Unanswered E-Mail Requests

[BewareofNick]

I hope Daddy-In-Training is pleased with us now. After all the piss and vinegar on teh board lately, this thread has been a refreshing change of pace. (And we stayed on topic too!!)

[Guest bigjake80]

>May I suggest it might be

>worth 60 seconds to send

>a brief message saying something

>to the effect of "Thanks

>for the compliment. Let

>me know when you have

>some dates available"?

 

Actually, I said that wrong. If someone does mention that they are coming to town (or gives a feeling that they a genuine in their interest), I generally will ask when. Its emails that say something like "Damn your hot, Id love to suck your dick sometime" or of that nature that I tend to ignore. What goes through my mind is "Yeah, that and a buck fifty will get you a ride on the subway." As far as being flattered by someone jacking off to your picture, it gets old. Its usually the thought of that kind of thing that is one of the things that drives escorts out of the business after a few years. Especially when they call in the middle of the night and leave messages on your machine so you can hear them doing it (yuck). Im more flattered when someone thinks its great that Im an engineering student. Looking good id easy. Its just some time in the gym and staying away from drugs and alchohol. The rest like genes and youth are things that we have nothing to do with. Im sure that there is some overweight ordinary looking guy with a doctorate in engineering that thinks Im full of crap for the same reason. Someone that would be more flattered by someone telling him that hes looking great rather than saying that its cool that hes really smart. Not that I think people are one or the other. But I think that we actually tend to perceive ourselves as one or the other, and always hope that someone will notice the areas that we are not the most secure in and compliment them. Boy, Im way way off the subject there. Oh well, still working it out of my system (hopefully a little less confrontational than my last efforts )

[Guest Jason Reardone]

One simple comment, giving Kudos to this respondant. Without detailing every single response to this particular subject, I'd like to commend this particular Author for his discretion. Too many times I find that this site is used for bashing and openly "gossiping" (for lack of a better term) about other escorts or clients.

 

I think it says a lot about a client, escort, friend, lover or anyone for that matter when the issues addressed remain problem specific and do not drag the name of those involved through the mud, most especially when there is absolutely nothing constructive to come from it.

 

Thank you for a refreshing caviat in an unrelated Article.

 

-Jason

[Guest HIker]

There didn't seem to be any point in naming those to whom I had first written and, like you've indicated, it accomplishes nothing to point fingers (or anythign else) at individuals. From my perspective I just figured I was approaching escorts wrong and wanted to fix it. It is very gratifying, and educational, going through the responses to the original question posed.

 

Hiker

[Guest LeatherChubBear]

(I hope I'm doing this right guys)

 

Stupid Me - I only emailed (the escorts who "struck my fancy") about a week before my scheduled trip. I heard back from 2 of them. Guess, I should have done my homework and tied to contact them weeks, (or even a month) in advance. But, this was a "rushed and hurried" trip. Not one that I had planned out much in advance.

 

But, who nows - there is a few days before I go, I may hear from some of the others.

[Justice]

Hi Rod,

 

Just a few follow-up thoughts. I can't be the only one who literally stumbled upon perfectmen.com while doing a generic search for "male escorts". Your picture immediately drew my attention and I'm sure that other guys notice it too. ;-) Obviously, I know who you are and I assumed that you used the AOL e-mail address because you wanted to keep track of how much traffic was generated by the ad. But what about guys who don't know anything about you? (Although the ad does include a link to your site, I wonder how many other people noticed that you used one e-mail address in the ad and another on your site?) I hate to think what must go through guys heads when they don't get a response to an e-mail that was sent to an address that was included in an ad. :-( (They'd probably have similar thoughts if their e-mail bounced.) If you haven't already done so, you really should revise the ad so that it reflects your preferred e-mail address.

 

Thanks!

 

Justice

[Guest HIker]

Just thought I'd update ya'll - I've had several responses now to e-mail requests for escort information and have a date setup for my trip in April. This will be a first time for me and I'm looking forward to it .

 

Hiker

[Justice]

Good for you! I'm glad that everything worked out. Have fun!