KINK

[TRAVLINLOT]

I seem to be seeing more "light kink w/s" descriptions on quite a few escort profiles (on line anyway). Is this on an upward trend? I always find myself attracted to them, as, in my opinion, it seems to indicate a more "butch" image (to use an old phrase). Anyone else see it that way? Any safety comments?

[Bilbo]

Safety tip: Watersports in most circumstances should be IMHO for the neck down only. No drinking. Also, like we discussed on another thread, lotsa people = lotsa definitions of kink. We did a good job over there trying to define it and do safety tips. The most important of which, IMHO, was Always Get A Safe Word Negotiated Before You Begin! (What is it with capitalization and me today?)

[Matt_Vancouver]

HEY HEY HEY, slow down there cowboy: )

noone said anything about establishing a safe word, we're talking kink 'lite' here aren't we?

Kink/W/S does not always mean 'butch'!! Have you ever been to Daddys in SF?? Hello can we say FLAMING LEATHER QUEENS: )

Just kidding, but seriously I know tons of leather guys, whos' butch image was destroyed after having dinner at thier flat, served on the fine china that their grandmother left to them.

Generalizations, as always.

Matt

http://go.to/mattsplace

matt_escort@yahoo.com

[Guest EvilSwine]

Personally, I can't see the attraction to being peed on or peeing on someone else. I can see the attraction of being tied down and ravished by someone else, since it's sort of a way for people who are repressed to use the reasoning they are not in control to make it sound all reasonable and more exciting...

 

But watersports..umm......

[Guest albinorat]

>Personally, I can't see the attraction

>to being peed on or

>peeing on someone else. I

>can see the attraction of

>being tied down and ravished

>by someone else>

 

I agree with you (and tying down and ravishing them!!). But as Bilbo mentioned we went through the thousands of varieties and degrees of *kink* and everyone has their own set of needs and fantasies. W/S as Bilbo said should be below the neck.

 

Albo

[Bilbo]

Thanks, Albo.

Dear Matt, It doesn't matter if he's a piss elegant queen or what when he has you tied to the wall. If you don't have a way to tell him to stop, you're up shit's creek. In such a situation, "no" is so often a part of the game that you can't depend on it for its usual meaning.

And since there are so many meanings to the word "kinky", how can you be sure that you and your playmate mean the same thing by it?

( And what's with this anti- drag queen thing that's been popping out all over this board lately?!)

Love your hair, Matt, hope you win.

[Matt_Vancouver]

Anti Drag queen thing? I have nothing against drag queens.

Love my hair? UM OK?

Hope I win? I suspect you are talking about escort of the year? If that is what you are referring too, well I hope I don't win, I saw the bullshit that went on last year when Aaron Lawrence won, sheesh I couldn't take the abuse.

If you think my motives for posting here are anything other than for fun, well you are mistaken. I Post here because I like the banter, because I'm bored sometimes, because I have something to say, and because it's text, someone has to be listening: )

no alterior motives: )

Matt

http://go.to/mattsplace

matt_escort@yahoo.com

[Bilbo]

LAST EDITED ON Oct-23-00 AT 10:42PM (EST)[p]Sweets, I didn't take offense. And you didn't actually say anything against drag queens, just about a somewhat related in most people's eyes other sterotypical group, the piss elegants. I took the opportunity to sound off about the remarks others have been making, inspired by the Halloween gay high holidays.

 

If you knew more about drag queens, you would know that the simple majority of them seem to be in eternal need of a good maid. I am not the exception there. You would also have recognized "Love your hair, hope you win" as the traditional greeting during the air kiss between two pageant queen drag queens as they prepare to fight each other for a title, sash and tiara. They themselves use it to poke fun at each other and themselves.

 

As far as not winning the escort of the year contest, if, indeed, the naysayers haven't frightened off our brave Hoo (When have they ever?), I think that if you really don't want the title you had better start campaigning to lose quite soon. Perhaps you just have. Another tactic would be to push someone else in front of you towards the crown. However, I don't think you stand a snowball's chance in a very warm place of sidestepping the honor.

 

Love, Bilbo (aka Daddy Blade) (aka Fancy Pace-Lawrence) (the human bridge)

 

PS. To bring us back to the subject of the thread, drag can be very kinky, though not to many of us who have used it to make money for gay charities. Take for example the big bruiser who used to come to my dungeon, before I chased him and his drugs off premises, who I started out dragging a fake fur boa across as he was "helplessly" tied up, and it wound up with him doing some terribly ugly things to himself, poor thing, with makeup, including writing words on his forehead with lipstick. Sick kink. Or, closer to home, you may remember, I've been nice and haven't done it for a while now, but when Reggie and I get into a fight and I want to make him back off, I only have to start drag talking him, gurlfriend. Also kink, though not good kink since it's not mutually agreed on.