What do you do when you run into your favourite rentboy?

[Guest bluboy]

I was just curious what we all did when we run into our favourite rent boy in public? Pretend not to see or know them? Stop and chat? Go for coffee? What if you are with friends? What if he is with friends? Are there intros exchanged? For years I ignored them and them me in the most discrete manner. Recently, I looked across the room in a restaurant and shared a smile with an old favourite as both he and I were with friends. Once to my horror, one came up to me to say hello while my married college friends were visiting me from Seattle and we were all having dinner. When he left I was asked "how do you know him?" and I said the very uncredible response: I used to pay him $250 to come to my place to fuck me! To which I got general laughter at my brilliant sense of humor BUT seriously how do you know him? To which I then responded, far more credibly, oh I met him at a gay bar one night and we ended up fooling around but nothing ever came of it. The games we play. Would love to hear other stories! blu

[Guest Jason Reardone]

http://www.JasonReardone.cjb.net

 

Blu, I found this for you from an old post I did. Hope it helps!

 

"Many times, (especially in small town back home) I have run into clients in public.

 

If I get a warm visual clue from them then I will allow them to approach me, if nothing occurs, then I can usually get the hint and will offer a nodding gesture as if to say hello. If an interlude was welcomed or unavoidalbe I would take the initiative, shake their hand, put the other hand on their shoulder and lean into their ear briefly. I'd say "Good to see you, I didn't want to be rude, It's Jason your massage therapist! Just wanted to say hello!" They immediately knew how to introduce me if they so chose and had an out if not.

 

Hagen you spoke of it being "hot" sometimes, I totally agree. It's something practically no one else in the room shares, it's kinda cool. Sometimes it's the little things, ..... -jason

 

http://www.JasonReardone.cjb.net "

[Guest squaddie]

As I only engage escorts who do not have 'escort' tattooed on their forehead this is not a problem, nor do I panic if I meet them in public.

 

I take my cue from the escort (and no doubt he from me). If he shows willing to acknowledge me then I'm happy to speak to him regardless of who I'm with, or where I am. I'm a great believer in treating everyone I meet (escort or not) with respect and find that this is reciprocated. Why should he want to embarrass me? Or me him?

 

If the company I'm with asks 'How do you come to know him'? What's wrong with a simple answer like 'Was introduced to him at a friend's place the other day (week, month or whatever).

 

If respect is shown both ways, meeting in public should never be a problem.

[Guest JustANametoPlay]

The few escorts I have known are very charming and handsome men. I think that if I ran into them saying hello would be polite, and i don't think anyone I was with would question how I knew them. A simple "Oh we met at a bar/gym/through a friend" etc should satisfy any inquiry. Of cousre the truth can also be disarming and no one will belive you if you say it LOL!

[Guest trekker]

>As I only engage escorts who do not have 'escort' tattooed

>on their forehead this is not a problem, nor do I panic

>if I meet them in public.

>

>I take my cue from the escort (and no doubt he from me). If he

>shows willing to acknowledge me then I'm happy to speak to him

>regardless of who I'm with, or where I am. I'm a great believer

>in treating everyone I meet (escort or not) with respect and find

>that this is reciprocated. Why should he want to embarrass me?

> Or me him?

>

>If the company I'm with asks 'How do you come to know him'?

>What's wrong with a simple answer like 'Was introduced to him at

>a friend's place the other day (week, month or whatever).

>

>If respect is shown both ways, meeting in public should never

>be a problem.

 

An eminently reasonable response.

 

This is an issue only because "you" (not you, squaddie) know there is something about the situation that you don't want to reveal or have revealed. But there are so many innocent and perfectly credible things that you can say. And all the not-so-innocent and not very credible things (even if they are true) as well, like what is in blu's original post.

 

 

blu,

 

several comments about this came up in a thread a few weeks ago. I don't rememeber which one, but it's the one that Jason dug his post above out of. You may want to look that up. Search on something distinctive from Jason's text, like "visual clue" or something.

