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This feeds into my raging feelings of inadequacy - we automatically seem to think that taller is better and cut those people more slack than we otherwise would. And there is a certain amount of smugness present among the taller guys who write here. Get over it, folks. Evolutionarily speaking, taller is not better - look what happened to the dinosaurs. I've been with tall guys and short guys - the sex is pretty much the same - at least as far as the actual "deed" goes. To the guys who wrote that horizontal-ness seems to equalize everything, thank you.

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This feeds into my raging feelings of inadequacy - we automatically seem to think that taller is better and cut those people more slack than we otherwise would. And there is a certain amount of smugness present among the taller guys who write here. Get over it, folks. Evolutionarily speaking, taller is not better - look what happened to the dinosaurs. I've been with tall guys and short guys - the sex is pretty much the same - at least as far as the actual "deed" goes. To the guys who wrote that horizontal-ness seems to equalize everything, thank you.

 

Not to start a fight, but I don't see anywhere someone saying taller is better or being smug about it. A question was asked... most answered, some expressed their preference through experience, some don't care as you reiterated.

 

Personally... yes... I'm taller than average, but I don't care how short or tall someone is... hot is hot. Different escorts of various sizes have brought me a great deal of pleasure.

 

Please don't see this as attack, but I guess my perception of the postings are different.

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No offense taken, big-n-tall. Perhaps I'm overly sensitive about the height issue. Try reading what was posted above through the eyes of someone under 5' 9" and you might see it differently. Taller people don't even notice how these things can be perceived by us shorties. But I also don't want to make too much out of something that probably is nothing - I'm just being fragile. Sorry.

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No offense taken, big-n-tall. Perhaps I'm overly sensitive about the height issue. Try reading what was posted above through the eyes of someone under 5' 9" and you might see it differently. Taller people don't even notice how these things can be perceived by us shorties. But I also don't want to make too much out of something that probably is nothing - I'm just being fragile. Sorry.

 

No worries man, we talls got insecurities too. :-)

 

I used to get picked on a bit for being taller than the rest of the kids. I don't know what you went through, but I didn't feel good about being picked on something I had no control over. Sorry if you got picked on over you're height... but kids/adults can be mean bastards. LOL!

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I love men taller than me. And, for you Patriots fans, knowing someone who's Gronkowski's double has been ... wonderful!

 

 

you goddamn lucky SOB, gallahad!

 

 

http://cdn01.cdn.justjared.com/wp-content/uploads/headlines/2012/07/rob-gronkowski-espn-body-issue.jpg

 

http://strawberryblunt.com/wp-content/uploads/500x305-gronkowski-20121010.jpg

 

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Thanks to all for the answers. Fascinating responses. And it certainly seems like Bostonman is the winner in the "biggest height discrepancy" between guys contest. I was asking this because one guy I'm going to be meeting (not an escort, just someone on Grindr) is 6'9" and I'm 5'6". Before that, Chris Eisenhower and Lance Navarro (both at 6'4") had been the tallest. But this is another level almost.

 

And philmusc -- at 5'6" I'm in the shorties range. Virtually Hobbitt sized. Yes, I've been called a pocket gay at times. Which I kind of think is funny because I sure would have fun in someone's pocket. My 6'9" guy on his profile says "I'm not a jock but I'll wear one when we meet". I'm sure he's tired of being asked about playing basketball, how's the weather up there, etc. Height is what you make of it. I am not the least bit insecure being 5'6". It is what it is. And I can do no more about that than dick size. In the end, height doesn't make a damned bit of difference in bed. If you are confident in what you do, you can overcome something as insignificant as height difference. Even if that difference is 15".

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Thanks to all for the answers. Fascinating responses. And it certainly seems like Bostonman is the winner in the "biggest height discrepancy" between guys contest. I was asking this because one guy I'm going to be meeting (not an escort, just someone on Grindr) is 6'9" and I'm 5'6". Before that, Chris Eisenhower and Lance Navarro (both at 6'4") had been the tallest. But this is another level almost.

 

And philmusc -- at 5'6" I'm in the shorties range. Virtually Hobbitt sized. Yes, I've been called a pocket gay at times. Which I kind of think is funny because I sure would have fun in someone's pocket. My 6'9" guy on his profile says "I'm not a jock but I'll wear one when we meet". I'm sure he's tired of being asked about playing basketball, how's the weather up there, etc. Height is what you make of it. I am not the least bit insecure being 5'6". It is what it is. And I can do no more about that than dick size. In the end, height doesn't make a damned bit of difference in bed. If you are confident in what you do, you can overcome something as insignificant as height difference. Even if that difference is 15".

 

Gosh, LBT, I had you sooo wrong - I just assumed you were a six-footer. While I agree with virtually everything you wrote, I think sometimes we shorties are overlooked (and to be fair, someone who is 6'4" and above might not even notice us - we wouldn't even be in his range of vision). But if we're not even in the running, it doesn't matter what happens when we're horizontal if we don't even get through the threshold point of being noticed.

