bronzer in many places bronzer is not used.

 

Once again guys, THANK YOU!

 

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Really? This whole thread has now taken on a completely other-worldly, "Oprah does make-up hints" tone. Really?

 

Read Juan's post. That is what's important to an escort. Not applying mascara or rouge for God's sake. I realize FF comes at it from a woman's perspective, but guys, come on. Do you really think makeup makes a difference to your escorts? Don't you think they'd appreciate you spending the time following Juan's list more? Do you think they'd rather you spend time on a bronzing gel or making sure you have fresh breath?

 

My looks are what they are. You look as presentable as you can. I'm more of the Mr. Clean school of looks. But be yourself. Be confident in yourself. Being confident in yourself is extremely sexy. A hell of a lot sexier than someone who is fretting about did I put some concealer under their eyes. All I know is if I ever caught my partner with anything other than acne cream, it would be off to Betty Ford for him.

 

I spent a good part of today at a good friend's hair salon in Philadelphia. It was very instructive. For the last sixteen years, he has cut my hair about every three weeks, that's it. Today I saw how many sub-categories exist under the term "body grooming," and how seriously so many men take every one of those sub-categories. I also heard a lot of complaints, often because the staff could not turn back time far enough to satisfy every consumer. His hair salon is located in a gay neighborhood, and today his customers were nearly 100% gay, but the services he offers could be of benefit to straight or gay men. Yes, it was a bit much for me -- sometimes far more than just a bit. But, it is a reality.

 

I am including a link to the Hair Studio, not for business reasons, rather to show that I did not make any of this up out of thin air:

 

http://gregsalon.com/

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Really? This whole thread has now taken on a completely other-worldly, "Oprah does make-up hints" tone. Really?

 

Read Juan's post. That is what's important to an escort. Not applying mascara or rouge for God's sake. I realize FF comes at it from a woman's perspective, but guys, come on. Do you really think makeup makes a difference to your escorts? Don't you think they'd appreciate you spending the time following Juan's list more? Do you think they'd rather you spend time on a bronzing gel or making sure you have fresh breath?

 

 

But LBT, the OP asked for hints on "looking great on a date." Almost everyone looks better with a tan (look at what it does for Tom Ford!), but lots of sun exposure can cause problems down the road. So I recommended a tanning gel as an alternative. It's certainly not necessary, but if desired, it's easy to do. I don't like rouge or mascara on men either, but a natural looking tanning gel looks just like a tan.

 

Juan's tips on basic grooming, like showering, douching, trimming nails should always be the first priority. But the OP asked about LOOKING great, so I assumed he was talking about more than hygiene.

 

Bostonman, tanning gels have improved a lot over the past few years. To minimize transfer, apply it on the face and neck only and then make sure it dries well before adult time starts.

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From win and lose and still somehow

It's life's illusions I recall

I really don't know life at all

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But LBT, the OP asked for hints on "looking great on a date."

 

Actually he said a date with an escort.

 

And WilliamM -- I don't doubt you for a single minute. We can be one of the most vain lots ever created. And it drives me a bit bonkers. Maybe it's because the ten best plastic surgeons in the country working together couldn't do a damned thing to help me even look a little better, so a little cosmetics sure wouldn't. But I've finally figured out that confidence in what you have really is the sexiest thing in the world and covers up a hell of a lot more than any cosmetics ever could. And in sort of mashing together another thread, at my age, I'm getting hit on by the type of guys on A4A, Grindr and the like (guys in their 20s and early 30s) that wouldn't have given me the time of day when I was their age. All while guys who are younger and far better looking than me are out fretting about their makeup.

 

The song I've sort of adopted as my anthem (like John Barrowman. Sigh) is "I Am What I Am" from La Cage. And the start of the last verse applies: "I am what I am and what I am needs no excuses". Take that confident attitude with you and you'll be light years ahead.

Lee

 

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But LBT, the OP asked for hints on "looking great on a date." Almost everyone looks better with a tan (look at what it does for Tom Ford!), but lots of sun exposure can cause problems down the road. So I recommended a tanning gel as an alternative. It's certainly not necessary, but if desired, it's easy to do. I don't like rouge or mascara on men either, but a natural looking tanning gel looks just like a tan.

 

Juan's tips on basic grooming, like showering, douching, trimming nails should always be the first priority. But the OP asked about LOOKING great, so I assumed he was talking about more than hygiene.

 

Bostonman, tanning gels have improved a lot over the past few years. To minimize transfer, apply it on the face and neck only and then make sure it dries well before adult time starts.

 

Fluffy, makeup forever is better than Mac? Lately I've been hearing a lot about makeup forever

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Actually he said a date with an escort.

 

And WilliamM -- I don't doubt you for a single minute. We can be one of the most vain lots ever created. And it drives me a bit bonkers. Maybe it's because the ten best plastic surgeons in the country working together couldn't do a damned thing to help me even look a little better, so a little cosmetics sure wouldn't. But I've finally figured out that confidence in what you have really is the sexiest thing in the world and covers up a hell of a lot more than any cosmetics ever could. And in sort of mashing together another thread, at my age, I'm getting hit on by the type of guys on A4A, Grindr and the like (guys in their 20s and early 30s) that wouldn't have given me the time of day when I was their age. All while guys who are younger and far better looking than me are out fretting about their makeup.

 

The song I've sort of adopted as my anthem (like John Barrowman. Sigh) is "I Am What I Am" from La Cage. And the start of the last verse applies: "I am what I am and what I am needs no excuses". Take that confident attitude with you and you'll be light years ahead.

 

I'm totally with you there, but there is also something to be said for confidence building by making yourself look your own personal best. I'm a sweats an t-shirt kind of guy. Wouldn't get a haircut, and care little about my clothes,. Though no amount of makeup is going to make me tom ford (or even Gerald ford), there is a personal best.

 

When I get a nice haircut, well tanned, immpecciblely dressed and groomed, clean, smell good and even makeup maybe... I might not be beautiful, but it has a real effect on my confidence... Which as you say, is beautiful :).

 

I am what I am, but there's a range of who I am :)

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