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Hows a about a lewd get together in the city. Here is the deal! I will arrange a place for a party for clients and their favorite escorts where all clients can come and intereact anonymously. I wanted to test the appetite for such an event in mid-july. As my contribution free I will arrange for the hotel room or suite and drinks and everyone would bring cash to the event and all cash will be used to pay the escorts. I will also contribute my own share to escort pool. I have no interest in your name and no interest even in finding out your username on this site. It would just be an anonymous way for us to get a large group of our fave guys together for a good time. For clients, who would be interested in such an event send me an email (get a new email if you wish) that answers the following:

 

1. are you top, bottom or versatile?

 

2. would your preference be a party that had 2 clients for every escort (the cheapest), 1 client for every escort or 2 escorts for every client (the most expensive)

 

3. What is the maximum amount of bodies you would be up for in a room: 5? 10? 15? Sky's the limit

 

4. Who would you like/which escort there for sure (could be new or old favourite to you)

 

5. What or who is your favourite type

 

For escorts who would like to be part of such an event email me too and tell me whether you are top or bottom. The thought is that we would create an economic situation for the escort that is premium pricing for 2 hours. Since I will not be screening the clients, escorts with standards should not apply..i.e. anyone who says "no blacks, no fems, no fattys, no old people etc." should not attend since we do not know which clients will attend.

 

We will all have to agree that if you do know someone in the room no real names will be spoken/used.

 

I do not intend to try and make money on this but just wanted to try something new. So all money brought will be used to pay the escorts in attendance. Once I get a sense of who the guys who might attend this event would like there, I will contact the escorts and make a tentative cash offer.

 

Once I get a sense as to how many are interested. I will post the specifics of the party (except the location and password- think eyes wide shut)and then you can all confirm etc. Based on the interest I will balance the tops and bottoms and will confirm which escorts will attend etc.

 

Anyone up for something like this email me at :

 

[email protected]

 

Blu

 

...if there is no interest or not enough interest we just will not go forward! blu

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Guest jizzdepapi

this is a really really REALLY interesting idea blu but i need to think about it.

 

i've often fantasized about several escorts in a scene together but other clients too? will get back to you.

 

best,

jizz

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Very interesting idea....I guess the biggest consideration is "How much is this going to cost"(for those of us coming from out of town, hotel,transportation, etc are added expenses) and of course, WHO ARE THE ESCORTS who will attend. In my youth, I organized 3 "parties"(not involving escorts) and it is a very demanding endeavor. If you can pull it off, it would be great attending such an event. Keep posting here regularly to give us an idea of how much interest is shown by both clients and escorts.

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It has been very interesting the response so far. I have had about 7 emails- all clients. One found the whole thing downright objectionable. All the others were cautiously intrigued. A couple expressed similar concerns as jizz where the idea of other clients there would be an issue and suggested that we have clients there as OBSERVERS only and not participatory but to incur expense without the participation seems infortunate. Anyone else's thoughts on this would be welcome. Another person suggested that we have clear codes of behavior in that "clients could not touch other clients without their express permission" But once we are all there in the buff to legisilate behavior maybe hard. So lots of details etc. to work out. I will periodically post the themes of what I am hearing on the board and once the messages reach any kind of consensus, I will post what seems to be the "best compromise possible" and then people can decide at that point if they wish to attend. Overwhelmingly, everyone wanted more escorts there than clients and were willing to pay to make it as such and one email even said that he would not even consider attending if there were less escorts than clients so he would rather spend the cash. Most of the clients interested so far were self-identified bottoms so on the current mix we would be looking for tops. Someone also said to perhaps once we have a quorom get an escort involved to identify which escorts have good chemistry with other escorts. A couple of escorts have already emerged as high priority invitees on multiple people's lists. Now I have not contacted either of them etc. and will not do so until more emails and info has come in. Will keep you all posted. blu

 

