Clients I would not like to see

[Guest cp8036]

Good points.. nice to hear other side of the coin. It would be nice to know if some good chemisty can come out of a potential meeting. My time, money, and opportunities to hire are limited, and I would like it to be a good bang for the buck (bad pun). However, many times (especially AOL)I have asked for a bit more info from an escort beyond just stats and rates. In many cases they are too quick to ask "when ya making an appointment", or unwilling to say much. I know escorts must have to deal with some chatters that are not serious, but I just would like to sort some subjective issues by short exchange of emails, or even a short call. One of the best guys I hired insisted we talk on the phone for a bit. I don't want some extended dialougue or email.

 

But, seems many escorts dont want to spend the 4-5 mins to explain a bit more of themselves, what they like, dont like, and so on. In the end, a well selected appointment will be more rewarding for both parties, and less time wasted in the end.

 

Any tips on how to get more info beyond "5. 10, 155 lbs, 8 inch dick, $200 per hour, when ya wanna meet?" Guess this will come with the less professional, newer escorts. Do either of you try to spend extra email or two to find out more of what is expected, what client is about?

[Guest Theron]

Hello All -- BIG SMILE

 

I'm an escort. I've been reading the Message Center with great interest, and responding to some posts. It is obvious, there are many good people here, who post interesting and thought provoking messages. I believe clients and escorts, alike, can benefit by reading and posting in the Message Center.

 

One thing I think we can all agree on, it is always a good practice for an escort to be upfront about the activities they enjoy, and the type of client they appreciate being with. This will almost always spare disappointments for all parties.

 

While I am always grateful and flattered when people express interest in me, I have determined, there are a percentage of people who participate in the Male 4 Male Review site that I would not want to see. Those are the small percentage of people who continually submit posts that are designed to have a negative impact on others. I am now going on record by posting this message here for those individuals.

 

Sincerely,

 

Theron

Based Out of Chicago

http://theronb.homestead.com/files/home.html

[Losgatan]

>While I am always grateful and

>flattered when people express interest

>in me, I have determined,

>there are a percentage of

>people who participate in the

>Male 4 Male Review site

>that I would not want

>to see. Those are

>the small percentage of people

>who continually submit posts that

>are designed to have a

>negative impact on others.

>I am now going on

>record by posting this message

>here for those individuals.

 

Theron,

 

You raise an issue that has interested me for a long time: “What kinds of clients appeal most to escorts? Or, to put it another way: “What can a client do to improve the quality of time spent with an escort?”

 

I can certainly appreciate it that you may not want to get too specific about this here as, no matter what you say, there’s a risk of offending someone. And, I’m fairly certain that not all escorts would answer these questions in the same way.

 

Yet, I personally would like some guidance here. Is the client who’s simply looking for sex easier to handle than one who tries to connect with you as a person? Which types of encounters leave you feeling good about yourself and your profession?

[Guest Theron]

>You raise an issue that has

>interested me for a long

>time: “What kinds of

>clients appeal most to escorts?

> Or, to put it

>another way: “What can

>a client do to improve

>the quality of time spent

>with an escort?”

>

>I can certainly appreciate it that

>you may not want to

>get too specific about this

>here as, no matter what

>you say, there’s a risk

>of offending someone. And,

>I’m fairly certain that not

>all escorts would answer these

>questions in the same way.

>

>

>Yet, I personally would like some

>guidance here. Is the

>client who’s simply looking for

>sex easier to handle than

>one who tries to connect

>with you as a person?

> Which types of encounters

>leave you feeling good about

>yourself and your profession?

 

 

Hiya -- BIG SMILE!

 

What an excellent question. I agree, each escort will have a different answer, so my response will only be specific to me.

 

Right off the bat, there are a few types of clients that turn me off. One is the client who lacks respect for the escort as a person. The type of client who treats escorts as if they are a piece of meat, with little, or no regard, for their feelings. The services an escort provides are highly personal, and I appreciate people who recognize that. There are a percentage of clients who, when they contact you, will actually say, "send me a picture of the merchandise," and there is another type of client who assumes, even if you are clear in your advertising about what you enjoy, that because they are paying they can request anything they like, and you must meet those needs. Another type are those who have drinking or addiction problems. I clearly state on my web site that I believe people have the right to make their own choices, but if I arrive and you are sloppy drunk, or so severely impaired with drugs that it affects your judgment, I will leave. Finally, the last type of client I do not appreciate are those who are not clean.

