How Many Escorts Have You Seen? (Thus Far)

[daviddd49]

Simple curiosity, here ... no agenda.

 

How many Escorts have you seen?

 

and

 

Do you mostly see new ones, or do you have a few you prefer over others?

[tyro]

5

There's one I've seen more than all the others combined.

T

[daviddd49]

To answer my own questions:

 

How many Escorts have you seen? - 27 (since 2005)

 

and

 

Do you mostly see new ones, or do you have a few you prefer over others? -

 

9 of my 27 I've seen more than 4 times and, therefore, consider them "regulars."

Currently, I have only 3 that I consider "regulars."

 

I've seen many escorts only once, and a few just twice. Mostly, I have good encounters ... but, frequently, we just don't "click."

[+ WilliamM]

How many Escorts have you seen? - about 25

 

Do you mostly see new ones, or do you have a few you prefer over others? - it varies. I saw one escort for three years, and two others for about six months each. But usually only one-three times.

 

Excellent question, more interesting (at least to me) than height.

[Traveler North]

I have seen 5 of which three I see multiple times.

[Decatur Guy]

Hmmm, I haven't kept good count. I started hiring in earnest in 2010 or so. I just dabbled before that. I'm going to guess around 20 guys or so.

 

I have two and half go-to guys I've hired multiple times (and say two and half because one of them keeps "retiring" and then comes out of "retirement"). Anyway, I've been with the three of them more than all rest put together. Then rest have been one-time or two-time hires, for several reasons:

 

1. They were local and I liked them, but they dropped out.

2. They were local and I just wasn't impressed.

3. They were traveling through. I have done a little repeating that way, but not many guys reliably tour through here. I'd do more repeat business with several of them if they came here more. ATL has a very mixed reputation for touring. Some guys say they do great, and others say it's a big bust.

 

I'd say that half my hirings are my go-to guys and the other half are guys traveling through or the rare occasion I'm traveling and hire someone in their town.

 

i probably average about 9 to 12 hiring situations a year, usually 90-minute appointments. I had one three-hour-plus appointment this year. And once or twice a year, I've been hiring two escorts at once for a threeway.

 

I haven't hired anyone in November. But I had several hires in September and October.

[+ purplekow]

25 that i can recall the names in a 5 minute trip down orgasm alley. At least 9 of those i was with more than 3 times. Five of them I have been with between 10 and 20 times.

i am still in contact with four of those five though I do not hire three of them and another lives across the continent. i consider each of them as a friend.

The fifth passed on and he too was a friend.

I have hired less lately. The last one was a new hire for me that looked promising as a regular but on the second occasion he was a no show.

Have a new hire for Sunday.

[daviddd49]

My pattern is very similar to yours.

 

I only see Escorts when I travel for work or pleasure. On occasion, however, I'll make a special non-work related trip to see one of my regular go-to guys or to meet with a new Escort. I usually see at least one Escort a month ... often more than that, depending upon my work/travel schedule. I enjoy meeting new guys, however I much prefer to meet with guys I've seen before and with whom I've come to have a meaningful relationship; hence, about 2/3 of my hirings are with my go-to guys ... or guys who may "graduate" to the ranks of my go-to guys.

 

Hmmm, I haven't kept good count. I started hiring in earnest in 2010 or so. I just dabbled before that. I'm going to guess around 20 guys or so.

 

I have two and half go-to guys I've hired multiple times (and say two and half because one of them keeps "retiring" and then comes out of "retirement"). Anyway, I've been with the three of them more than all rest put together. Then rest have been one-time or two-time hires, for several reasons:

 

1. They were local and I liked them, but they dropped out.

2. They were local and I just wasn't impressed.

3. They were traveling through. I have done a little repeating that way, but not many guys reliably tour through here. I'd do more repeat business with several of them if they came here more. ATL has a very mixed reputation for touring. Some guys say they do great, and others say it's a big bust.

 

I'd say that half my hirings are my go-to guys and the other half are guys traveling through or the rare occasion I'm traveling and hire someone in their town.

 

i probably average about 9 to 12 hiring situations a year, usually 90-minute appointments. I had one three-hour-plus appointment this year. And once or twice a year, I've been hiring two escorts at once for a threeway.

 

I haven't hired anyone in November. But I had several hires in September and October.

