3-sum

[Guest vrsatilguy]

}> This may seem like a stupid question. I was interested in having a 3-way and would like to make it as enjoyable as possible for all of us. Tho I imagine many of the mechanics are the same as for a two-sum, I thought there might be some special ways or rules to make it go a smoothly as possible (e.g. who pays attention to who, for how long?.) Can anyone give me some ideas? Thanks.

[Casteran]

3 ways can be fun with the right guys. Ask lots of questions up front, it is preferable in my opinion in the guys you hire know each other - better chemistry OR if you and bf/f are hiring someone make sure you both like him. Tell them what you want up front, i.e. do you want them to put on a show, do you want them to solely pay attention to you, etc, etc

Have fun!

[Justice]

Good question! Although I've never done it, I agree that it's important to know what to do, when to do it, and who to do it with. After all, you very much everyone to enjoy themselves. Are you planning to involve one or more escorts in the threesome? If so, you probably should find an escort that works with a partner. I.E., in New York, Rick Munroe and his life partner Derek Ross, advertise that they're available separately and together and there's several reviews that review them as a team. Steve Teron (among others) also advertises that he has "friends" who work with him. I'm sure if you look hard enough, (check the reviews!) you'll find several escorts in your City who make similar representations. Don't be afraid to ask questions. If you do your homework, you're sure to find a pair of escorts who've not only done it before but who also who work together like a well oiled machine. They'll make sure that you have the time of your life.

[CT Dick]

Threesomes ARE a great time. I agree with the advise to get two guys who have worked together. They know how to get things going and include you.

 

For fun, read the reviews of Adrian and Blake in Orlando, FL on this site. The reviewers discuss how they got the clients involved. Hot reading.

 

Enjoy. I'd love to read how your experience turned out.

[Guest vrsatilguy]

Thanks guys for the responses so far. Actually (tho I should have known better since this IS an escort review site) I was considering a 3-way with two non-escort guys. Things would probably be the same either way. But I thought that there was probably some good advice out there regarding the things that should be done when there are two or more partners and pitfalls that people have encountered when in that situation. I would like to avoid anything that would make it a bad experience for any of us and everything that could make it good. Wishful thinking, huh? Thanks.

[Justice]

Maybe some of the escorts out there will be willing to offer some advice.

[adriano46]

On the 3-way:

 

It is important that all 3 be into the scene, otherwise, obviously, it won't work. I've had both good and bad experiences with these, the bad ones being where they were "staged" rather awkwardly without all 3 of us being "into" it.

 

I've also had some great ones, and some of these were because of the chemistry among the three of us; others because the other two have worked together and knew how to work as a team and not in competition. The most satisfying are when all 3 are actively participating (no spectator sport, this).

 

Also it helps to have one or two who are versatile... imagine 3 bottoms or 3 tops in a 3-way? Yeah it could be fun and exciting... but what happens when all three throw their legs up in the air simultaneously? No seriously, it gets back to the chemistry.

 

I will say, the 3-ways which worked better were also over a longer period of time: usually including a good amount of "social" time (dinner for instance) to get to know each other more; this moves all more towards intimate sex rather than animal instincts and hormones.

 

Some recent experiences have included metting for a drink, then a leisurely dinner with lively conversation; by the time we got to my hotel room, we are all quite relaxed and comfortable with each other, so that the initial foreplay (kissing, carressing, slow striping of clothes) was like a well-choreographed show; even the spontaneouos move we all made for a quick shower before getting really serious, noting all 3 were into heavy rimming. We showered together, which was great.

 

And again spontaneously, we ended up spending the night together, just curled up sleeping, waking, sleeping, waking again... it was like a terrific roller coaster.