I had not thought of out of towners but I suppose if you are in NYC or can get to NYC pretty easily then ofcourse you would also

be welcome. blu

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One more thing. Someone was hyperconcerned about his privacy and how the money will exhange hands. I have not yet worked out all the details yet b/c I wanted to see if there was interest. But basically, I would never have to know your name as we would communicate through email only. Once the cash outlay is decided I will email everyone to whom they should give their cash AT the event. For example, lets say the economics of participation are $400 to play and each escort is promised $300 then you will get an email that says when you get there, you need to give $300 to Escort1 and $100 to escort 2 and I will work out the financial logistics such that it will be very clear who will give what to whom in advance. I also want to maintain my anonymyity which will be far more difficult to achieve than any of you guys since I am trying to orchestrate the thing so do not worry at the end of this your privacy is assured. The only danger is that when you get to the party you run into your next door neighbor..and that unfortunately I cannot control. But rather than get hung up on logistics etc. now, lets focus on seeing if there is interest in the party and what kind of party etc. and I promise I will design exquisite logistics such that your privacy is maintained and that there is no chance in hell that you will be ripped off. blu

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RE: a pensive bluboy...

 

Hi all.

 

I will not respond directly to all emails sent but try to answer all questions here so that all may see until the details of the party go underground. The emails continue to pour in with many willing to travel to NYC if we will lock down the date. Here are some themes that are emerging.

 

1. Best compromise looks like 10 clients to 12 or 13 escorts (a few wanted to save money but most wanted to spend a little more for a better time)

 

2. Yes I will make sure the room is big enough

 

3. Likely mix of escorts will be 6 tops, 3 bottoms and 3/4 versatile

 

4. Several names emerging consistently. I will wait a few more days to get a few more emails b4 contacting the top names. Do not want to mention them here yet (or maybe even ever mention them here)...more likely that only those that email and express explicit interest will know the final names of those who will be in attendance..suffice to say there is broad agreeement as to who should be there..will also check the reviews that it is people who are client friendly

 

5. It will have to be on a Friday; which I know is not good for a couple of you but I am trying to balance many constituencies

 

6. Likely that it will start at 10.30/11ishpm

 

7. Some limits have been requested on clients but they are generous. I apologize for this but there were many requests like this...no client under 30 or over 55 years and no one more than 50lbs overweight

 

8. Clients much not involve each other

 

9. Need to make sure in the planning that there are "lead" escorts whose job it is to make sure that no clients are left out and also to get the ball rolling

 

10. For those who will need "lots of alcohol" to get going I will make sure that we have a variety of beverages but you should drink some if you need it B4 getting there as well

 

11. Will try and get a room with a VCR such that there can be porn to help set the mood

 

12. No hardcore "partying" but modest non obnoixous recreational stuff would be fine

 

13. Evening should start with an escort "show" to warm up clients

 

14. "Modest lighting please"

 

15. Across the board cleanliness!!!!!! (3 emails on this)

 

16. Too complicated to arrange special paraphernalia like slings etc...so unless someone has a place with slings etc already..we will have to live with a hotel room which last time I checked did not have this stuff

 

17. No scat and w/s in the bathroom requested by a few. Please no w/s on the bed etc.

 

18. NO Cameras! No photos! No video recording etc. You will have to live with the memories

 

19. Dress discretely but you can obviously change into whatever you want when you get to the room

 

I will begin contacting escorts on the list on Monday...so for those of you who maybe interested but have not yet emailed me with your requests or issues let me know. blu

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RE: a pensive bluboy...

 

Just out of curiosity, since I won't be able to attend, how do you plan to differentiate the clients and the escorts? Nowadays, there are a lot of clients who prefer older escorts, and a lot of younger clients. And I can think of at least one major national escort who has only 6", and remember some super hung clients I've had. At my gay male nudist club, we often use magic markers right on flesh for nametags, and I suppose you could do that, but I'm not sure the clients would like that, either. So?

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Guest special947

RE: a pensive bluboy...

 

I am definitely interested in joining in please let me know sll the details

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Guest FirstPlace

RE: a pensive bluboy...

 

>Hi all.