[Guest BH]

I have encountered this uncomfortable situation at my gym. Several months back, an escort I was with several times began to workout with the same personal trainer I use. To his credit, the escort was very discreet. After a while, he would nod to me as he was leaving. My trainer (who is gorgeous and built, but, unfortunately straight) assumes it's just because the escort and I both work out with the same trainer. I was a little concerned that the personal trainer might share personal info about me with the escort, but the escort (with whom I got together after this situation existed for a few months to compare muscles) didn't say anything. A week or so ago, an escort I was with one time a few months ago came into the gym. I caught him checking me out. I' sure that he wasn't admiring my form; I think he rememebered me, and was trying to determine if I was the customer he thought I was. He too was discrete enough not to say anything.

 

The more uncomfortable situation is caller ID. I call escorts from office every now and again. One time, I called an escort, left my name, and asked him to call back on my cell phone. He called my office number instead because my cell phone number didn't match his caller ID. My secretary rang through to me and asked me if I knew "so-and-so." (She used the escort's name because he had given it to her.) When I said no, she assumed he was a phone solicitor, and blew him off. (No pun intended. Believe me. My sixty year old secretary weighs like 200 pounds.) Yesterday, I called an escort, but hung up when I got his voice mail. I didn't think anything more about it until an hour later, when his boyfriend called my office, announced someone from my office had called their phone number and wanted to know who was trying to reach them. (He identified himself and the escort by name). His voice was effeminate enough that my secretary assumed that no one in our office had placed the call, so she blew him off. (Again, no pun intended.) Hopefully, the color didn't drain out of my face when she told me about the call later.

[Justice]

I live four blocks from the hospital where I was born. My parents live five blocks from me. My sister's best friend lives in my building and a friend of my brother's lives down the block. It's next to impossible for me to go anywhere without running into someone that I know. I always make it a point to at least say hello. Depending on the situation, I sometimes stop and chat. Just by coincidence, both of my favorite escorts also live near me. I'm always in their neighborhood, so it's only a matter of time before we run into each other at say Starbucks or a corner store. When that happens, I'll say hello and take my lead from them.

[Guest LAtommy]

BH! Too funny, laughing my ass off, you need to ditch the old lady and get a young gay hunk to take your calls!

[Guest JustANametoPlay]

On a similar idea, what about if these escorts are seen coming to our home. I live in an apartment community where we all have our own entrances (kind of like townhouse aparments). this week two very muscular men came to visit me on different nights. Now I am not much to look at, so my neighbors would not think these were friends etc (well they might).

 

Now frankly, in my situation I don't care what the neighbors think. And of course these guys came dressed like any regular visitor would (no uniforms etc). However, for some I wonder if this would be an issue? Also, on the other hand, I do have a fantasy of a cop so if I ever did have an escort arrive in a uniform that might raise some eyebrows.

[Guest BH]

Can't ditch her. Apart from actually being a damn good secretary (which is very hard to find), she-who-must-be-obeyed saves me from real phone solicitors. Besides, if I had a cute young hunk working for me, I'd get sued for sexual harrassment. You know the old expression about not shitting in one's backyard.

[Guest Kevin 2]

BH,

Do you not have *67 in your area? It will block the number you are calling from and is free where I live. Maybe that will save you future embarrassing moments.

[Guest Jayinla]

I prefer to discreetly smile, if either one of us is with company. As far as the client is concerned, I would just follow his lead as to what to do. I am almost paranoid discreet. Respect for eachother's privacy is of the upmost importance in a situation like this. If we are alone for example at a restaurant, I would not mind join for a good lunch, besides goodlooks does notequal escort (well maybe in weho it does.. hahaha). I keep a very friendly relationship with my clients, so i never have run into any problems really... besides i am truly a homebuddy, so i am never seen anywhere.. lol

Jay in los angeles.

[Guest BH]

No wonder I had a problem. We do have *67. I'm such a putz, though, I kept dialing the wrong code. (Hell, the code I dialed probable gave 'em my social security number and middle name.) Thanks for giving me the right code. Problem solved.