Cumming with a client

[Guest Jason Coxx]

Hi Guys,

I have been reading the reviews and posts over the last few weeks and quite a few of you guys have mentioned that a number of escorts do not cum during a session. Is this the "norm" or do you expect an escort to cum when he is with you? How does it make you feel if he does not cum when he is with you? I have always thought that the clients expected me to cum. Is this not the case? Over the past year there has not been a single job that I have taken that I did not cum at least once. I guess this is why I'm so tired after a very busy work week:-)

 

Jason Coxx

http://www.jasoncoxx.com

917-242-8307

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

LAST EDITED ON May-04-01 AT 05:38PM (EST)[p][Jason,

>I have been reading the reviews

>and posts over the last

>few weeks and quite a

>few of you guys have

>mentioned that a number of

>escorts do not cum during

>a session. Is this the

>"norm" or do you expect

>an escort to cum when

>he is with you?

 

I do expect him to cum... but it's not absolutely necessary depending on the remainder of the experience -- which depends, IN PART, on what's going on in my head, which depends on what I think is going on in his head. Sounds complicated, huh?? Not really.

 

If he cums, then I take for granted that he is more than just present for roll call. (I know, I'm easy.) If not, then maybe he's thinking about novel variations in his meat loaf recipe... then again if he is and does come, I'd really be impressed -- with both him and the recipe. :-)

 

>How does it make you

>feel if he does not

>cum when he is with

>you?

 

Just seems to highlight the business side if the venture -- a negative to the experience. On the other hand, I'm less pleased with the 'cum and run' type... an hourly is for an hour. :-(

 

>I have always

>thought that the clients expected

>me to cum. Is

>this not the case?

 

You seem to understand me, and we haven't even met. :-)

 

>Over the past year there

>has not been a single

>job that I have taken

>that I did not cum

>at least once.

 

:-) (at least once...)

 

>I guess this is why I'm

>so tired after a very

>busy work week:-)

>

 

Hard work, done well, is tiring... but satisifying. :-)

 

Hmm... maybe I need to conjure up some business travel to this place called New Jersy... :-)

 

(Responding to this post made me smile a lot -- not a bad sign.)

[Guest Baggle]

I always expect the escort I am with to cum. I am/or would be very dissapointed if he does/did not cum.

[+ nycman]

Whether or not the escort cums is not a make it/break it factor for me. I do think the experience is more enjoyable when he does cum. Nonetheless, I've had some fantastic times with guys who did not cum and I certainly can't say I was ever disappointed with the overall experience just because an escort didn't cum. I don't take it personally and as long as we've had fun all along the ride it's a minor factor.

[Guest curious2000]

>Over the past year there

>has not been a single

>job that I have taken

>that I did not cum

>at least once.

 

Jason, now you sound like my kind of escort!Esp. the "at least once" part I have never been with an escort that did NOT cum and would feel very unsatisfied and cheated if he didn't get off with me.I would feel like he was "saving" it for another client or "spent" from a previous one and it would spoil the feeling of having a really great shared sexual experience.

[Guest EvilSwine]

Aren't Twinkies ALWAYS supposed to come with cream in the middle?

[SFViking]

My perspective....I have no expectations that an escort should cum while with me. In fact, there have been times when I've shot my wad and am ready to relax and the escort wants to keep going and I don't want to do any more. I also have in the back of my mind that the escort might have a client for later in the evening who DOES expect the escort to cum and I don't want to make his life any more difficult. I'm mostly interested in an attractive body and an interesting personality, not the amount of jism that an escort can produce.

[Guest]

Well, I like I prefer that my escort cum for two reasons. For one, it makes the hot and heavy action that got me off seem more real and less of a show. The other is that if he cums with me, I know he's given me his full attention that evening. I do realize that sometimes it's not possible, i.e. if the guy's a total bottom and I've already shot my wad. But there have been times (with repeat hires), that I've held off and topped the escort just so he could cum.

[TRAVLINLOT]

I too expect an escort to cum. I have learned to add that to my response to the question "what are you looking for or into?" I have found that most accommodate, but If I don't specify, they don't always. It all goes back to being specific about what you are looking for and most of the time you won't be disappointed.

[+ Charlie]

I hope you realize that by making such an admission you are putting pressure on yourself, since future clients will wonder what's wrong if you fail to cum with them.

 

I really don't care whether the escort cums or not--I only only care whether I cum during the session.

[Guest Jason Coxx]

>I hope you realize that by

>making such an admission you

>are putting pressure on yourself,

>since future clients will wonder

>what's wrong if you fail

>to cum with them.

 

I don't think I'm putting any pressure on myself. Since I usually only see one client a day it is not really a problem for me to cum with them. Plus it is something that I enjoy doing. I understand that as I get older it may not be possible for me to cum with ever client, but I will deal with it then if I am still escorting.