>

>

>

>1. Best compromise looks like 10

>clients to 12 or 13

>escorts (a few wanted to

>save money but most wanted

>to spend a little more

>for a better time)

>

>2. Yes I will make sure

>the room is big enough

>

>

>3. Likely mix of escorts will

>be 6 tops, 3 bottoms

>and 3/4 versatile

>

>4. Several names emerging consistently. I

>will wait a few more

>days to get a few

>more emails b4 contacting the

>top names. Do not want

>to mention them here yet

>(or maybe even ever mention

>them here)...more likely that only

>those that email and express

>explicit interest will know the

>final names of those who

>will be in attendance..suffice to

>say there is broad agreeement

>as to who should be

>there..will also check the reviews

>that it is people who

>are client friendly

>

>5. It will have to be

>on a Friday; which I

>know is not good for

>a couple of you but

>I am trying to balance

>many constituencies

>

>6. Likely that it will start

>at 10.30/11ishpm

>

>7. Some limits have been requested

>on clients but they are

>generous. I apologize for this

>but there were many requests

>like this...no client under 30

>or over 55 years and

>no one more than 50lbs

>overweight

>

>8. Clients much not involve each

>other

>

>9. Need to make sure in

>the planning that there are

>"lead" escorts whose job it

>is to make sure that

>no clients are left out

>and also to get the

>ball rolling

>

>10. For those who will need

>"lots of alcohol" to get

>going I will make sure

>that we have a variety

>of beverages but you should

>drink some if you need

>it B4 getting there as

>well

>

>11. Will try and get a

>room with a VCR such

>that there can be porn

>to help set the mood

>

>

>12. No hardcore "partying" but modest

>non obnoixous recreational stuff would

>be fine

>

>13. Evening should start with an

>escort "show" to warm up

>clients

>

>14. "Modest lighting please"

>

>15. Across the board cleanliness!!!!!! (3

>emails on this)

>

>16. Too complicated to arrange special

>paraphernalia like slings etc...so unless

>someone has a place with

>slings etc already..we will have

>to live with a hotel

>room which last time I

>checked did not have this

>stuff

>

>17. No scat and w/s in

>the bathroom requested by a

>few. Please no w/s on

>the bed etc.

>

>18. NO Cameras! No photos! No

>video recording etc. You will

>have to live with the

>memories

>

>19. Dress discretely but you can

>obviously change into whatever you

>want when you get to

>the room

>

 

20. Too many conditions and restrictions to be called a "party." "And the sign said... Restricted Country Club specific age, weight requirements ahead."

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RE: a pensive bluboy...

 

If you've paid any attention around here, you'd know that 0 posts means nothing...the counter hasn't worked in ages. No telling how many posts he's actually done.

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RE: a pensive bluboy...

 

>If you've paid any attention around

>here, you'd know that 0

>posts means nothing...the counter hasn't

>worked in ages. No telling

>how many posts he's actually

>done.

 

While my heart tells me to channel “regulation” and go on a complete tirade…my mind is begging me to channel “Will” and respond in a kind and educated manner...we'll see who wins....

 

Dear BBKK,

 

I do pay quite a bit of attention around here. My counter was reactivated about the time I was excused from moderation. This young man (and/or COP) could still be in moderation...hence the zero post listing could be erroneous.

 

Nonetheless, the search engine is working fine....look up his name...this is his only post to date.

 

I rest my case.

 

Love,

nycman

 

P.S...now go fuck yourself

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Guest DJPerez

RE: a pensive bluboy...

 

First Place:

 

Sorry that you feel that the plans suggested are overly defined.

 

Coming from experience with both attending and hosting "play" parties, I've noted that it's the clarity of the party details that can make or break this kind of party. The guests really have to have an idea of the parameters of the party and what to expect and not expect, in order to get the most out of it.

 

Now some of those parameters might lead some to choose not to attend, or to be unqualified for attending. The best that I can say about that is "C'est domage, mais C'est la vie!", or " It's a shame, but that's life!"

 

If you feel left out of this party, for what ever reason, what about hosting your own "play" party, just the way you like it? There's plenty of room for hot parites, and I'm sure you could find escorts who would be willing to work with your hosting rules.

 

Give it a try! ;-)

 

Peace & Pleasure!

 

DJP

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RE: a pensive bluboy...

 

>7. Some limits have been requested

>on clients but they are

>generous. I apologize for this

>but there were many requests

>like this...no client under 30

>or over 55 years and

>no one more than 50lbs

>overweight

>

Can't wait until these people reach 56 and 51 lbs. overweight. Do you think they will change the restrictions then? Or just shoot themselves?

 

What's next? No predjudice like a narrow mind!!

