Shower and goodbye?

[TopBunk]

I'm noticing a trend. There's an eagerness to get to the end by many providers. It's most noticeable when the provider has a fair amount of reviews. Once there's a "release of tension", a shower is recommended. After the shower, the provider is wearing clothes to go out and expects me to leave. I usually comply but feel bad that we can't sit and chat for a bit. Maybe some more intimacy even. I can be quick to have my tension released. Sometimes 10 min or less and I feel like I'm not getting my fair time.

Is it just me? Is there something I should communicate or ask about before meeting? Or do providers typically want an hour session to take the minimal amount of time possible. #lookingforBFE #findingoutimaquickie

[Jamie21]

If you book any you should get an hour. I don’t curtail the session unless the client is satisfied and happy to end it. Sounds like you’re seeing the type of provider who just wants a quick buck. Tell him what you want, release after 10 minutes then a longer slower session or a long build up, or cuddling afterwards. It’s up to you to ask and make sure they’re delivering but a good provider will be able to understand this after a brief chat with you. 

[+ Pensant]

In all these years, I’ve been fortunate that I’ve never experienced that. A few times, I’ve been the one to suggest that it’s time to go.

[+ Charlie]

Since the escorts always claim that you are only paying for their "time," it really should be up to you how you spend that time. I think Jamie21 is correct that you should communicate ahead of the event that you like to relax a bit with him after you have "released your tension."

[jtwalker]

11 hours ago, TopBunk said:

I'm noticing a trend. There's an eagerness to get to the end by many providers. It's most noticeable when the provider has a fair amount of reviews. Once there's a "release of tension", a shower is recommended. After the shower, the provider is wearing clothes to go out and expects me to leave. I usually comply but feel bad that we can't sit and chat for a bit. Maybe some more intimacy even. I can be quick to have my tension released. Sometimes 10 min or less and I feel like I'm not getting my fair time.

Is it just me? Is there something I should communicate or ask about before meeting? Or do providers typically want an hour session to take the minimal amount of time possible. #lookingforBFE #findingoutimaquickie

I have run into this a few times as well.  Other times, I've had escorts that went well beyond the allotted time.  I just take the good with the bad, but I tip, review and rehire the great.  Reward that which you want repeated.

[+ purplekow]

I would suggest you prolong the foreplay with you in control of how fast things go. Even if it takes ten minutes, perhaps letting you partner know that afterwards you would like to shower together and that would extend the session and perhaps get you more of the intimacy you are looking forward to having.  

 

[italianboyph]

If you’re paying for the time, you should stay for that time. Any provider that’s trying to rush you out the door, obviously shouldn’t be hired again. 

[dbar123]

I see a provider who sets his IPhone for 2 hrs. At first I thought it was a little off putting but I’ve come to appreciate it as I know I’m getting my fuck dollar’s worth. 
 

I’d say that about 30% of the new providers I see are ready to disengage once there is orgasm. They don’t get a rematch

[TopBunk]

Reviews need a "time spent" value, that is anywhere from 10 min to 5 hr+.

[jeezifonly]

I assume that pre-😘 and    post-🤪 convos are all on the clock. Ask for 90m. 

[Jamie21]

54 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

I assume that pre-😘 and    post-🤪 convos are all on the clock. Ask for 90m. 

If it’s an in call the clock starts when he gets in shower and finishes when he gets dressed so yes if you want a long post climax chill down chat that’s on the clock, book enough time and make it clear you want that. 

If it’s an out call then the clock is less of an issue, I’ve stayed up to an hour over the time my client booked because the chat was interesting and he was engaging. There’s nothing better than laying together naked talking about stuff after the main session. 

I don’t book anything immediately after out call sessions anyway because invariably the client will ask to extend the time or we’ll have that chat afterwards. Sometimes I like to get a drink in the hotel bar and watch the goings on too.