Forthcoming movie on GAY GERONTOPHILIA

[bcohen7719]

Finally....

 

BC

 

http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/bruce-labruces-gerontophilia-shoot-summer-canada-327671

[bigvalboy]

Years ago, when I was in my 40's I hired an escort out of "The Numbers," and once we got home he began telling me how guys in their 80's turned him on.............it was a very disturbing night. I have no intention of seeing a film about the same subject matter. I still have nightmares.

[jjkrkwood]

80 ??? In Gay culture, you're pretty much dead when you hit your 50's, so basically this is a film about Necrophilia ????

[adriano46]

80 ??? In gay culture, you're pretty much dead when you hit your 50's, so basically this is a film about necrophilia ????

 

lol!!!!!

[rguer]

80 ??? In Gay culture, you're pretty much dead when you hit your 50's, so basically this is a film about Necrophilia ????

 

You hang out with the wrong crowd. Stay mentally active and adventurous and people will always want to be around you. Maybe not exactly the people you want, but (for me at least) that's never been the case anyway.

[rguer]

Also see: Shortbus. But only one scene if I remember correctly.

[BgMstr4u]

Wow! Loving older men! That really is the love that dare not speak its name! Having recently crossed the threshold of 65, I say, laisser les bons temps rouler!

[Zapped]

The vast majority of guys in their late teens and twenties may be into guys their own age, but there is a nice subset of the age group with a thing for older guys.

 

I'm 53. Winter/spring on 2011 I was living in NYC, and hooked up (for free, mind you) with a number of guys from 19--early 30s. Last fall I began a relationship with a guy then 21, now 22, and we are still together. (He's a short, slender guy from China who looks like he might be 16 or 17. Remarkably big cock, too.)

 

So I don't feel "dead" yet, by any means!

[bigvalboy]

The vast majority of guys in their late teens and twenties may be into guys their own age, but there is a nice subset of the age group with a thing for older guys.

 

I'm 53. Winter/spring on 2011 I was living in NYC, and hooked up (for free, mind you) with a number of guys from 19--early 30s. Last fall I began a relationship with a guy then 21, now 22, and we are still together. (He's a short, slender guy from China who looks like he might be 16 or 17. Remarkably big cock, too.)

 

So I don't feel "dead" yet, by any means!

 

Stories like this gives such hope to this AARP crowd...you have no idea!!! I have, as of late, really backed off the hiring. Perhaps in the end, there is hope for a relationship without using the Amex card....

[Zapped]

Stories like this gives such hope to this AARP crowd...you have no idea!!! I have, as of late, really backed off the hiring. Perhaps in the end, there is hope for a relationship without using the Amex card....

 

Definitely. I have a nice belly and otherwise am not too bad to look at. My now 20-year-old friend in NY texts me occasionally wanting me to come visit, and my 22-year-old wants to get married. Sigh. It does get better, lol!

 

My kids, who are almost-21 and 23, are not thrilled with the idea of a 22-year-old potential stepfather! So there are challenges.

[bigvalboy]

I have a nice belly and otherwise am not too bad to look at. My now 20-year-old friend in NY texts me occasionally wanting me to come visit, and my 22-year-old wants to get married. Sigh. It does get better, lol!

 

Ok...now I want your life!! LOL LOL

[bigvalboy]

You hang out with the wrong crowd. Stay mentally active and adventurous and people will always want to be around you. Maybe not exactly the people you want, but (for me at least) that's never been the case anyway.

 

I completely agree here. Walking to dinner last night with a friend of mine in WEHO, We passed three people on the side walk. Two gentlemen were at least in there 80's, and one guy with them was not a day over 25. He was gorgeous, tall, and had a body to die for walking along in his tight little tank top. I said to my friend "There you go, bought and paid for" he looked at me and said "You don't know that" I said "Oh yes I do" to which he replied, "No, you actually don't" I laughed and thought for a moment and said.."ok, I'll give you that one".........One never knows, do one.

 

We all have choices. It is all about how you choose to live your life...IMO

[marylander1940]

Was it released already?

 

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[+ poolboy48220]

I think so, sometime last year.

[+ Charlie]

I was 17 when I came out, and many of the men I had sex with in my late teens and early twenties were in their 30s and 40s; one of my regulars was almost 60. It was mainly because I was always horny, and they were the guys who were available, and had their own place to do it. However, as I got into my 20s, I had my own place, and I began to look for peers closer to my own age for relationships, which became more important than just sex. I continued to make gay friends who were sometimes much older than I was, but my first partner was 3 years older and my eventual spouse was 7 years older, not exactly gerontophilia. I think the number of young gays who are permanently attracted to much older men is pretty small, but I suspect many successful professional escorts are genuinely attracted to older men.

[Rudynate]

I used to think that younger men being attracted to older men was an urban myth. Now that I'm in my 60's, I can tell you that it is not.

 

I also, in my 20's, used to wonder whether, when I got to be 50 or 60, if I would be attracted to men my own age. I'm very happy to find that I am. I LOVE other old guys, with the one qualification that they have to be fit old guys.