 

N

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Now let's see. Do you remember being in grammar school when all (and I do mean "all") the boys were "invited" to play baseball or football during recess? Do you remember the strictly democratic processes that led to the choice of the captains? Do you remember the method by which the captains subsequently chose those who were actually going to be allowed to play? Were you ever one of those invited to such a party, but then learned that you couldn't, really, be called eligible to participate?

 

And moving right along. Are the escorts, too, supposed to be over 30 but under 55? My, my, that certainly would leave out a lot of escorts who tell us, year after year, that they are still a baby-faced 29. Do you suppose that if we upped their fee for this shindig in a hotel room that they might be encouraged to betray their real age? Or is it the case that only clients will be required to show their passports or their birth certificates at the door?

 

Just inside the door, I assume, there will be a standing scale, the kind they have in the doctor's office, so that nobody who doesn't weigh in will be able to reveal their drop-dead gorgeous bodies to the lustful gaze of all those equally gorgeous other men. I must confess that the exquisite detail of the weight limit betrays a puzzling sense of corporeal aesthetics. I wasn't aware that someone who is 5'5" and 50 pounds overweight looks exactly like someone who is 6'5" and 50 pounds overweight.

 

Please do tell us the names of the professional young men who will be in paid attendance so that I can be sure to avoid offending them in more private circumstances. I wouldn't want to foist my ancient hideousness off onto someone else.

 

This whole scheme is just about as attractive to me as that review for the bareback escort yesterday or the day before. Twenty years ago I thought that the AIDS crisis would actually encourage gay boys to become gay men. I see that there is still a distance to go. I say, "Phooey!"

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The idea of a "summer party" in NYC as is described in this thread is intriguing. It reminds me, though, of an operation I saw on Cops (yes, I have been known to watch these horrible reality shows). A sting was set up by mailing letters to persons with outstanding warrants that stated they had won prizes such as televisions, Nikes, and camcorders. It was explained in the mailing that in order to claim the prize, they needed to appear in person with valid ID and the letter at a ballroom at an airport hotel. When these people showed up, of course they were arrested. It was amazing how many outstanding warrants were no longer outstanding.

I feel like a wet blanket for writing this, but I have been thinking about it since this thread was initially posted. Is there any other way that security can be guaranteed? Is there a manner in which this can be done that is safe? My gut jumped when I read it, and then turned again as I read the enthusiastic responses.

Be careful, guys. Please.

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Will & N:

 

I can relate to your sense of dismay and disgust at the possibility of being "left out of the ball game". Believe me, I have plenty of my own experiences and feelings about being chosen last for the grade-school softball team. Those feelings can still resonate today when "the Velvet Rope goes up" and issues of exclusivity crop up in gay settings, particularly around age and body type.

 

I used to grouse about it. Even being somewhat to the Left of center, I spent much time with friends debating "looks-ism" in the gay community. Y'know what? For all that, erotic "flavors of the year" have continued to send men dashing to the gym in seach of molding themselves into the very pornographic ideals that so many of us enjoy when arranging for our escorts. It has also continued to cut many of us out of the erotic "elite", as presented in porn, that I think helps to drive our interest (and our resentment) in these models of so-called "erotic excellence".

 

I used to grouse; I know now I am powerless as an individual to change the mores and values of an entire culture. What I've found I CAN do is to create a territory for myself and peers where how I appear is either erotically supported and even of value. Others have done the same. Think of the BEAR movement, for example. Instead of waiting for erotic acceptance from a community standard that would never value them erotically, Bears have created their own erotic landscape where how they appear is valued and desired.

 

What I suggested above to First Look, and to all here, is the same. If you don't like the way you're being treated by the baseball teams, leave those guys and find another set of playmates that WANT to play with you, your way. Create your own parties, cirlces of hot orgies, J/O groups, etc., where you are not only NOT excluded, but might even be the "flavor that's favored"!

 

 

Want help on how to pull this together? Let's start a constuctive thread on how to set up a successful play party! I know there's plenty of experience out here; so let's start exchanging ideas!

 

As much as we ask for maturity from others, why don't we ask of it from ourselves when we feel hurt and excluded, and realize that we are creative adults with a host of options to create opportunities for ourselves, instead of relying on someone else's largesse.

 

Peace, Pleasure, and Personal Power!

 

D J Perez

 

Peace & Pleasure!

 

DJP

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Guest sdmuscl4hire

Wow, sounds like fun.