[daviddd49]

I've had several "regular Escorts" who have either "retired" from "the business," or who have moved to someplace where I don't ever travel (like Hamburg, Germany). In a couple of cases those who have retired are still seeing a select group of clients, and I'm among them.

 

I have also recently had a new hire who was very promising, with an excellent "first date," who on our second "date" no-showed. He contacted me the next day with an excuse, but he has not followed up on my response ... even though I offered to give him another chance on a date in January. This has been very disappointing.

 

Even worse, however, has been one of my go-to regulars who has only managed to keep 2 out of 6 (or 1/3) of our scheduled appointments in 2013. I always book engagements a month or more in advance (my scheduling requires it), but apparently this has caused problems for us in his being able to keep our scheduled dates. He tends to cancel just a few hours prior to the meeting time ... and, often, too late for me to schedule with someone else. This is most unfortunate and unhappy because, in half of those scheduled dates that he has canceled, I had traveled to his area specifically and only to see him ... so I was out airfare, hotel charges, and a day of my time ... for nothing.

 

25 that i can recall the names in a 5 minute trip down orgasm alley. At least 9 of those i was with more than 3 times. Five of them I have been with between 10 and 20 times.

i am still in contact with four of those five though I do not hire three of them and another lives across the continent. i consider each of them as a friend.

The fifth passed on and he too was a friend.

I have hired less lately. The last one was a new hire for me that looked promising as a regular but on the second occasion he was a no show.

Have a new hire for Sunday.

[Daverwr]

Probably 20 for me over the past 10 years. Only 2 have been more than once. But, that is due to locale and such. Not because of the experience. I've never had an overnight, but am looking forward to it at the right time/person.

[daviddd49]

I've done an overnight twice. Once (early on in my hiring of escorts) it wasn't expected, it just happened. The other time (more recently) it was planned ... and the experience was VERY worth it. I agree that it takes the right person and time.

 

Probably 20 for me over the past 10 years. Only 2 have been more than once. But, that is due to locale and such. Not because of the experience. I've never had an overnight, but am looking forward to it at the right time/person.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Combing through my memory banks, off the top of my head I came up with 15 since I've been hiring for about 3 years (although there may be 1 or 2 I'm forgetting). Of those, I saw 3 of them only once. A couple I saw multiple times before they retired or disappeared Of the rest, I've hired all of them multiple times. Since for the most part, I see them when they tour through the DC area, how often depends on how often they come through DC. And I'd say I'm good friends with almost all of them. With one exception, we stay in touch pretty regularly. In fact, I will have 7 of my escorts (plus the one retired guy) at the luncheon with me in DC. And a couple of them I am exceptionally close to and we will remain friends long after I stop hiring or they stop working in "the biz". And my partner has met all of them socially, and most on multiple occasions. They have been very supportive of our relationship and he considers them all his friends as well.

 

I think most of them have met each other and have become friends, many times because I go out of my way to bring them together. First, a 3 way with friends that you know is usually a blast. And it can help them in networking with each other. Which is one of the reasons for the luncheon in the first place too. To bring clients together to form friendships, to bring clients and escorts together for each other benefit, and for the escorts to met and form connections so they can help each other when needed. Those really are 3 of the biggest reasons I continue to do the luncheon. That and it's fun.

[big-n-tall]

My overall account since I began hiring... I can't remember, but it hasn't been over the 25 mark. Not yet, anyway. :-)

 

I see a number of regulars when they swing into town or sometimes when I go on a trip. Of the regulars I see, one has retired (although I still speak to him). He only escorted for about a year. A few have changed locations and I'm not sure if I'll see them ever again or anytime soon. As LBT posted, most of the regulars, old and new have become friends of mind and we speak frequently throughout the year. I think at least a few will be lifelong friends, sex or no sex.

 

This year I have seen maybe about 6 or 7 new guys. Of those new guys I'd say 5 are (or will be) regulars. One of the new guys I encountered is a highly reputable escort, but I probably won't see him again. The sex was good, but in talking after sex... he rather turned me off.

 

I probably will be meeting with one other new guy before the year closes. I do have a few men on my wishlist. Some of those men are escorts & some aren't (fingers crossed for Ray Han).

[Daverwr]

I'd love to have some escorts I could call friends. Whether I used them as escorts or not. The business is fascinating. (One of the reasons I'm here.). I'd love to get closer to it and them. Something I'm hoping for at the luncheon - not just clients with clients and escorts with escorts.