[Diverdan]

There is a wide range of interests between men of all ages. My impressions is that it is not only the body that is important, but the mind and personality of the older man, but also the interests of the younger man. I agree with BVB on this one... keep your body fit, your mind active and friends close. I have been involved with many guys much younger than I am, but I also treasure a number of guys who are older than me. Sexual expression seems to have different dimensions as we age, at least that is how it appears to me. I recently visited two guys who are married. One of them is a long time friend, some 20 years younger than me and who was a fb with me for a number of years before he moved. His partner is now also a good friend of mine and I often see the two of them and both are happy when I visit. And the one younger guy and I still have some great intimate times which is ok with his partner. So, stay open to what is around you and enjoy all that life has to offer, regardless of age !!

[rguer]

I used to think that younger men being attracted to older men was an urban myth. Now that I'm in my 60's, I can tell you that it is not.

 

I also, in my 20's, used to wonder whether, when I got to be 50 or 60, if I would be attracted to men my own age. I'm very happy to find that I am. I LOVE other old guys, with the one qualification that they have to be fit old guys.

 

Yep, stay in shape and don't let the sun turn your skin into leather, and age doesn't matter much. (Leather skin is just as much a turnoff in 20 year olds as in 60 year olds, but less common.)

[Lookin]

Was it released already?

 

Last year, I believe, and to limited box office, possibly reflecting a preponderance of senior matinee ticket sales. http://happy-coding.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/oliver@2x.png

[Guest boiworship08]

I used to think that younger men being attracted to older men was an urban myth. Now that I'm in my 60's, I can tell you that it is not.

 

I also, in my 20's, used to wonder whether, when I got to be 50 or 60, if I would be attracted to men my own age. I'm very happy to find that I am. I LOVE other old guys, with the one qualification that they have to be fit old guys.

 

That's very good to hear. Now that I'm middle-aged, I feel invisible, even though I work out every day and dress well and am told that I have a great personality. I need to get over this self-inflicted age thing.

[Rudynate]

That's very good to hear. Now that I'm middle-aged, I feel invisible, even though I work out every day and dress well and am told that I have a great personality. I need to get over this self-inflicted age thing.

 

That doesn't mean I have twenty-five year-olds chasing me non-stop. I am also invisible to most men under 40. It doesn't bother me though, and I don't know why not. I know that it bothers other men my age. Part of it is that I get my validation from other things. I have a fabulous partner who loves me deeply, I'm very skilled in a challenging profession, etc., etc. In my work, I also get to spend a lot of time with cute, smart young MBAs and engineers in the tech industry, and enjoy it thoroughly, but I don't have any desire to chase after them.

 

Also, I've never been that interested in the very young. Most of my hires, for example are in their late 30s or early 40s.

[wisconsinguy]

That doesn't mean I have twenty-five year-olds chasing me non-stop. I am also invisible to most men under 40. It doesn't bother me though, and I don't know why not. I know that it bothers other men my age. Part of it is that I get my validation from other things. I have a fabulous partner who loves me deeply, I'm very skilled in a challenging profession, etc., etc. In my work, I also get to spend a lot of time with cute, smart young MBAs and engineers in the tech industry, and enjoy it thoroughly, but I don't have any desire to chase after them.

 

Also, I've never been that interested in the very young. Most of my hires, for example are in their late 30s or early 40s.

Rudynate, I like your thought "I'm invisible to most men under 40." Fine with me as well. Being involved with an escort who is not only physically fit, sexy +, but also in tune and engaged to life to max, is a huge turn on. Plus, humor!!! To have been on earth long enough to having multiple experiences, and coming up smiling is another draw. I have found what I was looking for.

[anotherjohnindupont]

I used to think that younger men being attracted to older men was an urban myth. Now that I'm in my 60's, I can tell you that it is not.

I also, in my 20's, used to wonder whether, when I got to be 50 or 60, if I would be attracted to men my own age. I'm very happy to find that I am. I LOVE other old guys, with the one qualification that they have to be fit old guys.

 

please let me know where can I find those young guys attracted to men in their 60s so I can stop paying for sex and leave this forum :-)

[Rudynate]

Rudynate, I like your thought "I'm invisible to most men under 40." Fine with me as well. Being involved with an escort who is not only physically fit, sexy +, but also in tune and engaged to life to max, is a huge turn on. Plus, humor!!! To have been on earth long enough to having multiple experiences, and coming up smiling is another draw. I have found what I was looking for.

 

 

I don't particularly look for companionship from an escort.

[Rudynate]

please let me know where can I find those young guys attracted to men in their 60s so I can stop paying for sex and leave this forum :-)

 

I run into them at the gym. I don't get out much, it's about my only venue for meeting new people. Since I'm partnered, I'm not usually actively looking, and, occasionally, surprising things happen. It helps to be approachable. I'm usually in a pretty good mood, and I always enjoy chatting with strangers, so that sort of helps things happen.