 

God I want so bad to say something but I cant, lol I will just keep reading.............

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Guest bottomboykk

RE: a pensive bluboy...

 

>P.S...now go fuck yourself

 

My, what a mature response.

 

I was going to respond further, but I didn't it wasn't worth it.

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Ok, here is the deal. I am cancelling plans for an open party. What I have learnt over the last 10 days with this post up! There is overwhelming interest in doing something like this. I got over 40 client emails expressing interest with about 10 of those willing to make a special trip to NYC to participate- one guy was even willing to come from London. I did an early outreach 10 of the most popular escorts requested 3 said yes, 3 said no and 3 I had not yet heard from. One of the nos was really insulting to clients at large but we will let that go. Unsolicited, I had heard about 15 different escorts- about 10 of whom I knew from the board and were pretty well respected and the others I had never heard of but had pretty good websites etc.

So there is undoubtedly interest in pulling something like this off. So why not go forward? For the reasons alluded to in the public forum. I received a number of emails from people who were insulted by the standards being created by the party. This in iteslf did not bother me because I did kind of feel: well create your own party becuase in many ways I was responding to and trying to create a scene that the greatest number of people attending would enjoy- not easy if you are trying to compromise 20 or so points of view. It was also becoming clear as the requests came in that there was a massive economic divide and if you think that the issue of my standards for the party were an issue wait until the pricing became public. As the letters came in, more and more people wanted to pay more to assure that the mix in the room was heavily escort weighted AND given my assumption (which I think is right) that the escorts would want to be paid a premium to their regular rates (not give a discount as some clients have requested) the party was becoming very expensive. But even with that, I was still willing to go forward and take the wrath of the folks who felt left out because they could not afford it. However, I got 3 cautionary emails, 1 from an escort who turned it down and 2 clients who basically said the same thing and all had a similar suggestion. Cops and expectations management. Now, why the cops would be interested is a mystery to me since we were just going to share stories of our sexual fantasies and there was never any intention that sex would actually occur. Bottom line is they said to put my self at the center of this events had all kinds of risks and the best way to accomplish it (but it does not allow for the absolute preservation of privacy) was what I will call the "3 degrees of separation" so there is always someone in the room to vouch for someone else. So I create my own standard and invite 2 people who then invite 2 people until we reach the desired number and then this smaller group who is connected through a chain then put their suggestions for escorts in the till and the members of the group that have already been with the desired escorts invite them directlly. Closed party- everyone safe- standards agreed- same economic expectations etc. I say this part in open forum to just say that for those of you who have written me to let you know that a lot of your fellow partners in crime are definately interested in letting something like this happen and suggesting a way for you to let it happen for you. as of now, I take any plans I had had for an open and relatively publicly available party off the table. Sorry to have gotten your hopes up. But as they say, you live and you learn. and I have learnt! blu

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Bluboy...

 

My experience has been that the only way a party like this will

work is if the clients involved are friends and are comfortable

in a sexual situation with each other. And the clients should be the ones who initiate the party deciding amongst themselves

which escorts they would like to participate.

 

Also, it's highly unlikely that the cops would get involved. They

still have to get you talking about money/sex just as they would

in a one-on-one situation. A orgy-type scene would be too

complicated for them to be able to conduct a sting operation.

 

[email protected]

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>It has also continued to

>cut many of us out

>of the erotic "elite", as

>presented in porn, that I

>think helps to drive our

>interest (and our resentment) in

>these models of so-called "erotic

>excellence".

>

>I used to grouse; I know

>now I am powerless as

>an individual to change the

>mores and values of an

>entire culture. What I've found

>I CAN do is to

>create a territory for myself

>and peers where how I

>appear is either erotically supported

>and even of value.

 

What you posted really made me think. Thanks. One of the things I always think about when people complain about what is usually called "body fascism" is whether the people who are complaining use those same standards of youth and beauty in choosing their own sexual partners. I do, so I can't complain if others do.

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Guest DJPerez

Bluboy:

 

I want to thank you for putting the idea of this party out there, and being willing to deal with all the responses, many which seem to have been challenging what you thought was a great idea.

 

I hope that you will continue, with different stategies, to put together the party you envision. Let us know how it turns out!

 

Peace & Pleasure!

 

DJP

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