 

Personally, I feel equally good about personal and sexual exchanges with clients. The only type of experiences that cause me to feel bad are when I encounter mean spirited people, or people who try to take advantage of escorts. In fact, it is my primary consideration when deciding whether or not to accept a client. This web site focuses heavily on protecting clients from bad escorts, but for every bad escort that is an equally bad client.

 

We truly are providing a service to people that has value. Some of the situations that cause me to feel best about escorting is when I meet with someone who is outside of the range of what society considers beautiful. Unfortunately, we live in a society where people are often judged based upon their age and looks. No matter how attractive we once were, every one of us reach a point where physically we have seen our better days. Yet, our minds are so alive, and our desires have not disappeared. One of the greatest services escorts can provide to someone when they reach that point in life is the opportunity to put it aside, momentarily, and experience the passion and express the sexuality they have inside with another person who appreciates being with them. Hence, I always feel really good about being able to do that for another person.

 

I also really enjoy working with people who have a fantasy. This makes sex very creative and fun. I often think I appreciate working with this type of person the most.

 

Anyhow, this is my perspective. I hope it helps.

 

Hugs,

 

Theron

Based Out of Chicago

http://theronb.homestead.com/files/home.html

[Guest cp8036]

Hello,

 

Nice reply to the post. You sure sound like a good guy, and right for the business. To bad I dont live in Chicago these days. I always ask escorts what type they like, or dont like, and invariably they say guys that are mean or with some chip on their shoulder make for the worse time. Last guy said any day he will take a less attractive man with nice personality over a good looking guy that is a creep.

 

However, I always try to find if there is a certain physical type the escort prefers or hates, I would like to know. I dont expect genuinely lust or attraction, but sure would like to know if I am way far away from what a guy likes. Even the most professional guy will have some problem with someone he finds unpleasant physically.

 

Another thought, is there part of this site, or other site that always escorts to review clients??

[Guest jeffOH]

Theron--I must agree with everything you said in your post. As far as what type of client I prefer, I'd have to say I'm more of

a romantic. I enjoy kissing and touching first rather than getting right to the sex, especially with a new client. I guess

I prefer making love to mechanical sex. I can do both equally

well, but for me the mechanical stuff is more work.

 

I can handle "butt ugly" and 400lbs., but I do have some limits &

here are some reasons why I will refuse to see a client again:

--lack of respect, demeaning, condescending attitudes

--Not showing up for sched. appt w/no phone call OR

--showing up an 1/2 hour late and expecting a full hour with no

phone call to explain

--filthy homes

--dirty, smelly bodies

 

http://Jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest Theron]

>However, I always try to find

>if there is a certain

>physical type the escort prefers

>or hates, I would like

>to know. I dont

>expect genuinely lust or attraction,

>but sure would like to

>know if I am way

>far away from what a

>guy likes. Even

>the most professional guy will

>have some problem with someone

>he finds unpleasant physically.

 

Hi :-)

 

Good point. All people, even escorts, do have personal physical preferences. The best escorts do learn how to operate outside of those preferences. Still, realizing we do not live in a perfect world, and even the most professional escorts will have difficulities, at times, perhaps, the best way to determine if physical chemistry exists before meeting an escort, and then finding out it doesn't, is by sending that escort a picture of yourself. If they don't like what they see one would hope they would not schedule the appointment, and then the client could find another escort where he would have a better experience.

 

There are downsides to sending out your picture, though. Probably the biggest one is that sinking feeling of rejection, if the escort declines. No one likes to be rejected.

 

When I first started escorting I used to ask clients for pictures. In fact, I used to say no picture=no meet. I think newer escorts will sometimes ask for pictures. I don't require pictures anymore, but, I must admit,if someone sends me one I am always happy to get it.

 

Another method that will work is for an escort to say in his advertising, (web site), if there is a certain type he does not like. It is true that when an escort does this he limits himself, but if he honestly knows he cannot give a certain type of client his best then it is the honest thing to do. Another down side of doing this, for the escort, is he will sometimes be "slammed" for it. I must admit that I do not have a problem with an escort being specific about what he likes. I suppose as long as the service we are offering is sex that people should always be entitled to make their own choices about who they want to have sex with.

