human sphincters, or assholes!

[Justice]

RE: Commitment and Responsibility

 

>IMHO clients have a RESPONSIBILITY to

>keep the date or cancel

>with appropriate notice (whatever that

>is)

 

I couldn't agree with you more!

 

>My comments should be tempered if

>there was a very LEGITIMATE

>REASON for the no show.

>I think part of this

>stems from the fact that

>we, clients and escorts, don't

>put ourselves in the other

>guy's shoes.

 

Again, I couldn't agree with you more! I see two escorts (they're partners) on a regular basis and just by coincidence had to reschedule my very first dates with both of them. (I see them separately, and at the time none of us knew that I would become a regular client of both of them.) I cancelled one date -- with a week's notice -- because of an unexpected midweek family get together. I cancelled the other date -- on less than twelve hours notice -- because I came down with a cold. (Escorts don't get sick days and I didn't want him to get sick because of me.) They both couldn't have been more understanding about my need to change our plans. Recently, one of them asked me -- on fairly short notice -- if I could change our date so that they could get together with their family. Naturally, I had no problem with his request. (The three of us actually had a good laugh about how ironic the situation was.) The bottom line is -- we all need to be considerate of one another. If you have a legitimate reason for not keeping a date (especially if you're the client) then it's up to you to reach out to your partner and let him know that you have a problem.

[Guest Jayinla]

I feel talkative today.... so luck you matt!!!! hahaha... if you want to avoid such headaches, ask for part of the fee upfront, at least an hour's worth.

Otherwise, I would keep on tell him that this business is first come first serve....sort of.. hahah..

hope this helps.

jay

<mailto:i4hireaz@aol.com>

[Guest pickwick]

RE: Commitment and Responsibility

 

>If either one flakes for no

>legitimate reason, do you think

>most escorts or clients would

>want to have a make-up

>session? I don't think I

>would.

 

I wouldn't either. I would never see someone again if he cancels without notice no matter what the reason. How do you know he'll show up for the make-up call?

[CT Dick]

> to avoid such headaches, ask for part of

>the fee upfront, at least an hour's worth.

 

 

Jay, I hope you are suggesting that Matt (and others?) use this policy only with someone who has done a no-show before. I'd have a real problem with an escort asking me for an hour's fee ahead of time.

 

Dick

[ted]

RE: Commitment and Responsibility

 

I've never not shown up or even cancelled although I was close a few weeks ago. But I do know that if this(no show with no contact) happens to the guy I see regularly, he will not reschedule without the fee being prepaid.

[Guest BenDover]

I once had to cancel an appointment with an escort I see regularly. It was for an overnight, which had been scheduled three weeks before. I had to cancel two days ahead. I felt terrible about it because I know that he depends upon the income he gets from me, and without even thinking about it, I paid him the full-fare any way just before I left on my business trip. I know that not everyone can do this financially, but I figured that I had intended to spend the money anyway, and so that was just the reality of business.

Much to my surprise and delight, two weeks later when I called him to schedule just a couple hours for that afternoon, he showed up at the house, pleasant and happy to see me, and refused to take his pay afterwards. He told me that if I wanted to spread the overnight fee that I had paid over a couple sessions, it would be fine with him.

My feeling, though, was, "look, this is business, too. My time and services are important, and I would charge for a missed appointment, and you should too." The real gift of the whole experience is the genuine respect and caring that has resulted between me and this particular escort. Its a matter of fairness and decency. Escorts are no less deserving of basic business etiquette than any other person.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE: Commitment and Responsibility

 

Looker,

 

>If either one flakes for no

>legitimate reason, do you think

>most escorts or clients would

>want to have a make-up

>session...

 

I understand that many might not... but receiving the offer might change one's outlook.