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I've always been attracted to guys at the extremes, very tall or very short; I'm right in the middle at 5'10-11" (I seem to be slightly shorter now than I was when I was younger). In the old days at the Everard Baths in NYC, there used to be a regular there named Lou, who was 5'3", and there were lines of men who were eager to have sex with him (he was a top).

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... I'm right in the middle at 5'10-11" (I seem to be slightly shorter now than I was when I was younger) ...

Ah yes, it happens - me, too.:( Used to be 5'11" - now 5'9'', but somehow I don't feel any shorter.

 

Generally like gentlemen to be shorter than I, but a recent encounter with Mr. Eisenhower was very enjoyable.:p

 

One taller was John from Atlanta who used to be known as "Small Town John".

 

Two outstanding (literally and figuratively!) shorter (than I) gentlemen have been Romann and the incomparable Dane Scott.:D

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I like men who are slightly shorter or taller than I am. My go-to guys show that--Dave (DC) 5'11"/ Raul (Chicago) 5'11"/ Tyger (Portland) 5'11" NateSF (San Francisco) 5'8"/ Romann (Chicago) 5'7"

 

At 5'9"--That puts me right in the MIDDLE--perfect place to be!!! No matter what vertical measurements they possess, their HORIZONTAL figures are my real cup of tea.

 

Happy Thanksgiving

Boston Bill

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I've always been attracted to guys at the extremes, very tall or very short; I'm right in the middle at 5'10-11" (I seem to be slightly shorter now than I was when I was younger). In the old days at the Everard Baths in NYC, there used to be a regular there named Lou, who was 5'3", and there were lines of men who were eager to have sex with him (he was a top).

 

Ah yes, time to wax nostalgic about those good old days of the Everard. Wonder what ever became of Lou (don't believe I ever had the pleasure of making his acquaintance, but it's long enough ago - some things get lost in the mists of memory. . .)

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Being tall has its advantages and disadvantages. I've met several tall guys who complained that they don't have enough leg room on a airplane. Worse being the Broadway theaters where the leg room is not adapted for tall guys.

 

Google says that the average male height is 5'10" (not sure whether that's Internet inches or real inches).

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This feeds into my raging feelings of inadequacy - we automatically seem to think that taller is better and cut those people more slack than we otherwise would. And there is a certain amount of smugness present among the taller guys who write here. Get over it, folks. Evolutionarily speaking, taller is not better - look what happened to the dinosaurs. I've been with tall guys and short guys - the sex is pretty much the same - at least as far as the actual "deed" goes. To the guys who wrote that horizontal-ness seems to equalize everything, thank you.

 

I am 5-11, but I find those 5-4 to 5-7 range guys who are fit to be very sexy -- they have a tight, compact musculature and a way of moving I just love. Some really tall guys tend to be unwieldy and awkward (I say that knowing I myself am unwieldy and awkward and I'm not even 6 feet).. Of course, other really tall guys wear it well and it's sexy. Then sometimes it's sexy to be eye-to-eye with another 5-11 guy.

 

it's all good to me.

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I am 5-11, but I find those 5-4 to 5-7 range guys who are fit to be very sexy -- they have a tight, compact musculature and a way of moving I just love. Some really tall guys tend to be unwieldy and awkward (I say that knowing I myself am unwieldy and awkward and I'm not even 6 feet).. Of course, other really tall guys wear it well and it's sexy. Then sometimes it's sexy to be eye-to-eye with another 5-11 guy.

 

it's all good to me.

 

My personal trainer has told me more than once that guys of average or shorter height have an easier time getting defined musculature than taller guys. One of my ex boyfriends was certainly a case in that point. Guys my height tend to look lanky or huge and bulky. I still wonder if there is any validity to what my trainer is saying though.

 

 

Lohengrin

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Some really tall guys tend to be unwieldy and awkward

 

Sometimes that can be kind of sexy, lol - maybe it's that sense of vulnerability that I find hot.

 

Appealing to my romantic side, nothing quite takes the place of a tight hug with a tall guy - his long arms folding around me, my head resting on his shoulders or chest, or looking up at him...finding the way to stand together so we can kiss comfortably...all very hot. :o

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My personal trainer has told me more than once that guys of average or shorter height have an easier time getting defined musculature than taller guys .... Lohengrin

 

I'm not tall, but have long upper-arm bones (the point of my elbow is about even with my hip socket) and a trainer told me

that guys with shorter upper arms have an easier time getting bigger appearing biceps.

 

Being a fan of mutual oral, I can offer anecdotal evidence that torso length varies less than height, but that there have been

a couple of guys I was with (a few years ago), who were taller in that way, that made it a challenge :)

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