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There is an escort in the Los Angeles area who I want to hire. He only works on an in call basis except for extended engagements. The guy is fairly well known to this site. His reviews are generally good and the majority seem real. My concern is the "giving up control." When I have an escort visits me I maintain a certain element of control over the situation. Safety naturally comes to mind and so does comfort in ones own surroundings. I was wondering what your experience has been with in call appointments? As a client are there any red flags I should be aware of?

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I have gone to a few escort homes for incalls. Most of the escorts who do incalls are great hosts. They have the place clean and well-prepared. They offer you drinks and put on nice music. I have always felt pretty safe with incalls because I figure if an escort wanted to commit a crime during our date, his home would be the WORST place in the world to do it! I think an incall is a perfectly acceptable alternative to the traditional hotel call provided you keep in mind the first rule of any relationship, be it escort/client, business, romantic, etc... If it feels really bad, bail!

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I agree totally with this comment. At your place your need to be in control of everything; at his place all you need to be in control of is yourself. You do not need to provide the drinks, towels, mouthwash, etc.; worry about him lifting something portable while you're in the bathroom; restrain your dog who keeps growling at the intruder; answer the phone call from your mother; or answer the door and deal with the nosy neighbor who is worried because she saw a stranger at your door late at night, or the hotel employee who wants to know if you have an unregistered guest. Unless you have made a date with Jeffrey Dahmer, he is not likely to perpetrate violence on you at his place, since he has to clean up the blood, get rid of the body, and deal with the police. He also knows that you know where to find him if you want to revenge yourself on him for anything. Only once in a 20 year career of going to escorts have I ever had an escort threaten me in any way at his place, and it was really a bluff.

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>As a

>client are there any red

>flags I should be aware

>of?

 

Off the top of my head: Furniture upholstered in pink, anything remotely connected with Barbra Streisand (i.e., CDs, autographed pics, owned videos of her movies, etc.), a pyramid hanging above the bed, a dog that is unable to retrieve a duck from a nearly frozen pond in December and any other pet.

 

Things at which you shouldn't bat an eye: Furniture covered in plastic with leather straps, anything connected with Metallica, a harness over the bed, labrador retrievers and dead animals on the walls and/or floors.

 

Later.

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