 

Perhaps, the best way to ensure that a physical chemistry does exist is for the client and escort to not be vague when communicating, but that requires a certain level of maturity on both parts, and tact, that is sometimes lacking on both sides.

 

I can say this, if I were a client, my objective would be to hire an escort I found physically attractive, that also appeared to be a nice person, who I believed had a sincere desire to meet my needs. In determining that I would, most assuredly, talk with the escort on the phone to get a feel for what he was like, find out what he enjoyed doing, and send him my picture. I'd just be up front and say, if there is any reason you are not into what I am or do not want to meet, please just let me know, and if he said no I'd be grateful I didn't waste my money.

 

Hugs,

 

 

Theron

Based Out of Chicago

http://theronb.homestead.com/files/home.html

[Guest Theron]

>But, seems many escorts dont want

>to spend the 4-5 mins

>to explain a bit more

>of themselves, what they like,

>dont like, and so on.

>

>Any tips on how to get

>more info beyond

>"5. 10, 155 lbs, 8

>inch dick, $200 per hour,

>when ya wanna meet?"

> Guess this will come

>with the less professional, newer

>escorts. Do either of

>you try to spend extra

>email or two to find

>out more of what is

>expected, what client is about?

>

 

Hi :-)

 

I always make an investment of time with a client who says they would like to meet. I've never met a client I did not personally speak with on the telephone. My suggestion, concerning those escorts who are not willing to invest a minimial amount of time communicating prior to meeting, is simply do not see those escorts. Yes, there are a lot of people who try and waste our time, and time is valuable. Some of those people merely want pictures, or want to try to draw us into cyber or phone sex. This can be determined very quickly, and when I do determine it I terminate the conversation. However, I am ALWAYS interested in communicating with someone who is serious, and always do :-)

 

Hugs,

 

Theron :-)

Based Out of Chicago

http://theronb.homestead.com/files/home.html

[Guest jeffOH]

Escorts, who are quick to ask when would you like to set up an

appt. after divulging nothing but height, weight and cock size,

are more than likely scam artists out to rip you off. When I call

up an escort to check them out and something like this happens,

a red flag immediately goes up.

 

I never set up an appt. without talking to the client on the

phone first. I like to ask the client some questions myself to

get an idea of what they're into, but I'll NEVER commit to fucking or sucking them.

 

I worked as an escort for 9 years, no computer/

no pics from clients, and rarely did I encounter a client with

whom I couldn't perform physically.

 

I've found more guys are likely to waste my time with e-mails

than phone calls and as Theron mentioned, I can tell very quickly

when someone is looking for phone or cyber sex. For one thing,

I never get that explicit as to what I get into and if they

have a computer they can read my reviews and find out more than

I ever divulge in e-mails or on the phone.

 

http://Jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest CZ]

Whenever I read earnest discussions of this sort, I can't help but think of Boyd McDonald's 'Straight to Hell.' One priceless issue had a quote from the sort of sex-worker I want to see: "Hey, I'm not just a human being, you know. I'm a piece of meat, too!"

[CT Dick]

>Any tips on how to get more info beyond

>"5. 10, 155 lbs, 8 inch dick, $200 per hour,

>when ya wanna meet?"

 

cp, what makes you think that this kind of guy is going to be warm and accommodating in person?

 

To me, this kind of attitude online is probably going to be followed by the same attitude in bed.

[Guest cp8036]

Exactly, that's why I don't consider them.

 

The last couple guys that were good choices encouraged some talk/email before to set the date up. Was obvious they were more serious, and better able to do good work and retain a clientele. The few mintues to present each other made a bit more personal. Both do quite well for this reason.

 

Guess this is the cost of sale. Even if calculated at $200 per hour for this setup, it must be cost effective. You can weed out flakes and other unsavory types.

 

It would be nice to spend hour or so to talk before getting naked, but some of us are not able to do evening or all night sessions. Money and domestic issues will limit encounters to hourly flings.

[+ Lucky]

And no FAGS, huh, Jeff?