[Lohengrin1979]

I've hired seven to date, two of whom I have seen more than once, and one who I guess would be my regular thus far. I've been hiring both escorts and masseurs for about 10 years now and the escorts are sprinkled throughout that span. Now if we wanted to talk about how many masseurs I've hired then the number would be far, far higher.

 

 

Lohengrin

[daviddd49]

I've also got a "wish list," and most on my list I'll almost certainly eventually meet. Indeed, I currently have two escorts on my "wish list" that I now have scheduled appointments between now and the end of January 2014. Both are young, new in the business, and un-reviewed. Seeing un-reviewed escorts makes me VERY nervous, but I've had some significant luck in doing this, so I am occasionally willing to take the risk. Part of the fun in doing that is then writing up their first review ... or, at least, their first "significant" review.

 

Then, there's the couple of guys on my "wish list" that I'll probably never get to see because they're not escorting. Like Alex Vaara. <sigh>

 

 

My overall account since I began hiring... I can't remember, but it hasn't been over the 25 mark. Not yet, anyway. :-)

 

I see a number of regulars when they swing into town or sometimes when I go on a trip. Of the regulars I see, one has retired (although I still speak to him). He only escorted for about a year. A few have changed locations and I'm not sure if I'll see them ever again or anytime soon.

 

This year I have seen maybe about 6 or 7 new guys. Of those new guys I'd say 5 are (or will be) regulars. One of the new guys I encountered is a highly reputable escort, but I probably won't see him again. The sex was good, but in talking after sex... he rather turned me off.

 

I probably will be meeting with one other new guy before the year closes. I do have a few men on my wishlist. Some of those men are escorts & some aren't (fingers crossed for Ray Han).

[daviddd49]

I find I really care about those men whom I see repeatedly. In a few cases, I care about them a LOT ... and the friendship seems to be mutual and sincere. Some of those whom I used to see as Escorts are, now that they're retired, still friends of mine; we communicate via email and, when I visit their city they include me in their lives and meet for dinner, drinks, or even (on occasion) a little "play time." This last part surprises me the most because I know that I'm not pretty ... but, I'm a kind, caring, and "interesting" fellow, and know how to make up for my deficits in the physical beauty department.

 

I'd love to have some escorts I could call friends. Whether I used them as escorts or not. The business is fascinating. (One of the reasons I'm here.). I'd love to get closer to it and them. Something I'm hoping for at the luncheon - not just clients with clients and escorts with escorts.

[+ Gar1eth]

Ok--I guess I need to preface this with I have been hiring since 2002. I also need to remind people that I haven't ever had a boyfriend and that I was a virgin to any type of sex at all prior to my 1st meeting with an escort. Prior to my 1st meeting with an escort, I had never even French kissed anyone. But strangely enough--once I had sex, I decided I liked it. So with that in mind-so far I have counted up 146 escorts that I have been with. That doesn't count a few masseurs that I've had sex with-maybe 2 or 3. There are more than 146 (not another 146 more--maybe into the 160's)--but my memory is beginning to fail me. Now I am a top--there are multiple escort on my list where I wasn't able to top for some reason--I was tired, the guy couldn't take me--or some other reason. But in the majority of cases I at least received oral and a handjob. I have included a few guys who were basically scammers. A large proportion of the list I have seen multiple times--and a few I've seen for repeat weekends. My hiring has slowed down over the past 5 years-and has slowed even more over the last two due to ongoing financial constraints. Also even without the financial constraints--well you know--hiring at the beginning was fun and new. Now while it still can be fun-I don't know--I'm older--the escorts are younger, while there were always more tops than bottom or versatile guys, there seems to really be an excess of tops these days, a lot of guys don't like to kiss, the escort fees have increased much faster than inflation (I can remember hiring guys for a weekend for 1800 + expenses of course); increasing number of guys seem to have tattoos all over them, or piercings (I'm not even that fond of pierced ears). And hiring escorts has made me me think more and more about a relationship of my own. It still doesn't look like it's ever going to happen. And in the final analysis, I'm not sure if I even want one--or that if I had one whether I'd be able to be a good partner. But I think about it a lot more than I used to. And unfortunately escorts can't scratch that itch.

 

Gman

[Daverwr]

I must say, for most of us I think, 146 is an impressive number! I can see the financial constraints with an escort budget like that. . As the Australians say "Good on ya'."

[+ Gar1eth]

I must say, for most of us I think, 146 is an impressive number! I can see the financial constraints with an escort budget like that. . As the Australians say "Good on ya'."