 

Jason Coxx

http://www.jasoncoxx.com

917-242-8307

[Guest Jason Coxx]

>Hmm... maybe I need to conjure

>up some business travel to

>this place called New Jersy...

> :-)

 

Thanks for the input. If you do get out to NJ let me know.

 

Jason Coxx

http://www.jasoncoxx.com

917-242-8307

[Bilbo]

Dear Jason, I will admit (possibly for the first time here) that towards the end of my carreer I was only seeing (their choice not mine) a maximum of basically 5 clients a week, not 7. But what the hey, this is Houston! Anyway, until I was forcibly retired at 49, I continued to come with every escort client (not my massage clients - even when the massage turns erotic, which I neither confirm nor deny that mine did, the masseur has been concentrating on your body not as a sexual being but as a large grouping of muscles for so long that while the cient is up on the edge the masseur is just starting on the sex trip - not good for mutual ejaculation) Anyway, don't worry, if you keep with just one client per day, you should be able to keep coming with all of them well into your 50s, at least.

http://rainbowprod.com/bilbo

[CT Dick]

>Plus

>it is something that I

>enjoy doing.

 

Yes, I, too, enjoy cumming.

 

> I understand that

>as I get older it

>may not be possible for

>me to cum with ever

>client,

 

Jason, I'm a bit older than you can I manage to cum with every escort. I bet you'll do fine.

[+ deej]

>I really don't care whether the

>escort cums or not--I only

>only care whether I cum

>during the session.

 

Same here. Heck, there have been times I haven't really cared whether they even had a penis. ;-)

 

Seriously though, it's situational. I've been with guys that promised to cum and didn't, and I've been with guys that said they probably wouldn't and then did. Both types of encounters can be pleasant so long as both parties keep the word "pleasure" in their minds.

[Guest Bitchboy]

Hey, Jason - first of all, you're a cutie, dude. Would love to "do it" with you someday soon.

 

As selfish as this sounds, it doesn't bother me in the least if the escort doesn't cum - I see the whole experience as about me, not the escort. Now, if my boyfriend didn't cum - that would be a different story!

[Rick Munroe]

I neither try to nor not to cum (how screwed up was that grammar?)...my energy and focus is on the client and if the scene he wants is all about getting me off (OK, I do love that), that's cool. If shooting loads (him or me or both) is important to him, then that's what happens. But that should not be the goal in any sexual encounter...getting there is where the fun is. It's all in your attitude. The only expectation should be to have a good time or else you set yourself up for disappointment.

[+ deej]

Rick, my resolve to see you some day just strengthened.

 

You're exactly right. It's not about a destination, it's about getting there. I've been to some pretty fabulous destinations ;-) but what I remember is the trip.

[+ nycman]

>I neither try to nor not

>to cum (how screwed up

>was that grammar?)...

 

OK...who let the dumb whore back in?...(smile)

 

Is some village missing it's idiot?...

You ARE the weakest link....goodbye.

 

P.S. Only because I know how seriously some people take this board...please note that the first statement was meant to be a humorous reference to Mr. Munroe's proclamation that he is "nothing but a dumb whore" in an earlier post. The second is simply from watching too much TV. I am making no real judgment on Mr. Monroe’s ability to be a good whore or a good village idiot. Funny how humor isn't very funny when you have to explain it...sad really. Rick, please don’t sue me for $100 Million. After all I said nothing about you being a big fag like Tom Cruise.

[Guest trekker]

nycman, that's beautiful.

[Guest Fin Fang Foom]

>I neither try to nor not

>to cum (how screwed up

>was that grammar?)

 

Very.

 

Stick to cocksucking - you've found your milieu.

[Guest Fin Fang Foom]

>Now,

>if my boyfriend didn't cum

>- that would be a

>different story!

 

Funny, he always cums with me.

[Guest Bitchboy]

Funny, he always cums with me.

 

Yeah, but he was sitting on your face and that's not fair.

[Like2Hire]

i would be very disappointed if an escort didn't cum with me; in fact, i want an escort to cum my favorite way: tongues deep in each others' mouths, dicks lubed and grinding against each other, and timing it so we shoot at the same time--tongue hard against tongue, dick hard against dick.

[+ nycman]

LAST EDITED ON May-05-01 AT 06:11PM (EST)[p]>i would be very disappointed if

>an escort didn't cum with

>me; in fact, i want

>an escort to cum my

>favorite way: tongues deep in

>each others' mouths, dicks lubed

>and grinding against each other,

>and timing it so we

>shoot at the same time--tongue

>hard against tongue, dick hard

>against dick.

 

 

Dear Lord...I guess timing IS everything!