Have you ever Come Across a Liar?

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And much seed have I spilled looking into the eyes of Matt Dallas...

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[+ FreshFluff]

Well, some of these eyes are beautiful (Ian Somerhalder) while others (Matt Dallas) are intense.

[Guest]

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[rocky]

Hello friends. Well as compulsive a liar of telling someone they are an all american athlete, etc; no can't say that I've had that much fabrication. But, and this might not be popular, aren't most "ad's for escorts a bit of a lie? For example, as I've been told by an escort I've seen weekly for 15 years, it's OK to post their age at least 5 years young than they really are, is that a lie? Well yeah. How about how big they are, or what they like, or former military, etc. We are in a situation where we are looking for companionship and fun; and sometimes we - or maybe I - hope to find that extraordinary type of guy and if it's a lie and he lives up to expectation, I'm ok with that. I'm not dissing our escorts, who thank god have been around for me, but let's face the truth, some of us don't want to know the truth, we'd rather imagine what we can while having a good time. OK enough said, Rocky

[Michael Wayne]

yes. almost weekly i catch a potential new client in a lie. They are booked with three escorts on one night at one time. Time for appointment comes and they suddenly cancel on me with a lame excuse. What they dont realize is that as a safety and security measure we escorts talk to one another and we are friends. So my friend calls and tells me he is headed to the ritz in naples to see a client in room 931. He says he will call me when he is done and if i dont hear from him in two hours come see if he is ok. Funny thing is the guy who canceled on me was in the ritz in room 931 and supposedly had gotten terribly sick from the raw oysters he had for dinner. This used to upset me but now I just say a big, "whatever!"

[+ Gar1eth]

I had a best friend from high school that I could never quite believe starting with his reporting of his SAT/ACT results. In arguments he would make these definitive statements involving facts and figures that I always doubted because I just couldn't believe he had the information readily to bring to mind. In college he told me and at least one other person of stumbling accidentally onto some cult and receiving FBI protection. I didn't really believe the story. But he told it to me over years, and the details from what I could remember were always very consistent over the years. I didn't understand how if the story were a lie, he could remember the details well enough to tell the story so consistently. Years later he had treatment for alcoholism. We didn't have much contact after college. But one time on a sporadic phone call he came out as gay to me. I had just had sex for the 1st time ever within the previous 11 months and still wasn't comfortable with being gay ( even more back then than I am now), so I didn't tell him. I last saw him at my 20 year high school reunion 4 years ago. He was talking a mile a minute - I don't know if it was drugs or mental illness. A year or so later I received an email from a mutual friend telling me he had died. After a discussion with that friend, I had the impression that he had taken his own life possibly from an overdose of psychiatric medications.

 

So I can't help wondering now- how much his exaggerations in high school weren't so much evidence of being a tall-tale-teller but were the beginning signs of mental illness. It's also very funny- while he was alive- I didn't really have to see him to not miss him- it was enough to know that he was out there somewhere doing well- he was like one of the touchstones of my past. He is/was one of the people (or events) that makes me- me. Now that he is gone- and I know that he is not here- and that I won't ever run into him again- I find myself thinking about him more often. I must admit to feelings of guilt that I didn't spend more time with at the reunion. But he was acting very strange- talking a mile a minute- drinking alcohol when I, and multiple people, knew he was an alcoholic. Plus I was at the reunion with two other friends. I don't know these excuses sound lame to me now. If there is an afterlife, which I have more doubts about than belief, I hope he is at peace.

 

Gman

[+ purplekow]

Sounds like your friend may have had significant bipolar disease with mania being one possibility for his behavior with grandiosity and the flight of ideas. No matter what the cause, it is easier to look back and see the better path when asking "why did I..." than to look forward and find the better path and consider "what if I..."