 

Well thank you, I think!! But you know over the course of 11 years that is only 13 or so on average-maybe 15 or 16 since I have seen over 146. But the deal is--that for the 1st 4 years I hired, I didn't live in a city with escorts, so I always had to fly them to me. So since I was flying them in --no reason not to experience different guys. If I had lived in one of the cities with a large number of escorts, I probably would not have hired so many different guys. I would probably have stuck with a few favorites.

 

Gman

[daviddd49]

146+ !! WOW! Most impressive!

Gentlemen, I think we have a WINNER!

 

Granted, I've probably had sex with around 100 different guys in my life ... but thats over 40 years (I've been sexually active since I was 16 years old). However, most of those guys were fuck buddies ("friends with benefits"), boy friends, my 2 long-term partners, or other acquaintances.

 

But 146+ ESCORTS in 11 years! Wow! That's an average of 16 different Escorts a year! Wow!

 

Gman, I hope you find a special guy with whom to share your life. Such LTRs can be very meaningful, and there is FAR more to such relationships than sex ... although, frankly, sex is an important component of them. There have been times when I've enjoyed sex with multiple guys, but I've always come back to my Partner because of what he and I share together. And, of course, years ago he and I played together with some of our gay friends. Then, things changed; I started seeing Escorts because, in the mid 2000s, my Partner of 15 years was physically and sexually incapacitated by Multiple Sclerosis. I still had friend with whom I could have sex, but I became desirous for more. Despite the lack of sexual gratification at home, I still love my Partner and have no desire to leave him ... just for sex. And, I don't have to.

[instudiocity]

Total is 33. In the last year 9. Repeats 5. More than twice 3. More than 10 is 2...

[+ Gar1eth]

146+ !! WOW! Most impressive!

Gentlemen, I think we have a WINNER!

 

Granted, I've probably had sex with around 100 different guys in my life ... but thats over 40 years (I've been sexually active since I was 16 years old). However, most of those guys were fuck buddies ("friends with benefits"), boy friends, my 2 long-term partners, or other acquaintances.

 

But 146+ ESCORTS in 11 years! Wow! That's an average of 16 different Escorts a year! Wow!

 

Gman, I hope you find a special guy with whom to share your life. Such LTRs can be very meaningful, and there is FAR more to such relationships than sex ... although, frankly, sex is an important component of them. There have been times when I've enjoyed sex with multiple guys, but I've always come back to my Partner because of what he and I share together. And, of course, years ago he and I played together with some of our gay friends. Then, things changed; I started seeing Escorts because, in the mid 2000s, my Partner of 15 years was physically and sexually incapacitated by Multiple Sclerosis. I still had friend with whom I could have sex, but I became desirous for more. Despite the lack of sexual gratification at home, I still love my Partner and have no desire to leave him ... just for sex. And, I don't have to.

 

It seems like a lot compared to the numbers others have posted so far--but if you, for the sake of assumption, assume that the number was spread evenly over the course of the year each year--that's only seeing an escort a little over one time a month. And if you consider that was the only way I ever had sex, when probably most guys who hire have sex with friends, lovers, pick-ups in addition to escorts, then while the number of guys may be more for me, but a lot of the rest of you were having more sex (escort and non-escort) than I ever was.

 

Gman

[Daverwr]

Nice try...

[TruHart1]

Over nearly 2½ years, (starting May 23, 2011, my very first) I have hired about 33 different escorts. I have had maybe 3 experiences which were not bad but were unfulfilling when compared to the majority of the escorts I have met. I’m happy to say I’ve never met an escort who was a rip-off artist or scammer with stolen pictures in their ads.

 

The majority of my escorts are either guys who visit my area regularly who I have seen multiple times or guys who I’ve hired on various travels. I have regulars in some major cities such as NYC, Chicago and Dallas who I always hire when I am in that city. I just had my first trip to Las Vegas (ever!!!) and there are a number of guys who I will probably see again whenever I travel there in the future.

 

Among my many regulars, I’d say about a third have become friends, some quite close and special and some with whom I keep in touch by email/text on a regular basis. Among those, there are perhaps 3 or 4 men that I know will be lifetime friends no matter where our separate lives go. Additionally there are at the moment a couple of escorts I thirst to experience again because they were so very special in our first meeting, but who are not as accessible because of where they are located.

 

TruHart1