Massage with bondage

[+ DynamicUno]

I've had an idea I'd like to try where I go for a massage and it starts as any massage would, but as it progresses the guy would add blindfold and restraints and it would change into an edging session or maybe some other bdsm elements.  It wouldn't necessarily involve intercourse, though.

I've been thinking about this for a couple days, and I'm wondering if there's a place to find guys who would be into this kind of thing.  Rentmasseur seems a bit vanilla for this kind of scene, but it would be nice for it to start with an actual massage instead of a cursory rub going right into the restraints.  

Has anything tried something like this?

Edited January 19, 2022 by DynamicUno

[ketut]

You didn't say where you are located.  If in NYC I recommend Aaron

 

https://rentmasseur.com/DaddyRetreat

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, ketut said:

If in NYC I recommend Aaron

Excellent choice.

[+ DynamicUno]

6 hours ago, ketut said:

You didn't say where you are located.  If in NYC I recommend Aaron

 

https://rentmasseur.com/DaddyRetreat

Thanks!  I'm in the Midwest, but I'll look him up if I get out to NYC.

[allyouknow]

This guy his massage experience - the whole "experience" is transformative.  I highly recommend. visit his personal page to see details,. 

https://rentmasseur.com/TantricShaman

[Harryinny]

14 hours ago, ketut said:

If in NYC I recommend Aaron

 

https://rentmasseur.com/DaddyRetreat

Aaron is excellent, has a wide repertory of massage techniques, tantra,  incorporating S&M or just plainly S&M.  Had many sessions with him.

[xax]

I’ve seen someone in SF a couple of times who would ask me if I wanted to be cuffed up, and put a blindfold over me when he’d turn me over. I never said yes to the cuffs, it kind of scared me, losing control that way. But I couldn’t help but feel that I was missing out on something. As someone who has no BDSM experience and only seen some depictions of it in porn, I probably have some misconceptions. Would love to hear from folks who have had this experience, if there’s a “way” to enjoy this type of massage, or if it’s just simply not a fit for some people?

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

@xax  I have enjoyed being blindfolded a couple of times and enjoyed it.  On one of those occasions, I allowed myself to be cuffed and tied to the four corners of the bed.  I was only able to do so by telling the guy that I had limitations on what I was willing to have done in that situation.  (nothing that leaves a mark, no tickling)  Once we agreed on ground rules, I found it completely enjoyable.

[twb6yz]

On 1/20/2022 at 12:29 AM, allyouknow said:

This guy his massage experience - the whole "experience" is transformative.  I highly recommend. visit his personal page to see details,. 

https://rentmasseur.com/TantricShaman

I can cosign with respect to Alex (TantricShaman).  Have seen him twice when he has been in DC.  Unfortunately he doesn't make it there often but was in town last weekend. 

Have had some others who were good, don't think any of them are active anymore but most of the ones who are willing I've generally gone to for a massage first and discovered mutual interests for bondage being incorporated into a second massage. 

One good way to find someone is to see who is traveling to a town at the same time as a major leather event such as IML, MAL, or CLAW.  Some of them are pretty receptive to it.

Edited January 22, 2022 by twb6yz

[pubic_assistance]

The whole point of bondage is the thrill of surrendering complete trust to someone .

Doing so with a complete stranger is not for everyone.

Trust is key. So a prior experience and discussion of interests and limits is advised.

 

[handiacefailure]

tanchann in Detroit is a nice looking, muscular asian massage therapist into bondage I've met before.  I know he travels sometimes

 

TanChann, Erotic & Therapeutic Gay Massage in Detroit, MI (rentmasseur.com)

[ArmyHands]

On 1/19/2022 at 11:58 AM, DynamicUno said:

I've had an idea I'd like to try where I go for a massage and it starts as any massage would, but as it progresses the guy would add blindfold and restraints and it would change into an edging session or maybe some other bdsm elements.  It wouldn't necessarily involve intercourse, though.

I've been thinking about this for a couple days, and I'm wondering if there's a place to find guys who would be into this kind of thing.  Rentmasseur seems a bit vanilla for this kind of scene, but it would be nice for it to start with an actual massage instead of a cursory rub going right into the restraints.  

Has anything tried something like this?

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