novice with escorts

[Guest sean]

guys i am craving my first experience with an escort but im kinda shy. i'm in philly and have my own place and would love to be with a 20 something escort who's a top. im in my late 40's and out-of-shape. any advice?

[CT Dick]

Welcome aboard, Sean.

 

We all started with escorts once. In my case, as with most other posters, I expect, I did not have the benefit of this site and had to go it alone.

 

It really isn't so scary. In fact, I find it a great sourse of joy.

 

My advice it to call Premium Escort Service(888-765-6665 or 215-765-6665) and tell them exactly what you posted. Let them pick out the guy best able to help you.

 

All the best,

Dick

[Guest Merlin]

I am guessing that part of your reticence results from a lack of much experience with men. And, you may be wondering if the escort will be judgmental about your appearance, age, or lack of experience. None of this will be a problem. Most of the guys who call escorts are older and probably not as fit as you. Escorts soon learn to ignore such considerations or they won't stay around long. They certainly will not be bothered by a lack of experience, and you may want to tell them. They may give you some extra effort.

If you are nervous about inviting them to your home you may want to use a nice hotel room for your first meeting.

If you are inexperienced, you may be nervous about what to do or how you will perform. Don't worry, once you are with him and he gets naked the ole hormones will kick in and you will feel like an old pro. And, of course, he will let you take the lead and do what you are comfortable with. He will not try to take you further than you want to go.

Don't feel that being nervous is a bad thing. It is in large part the excitement of anticipation and is part of the fun. Like waiting to open your Xmas presents.

So, my advice is, call and agency, or search the reviews on this forum, bite the bullet and make the call. Good luck.

[+ nycman]

I'd like to second CT's advice. Premier Escorts (http://www.premierescorts.com) is your best bet. I hired an escort for the very first time just last week. I called Premier and Michael could not have been more helpful and polite. Needless to say I was extremely nervous. Michael's professionalism and gentle humor quickly put me at ease. I told him the names of 2-3 guys I had seen on their site in order to give him an idea of my tastes. He then helped me narrow it down to the guy who was right for me. Their selection of guys is nicely varied. Whatever floats your boat...they'll most likely have several guys from which to choose. Michael is very knowledgeable about each guy and can help you find the right escort for you.

 

As CT said, tell them what you told us and you're 1/2 way there.

[Bilbo]

Don't play the TV while you're getting it on. And don't talk too much before you start kissing.

[Guest WetDream]

Oh Bilbo, Bilbo, Bilbo -- you cut to the chase again!

[Guest ChicagoCorey]

Not to pick a fight or anything, but I actually feel like, if you're nervous, talking for about 10 minutes might be the best thing for you. I feel like getting to know a client really helps me perform the best for them.

 

Likewise, if you are inexperienced or nervous, letting the escort know that will really better your experience. Believe it or not, callboys are human too -- so if a client is tense, they can internalize that and wonder what the hell is up. They could jump to all kinds of conclusions (is this dude a cop? is he not into me? is he not into what I'm doing? etc.) that would distract them from doing their best work. Knowing that a guy is a little apprehensive or doing something for the first time really helps clear this up.

 

Good luck!

 

--Corey

 

chicagocorey@yahoo.com

rates/pics available by request

[+ Charlie]

I would definitely use an escort agency for your first experience, and luckily you live in Philly, which has one of the best agencies in the country in Premier (by the way, the other agency in Philly, Paramount, is not at all bad, but it has fewer top escorts--though it has at least one, Bobby, who is one of the best in town). Be sure to think about what you're really interested in before you call, so you can give them enough information to make a good recommendation: age, physical type, sexual preferences, etc. Asking for a "nice guy" or a "hot top" is not very helpful; if you have any special quirks, fetishes, pet dislikes, don't be afraid to lay them out, even to something as specific as body hair patterns, tattoos, piercings, height, whether you expect him to cum, etc. And don't take it for gtranted that the person who arranges things has told everything to the escort in advance; you should at least find out before you start the scene whether he knows that you want him to thrust a dildo in your ass at the moment before climax.

The most important thing, though, is to relax and enjoy.

[Guest jizzdepapi]

dont forget to check reviews under Philly for escorts from Premier. ul see clients' reactions to actual experiences with escorts as well as getting suggestions from Michael at Premier for escorts suitable for ur scene.

 

and dont forget to keep on jizzin'

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

LAST EDITED ON Apr-26-01 AT 06:34PM (EST)[p]Sean,

 

This is not rocket science as I found out... :-)

 

Many of us are in our late forties... I'm forty-thirteen and started when I was a young man of only forty-twelve....

 

Do your research, pick out the right guy -- there are several, after all we are not looking for the love-of-a-life-time -- and jump in the deep end of the pool. You'll be just fine if you have someone nice to hold on to. :-)

 

Get your feet we and have fun.

 

:-)

[Guest Ellipse]

Though I know you were trying to be a bit tongue-in-cheek, Bilbo, Corey offers wonderful advice. I recently had my first experience with an escort, and my first sexual experience with a man in many years, and I was incredibly uneasy. I explained this to the escort, and he couldn't have been sweeter or more understanding. He made the whole experience more fun than it would otherwise have been by being patient and encouraging. I will most definately be seeing him again.