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Many times clients (especially new or inexperienced ones) feel like they need to get back to "normal land" after getting together, and a neutral environment like a restaurant or coffeehouse is a great way to talk, rehash and get some post-sex grub. :)

 

 

I really like how Chris puts this.....I've often felt that need to "transition" back to the real world and just hanging out for a while afterwards is much appreciated....but I know this isn't at all important to others, though....

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I can see why you have this rule; it makes sense that (a) you could be stood up or (b) be set up for a dangerous situation. What workaround would you be willing to do if the client wanted to retain you for a dinner meet first, Juan?

 

If a client wants to have dinner first and I have never met him before (which happens quite often), we agree to meet at his hotel room, his private home or my in call place and go to the restaurant from there. In many years of escorting I have yet to find a reasonable man who will object to this. The hug upon meeting, the walk to the restaurant and the informal nature of just getting to know one another sets the mood really well to then have dinner, which could be a tense situation for many when they don't know their dinner companion.

 

I am more than excited to meet regular client wherever they want to meet.

 

Two sides in the picture: on one side the escort who needs to "cover his ass", on the other side the client, avoiding to be burned again ... but the meeting (if meeting occurs) needs to start somewhere ... somewhere in the middle, maybe.[/color]

 

I agree one hundred percent with you, Steven. I believe that for truly professional escorts like yourself, the hard work of amassing a body of consistently great reviews and an excellent reputation is the best way to meet the client half way. You have done your foot work, paid your dues, showed your worth. You are not a scammer, you are not a thief, you are the guy in the ad, you provide a consistently good service. Worse thing that can happen is the chemistry is not very strong.

 

If a client, in trying to book a session with you refuses to give you his hotel room and last name to confirm the session and demands that you meet him at the street corner -just to make sure that you are who you are- then I am going to go on a limb and say that this client simply doesn't understand the quality of service that you provide.

 

If after reading consistently good reviews, exchanging emails, texts and phone calls to help alleviate the nervousness -which is normal and understandable- a client refuses to agree to the basic safety check procedures to make sure that I won't be gaybashed or stood up, then it means that we are not a good match. I love my work and love doing it with people who understand the basic safety concerns for me. There are plenty of wonderful men who get this and would never -ever- ask me to put myself at risk in any way. I choose to work only with such men.

 

Coming back to the original question... how would I proceed with an escort who has absolutely no reviews but who I really want to meet? I guess I would rent a hotel room. That is the safest, most neutral situation. After the meeting I would definitely write a review, good or bad.

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If a client wants to have dinner first and I have never met him before (which happens quite often), we agree to meet at his hotel room, his private home or my in call place and go to the restaurant from there.

 

That's totally fair and I can't imagine anyone in good faith disagreeing to that.

 

You mentioned renting a hotel room as a neutral venue. Nasty question: are they decent venues one can rent for less than a full day?

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You mentioned renting a hotel room as a neutral venue. Nasty question: are they decent venues one can rent for less than a full day?

 

I don't think any decent hotels will rent a room for a smaller fee than their day rate. I know that if they have availability and you call them on the same day they will be open to do a day rental (Checking in early in the morning and leaving at night, as opposed to 2pm till 11am.) but don't know any that does short stays.

 

As with everything, asking directly is the only way to find out.

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Off the record: several properties offer a "day rate" which is less than the official "nightly rate". You need to inquire directly with the hotel's reception.

 

Many hotels have half day rates, but I've only used them for late checkouts. You can say you're having a meeting with a client when you ask. You would probably have to start after check in time though.

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  • 2 weeks later...

I had an outstanding session with who I will describe as Sydney's Best Current Fetish Master,

He has a great website, been advertising consistently, so after exchanging emails, booked a time.

As discussed by email, spoke on the phone, he wanted to meet on a street corner, as he said his apartment was hard to find.

Due to the quality of previous communication, I texted when I was there, he arrived moments later dressed in black suit and sunglasses, just like his photo.

Sat for a moment in his apartment, discussed limits etc, he asked for cash up front, ( normally a warning), he then directed me to his playroom, dungeon, where for the next two hours he delighted me with his skills and technique.

Will become a regular.

No rules in this business just use your gut reaction and trust it

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