Escort travel arrangements

[Guest rb]

I am extremely new to hiring escorts and need some advice on the protocol of escort travel arrangements. Is it unrealistic for the me (as the client) to expect that the escort will not see other clients while he (the escort) is traveling at my expense?

 

Several months ago I contacted a highly noted escort and expressed an interest in seeing him if he ever traveled to my locale. He responded that he had never been to my state but would love to come visit me. Well, after several flirtatious emails back and forth, I decided to fly him here, which had never been my original intention.

 

I made the travel arrangements and had the ticket sent to him. Approximately four weeks after the ticket had been issued and about four weeks before he was to arrive, the escort contacted me and stated that he would like to stay in my state for a few extra days to visit a friend and wanted to know my thoughts. I responded that if he wanted to spend a few extra days here to visit a friend I did not have a problem with that, but I that I would have a problem with funding someone else’s opportunity to see him in a professional capacity. He responded that he understood and offered to discount his fee as partial compensation for his personal use of the ticket. But at no time prior to his arrival or departure, did the escort indicate that he would be seeing other clients while in my state. I responded that a discount was not necessary as long as he understood my point of view.

 

Only after his departure, did I discover (inadvertently from the escort himself) that in addition to seeing his friend he was seeing another client while in my state. I also discovered (prior to his arrival and again inadvertently from the escort himself) that the escort would be stopping off for an extended layover in another major city on his return home to see other clients. While I did not particularly like this either, this city was a scheduled stop on the original ticket that I booked. Albeit that the stop was only for several hours and not several days, but I did see the practicality of it and was willing to overlook it. I briefly consider accepting his small discount because of the layover but in the end chose not to. (Note-as far as I know-the escort was able to change the ticket free of charge because there had been a substantial decrease in the air fare from the time I purchased the ticket and he made his re-bookings.)

 

But please note that I will not post this escort’s name; because the time we spent together was special to me. I just don’t appreciate what has come to light afterwards. It sours what was otherwise a very enjoyable experience. My purpose is not to generate any disdain and/or sympathy for this escort because I’m certain if I revealed the name there would be both. Disdain from his detractors and sympathy from his supporters. I myself fall somewhere in the middle at the moment, but I admit that I would eventually like to restore the friendship that I thought developed.

 

Maybe if I was more affluent this would not bother me so badly. While I was able to afford the weekend, this was a considerable extravagance for me. And I don’t think that is selfish of me to want to be the sole beneficiary of my own extravagance.

 

So guys tell me what you think. Is this a common occurrence?

[ted]

The short answer is yes. If you are bringing an escort to a major metropolitan area I would almost go so far as to say this is standard practice.

You are contracting for an escorts time, and his expenses to get him to you and home. What he chooses to do or not do on his time is his business. Did someone else benefit because you paid the travel expenses? Yes. You may benefit yourself someday in return. If your time together was special, that is what is important.

I also am not rich, and the first time it happened to me, I was "surprised", and a bit disturbed. I didn't have a memorable time; but I learned from it and moved on.

[Guest ibimusbtms]

Most of the times I have flown an escort somewhere, he and I both went and I had the arrangements worked out beforehand. It was fine, after a couple of days together, for the escort to go off on his own; what he did, though, was go off and find another guy, brought him back, and we ended up in a three-way.

If I fly a guy into my city, it is only for an overnight, and so this question has not come up here.

[Guest rb]

Situation is resolved and all is forgiven. Hopefully the escort will finally believe me if he reads it here in public.:-)

[Guest jizzdepapi]

it would be good to give these guys a break. for example, have you ever heard of a research doctor attending a conference in Europe who did not take several days to sightsee before or after the conference? and what if at the conference, another doctor asked her/him if they would like to conduct reasearch at another university? should the doctor provide partial payment to the univeristy that sponsored his trip? of course not. since we're usually not talking about true love in hiring escorts, i guess the prevailing and commonly accepted rules of capitalism apply here.

 

if you were happy with your experience with this escort, you should be glad he managed to get some business on the way home. more likely he'll be working when you want to call him again. enjoy your memories--they were worth every penny!

[Guest youngblood]

Though I have never travelled with an escort, I would expect that if I were paying all of his expenses as well as the mutually agreed upon "daily" rate for his services, the majority of his attention would be directed to me! Any escort with a sense of professionalism would be respectful of the client and their arrangement, and I don't believe that he should be obviously seeking other clients and/or screwing around with others while he is being paid to travel.

 

As in most situations, everything that can be anticipated needs to be spelled out beforehand. The escort can always decline a travel gig if he doesn't like the destination, or thinks that the client will annoy him, smother him, be too possessive, or just treat him badly.

[Guest Shawneeson]

LAST EDITED ON Jan-19-01 AT 09:26PM (EST)[p]

Peace

 

shawneeson@hotmail.com

[Guest rb]

shawneeson,

 

Sorry that you had bad experience.

 

But like mentioned in my second post, my situation has been resolved.

 

The escort and I have kissed and made up via email and telephone, so everything is fine.

 

rb

[Guest Shawneeson]

It wasn't bad...

 

Peace

[Guest Shawneeson]

rb,

 

I have tried several times to reply to your email -- they all bounced. Possibly you could activate your 'in box' here at m4m?