Advice

[xyz48B]

There’s always new providers upcoming. Don’t feel like you need to “settle” or despair that the pickings right now are poor. In three months, it’ll be a completely different market. 

[Merboy]

Hopefully once COVID is done with for good, all those hard-bodied studs that have been working out in the gym will realize OnlyFans isn't gonna bring in the money like a good old romp with a friendly stranger will, and we'll see massive influx of highly recommended hunks everywhere!  RM's not a bad site its just that its getting slim, mostly twinks on there now.  Where is the big muscle, the juicy pecs?

[+ Tygerscent]

1 hour ago, Merboy said:

Hopefully once COVID is done with for good, all those hard-bodied studs that have been working out in the gym will realize OnlyFans isn't gonna bring in the money like a good old romp with a friendly stranger will, and we'll see massive influx of highly recommended hunks everywhere!  RM's not a bad site its just that its getting slim, mostly twinks on there now.  Where is the big muscle, the juicy pecs?

The muscle studs are banging out the bucks on OnlyFans~ 😂 Seems like bottoms are trending on RM~ It’s something  I’ve not really seen before~ So many of them~ Might be because so many people are unemployed and not doing anything else right now~ 

 It’s like when the real estate bubble popped in Palm Springs… All the sudden all of those real estate agents decided Escorting might be worth a try. Palm Springs was suddenly saturated in that market and a lot of people moved there at the time

[xyz48B]

OF has really impacted this hobby. Guys can rake in money without actually having to deal with clients. You have to actually enjoy time and fucking with the Average Joe to do the escort thing. With OF you can do it yourself or with a collaborator who aligns more with the Adonis ideal…

[+ DrownedBoy]

I'm willing to bet it will take until several months after the surge ends before I start seeing the muscle I like.

Last year, I met some guys with good muscle shots on RM, but they stopped working out during the pandemic, so their bodies got soft. I can't wait until they get a few months of lifting in so I can enjoy some hot young muscle again.

[Scott Virginian]

10 hours ago, xyz48B said:

OF has really impacted this hobby. Guys can rake in money without actually having to deal with clients. You have to actually enjoy time and fucking with the Average Joe to do the escort thing. With OF you can do it yourself or with a collaborator who aligns more with the Adonis ideal…

This, 100%. 

[sexymonk]

23 hours ago, Merboy said:

Hopefully once COVID is done with for good, all those hard-bodied studs that have been working out in the gym will realize OnlyFans isn't gonna bring in the money like a good old romp with a friendly stranger will, and we'll see massive influx of highly recommended hunks everywhere!  RM's not a bad site its just that its getting slim, mostly twinks on there now.  Where is the big muscle, the juicy pecs?

It is my personal opinion, only fans doesn’t exit me! Meeting in person is different experience! In onlyfans only the provider is gaining! I agree it empowers them to choose content theme of show and/ or exhibit their body parts on their own terms!  But as competition increases then do they really make the money unless they are in top 5 or 10 performers!

[xyz48B]

@sexymonk - Yes. For my part, I’d probably think twice about hiring a guy with an OF. I feel it changes their personality. 

[xyz48B]

@DrownedBoy - So, you’re going to wait til 2037? 😂 

[+ Pensant]

8 minutes ago, xyz48B said:

@sexymonk - Yes. For my part, I’d probably think twice about hiring a guy with an OF. I feel it changes their personality. 

I hadn’t thought about that.

[xyz48B]

@Pensant– they’re stars now in their own solar system

[guru68]

I agree that OF and the like have changed things, but it also means that escorts are suddenly competing with guys who have never escorted. Also, there's a lot less barrier to entering that market. Wave after wave of toned 18 year olds deciding that being a hit on Tik-tok means they should be getting paid for it, and so on.

Being successful escort requires more skills, and I would think the competition would be considerably less. 

 

[xyz48B]

6 minutes ago, guru68 said:

Being successful escort requires more skills, and I would think the competition would be considerably less. 

My “fear” is that because OF has a lower monetary success threshold, more guys won’t put the effort into developing the skills. We already have guys who think just being with you, while playing on their phones etc., is enough to get $1200 for an overnight. And they think they’re good at it, have the “skills.”

[guru68]

9 minutes ago, xyz48B said:

My “fear” is that because OF has a lower monetary success threshold, more guys won’t put the effort into developing the skills. We already have guys who think just being with you, while playing on their phones etc., is enough to get $1200 for an overnight. And they think they’re good at it, have the “skills.”

Yes, but that will be self-correcting with shared experiences and reviews. If the secondary effect is that some guys who really don't cut it as escorts leave that for OF, where's the problem?

[xyz48B]

1 hour ago, guru68 said:

If the secondary effect is that some guys who really don't cut it as escorts leave that for OF, where's the problem?

I guess I see it as everyone has to learn to a certain degree before being “good” at whatever they do. I’m just guessing the learning curve is less steep and less high for OF where you control the environment a lot more than in a bona fide person-to-person interaction. The investment up front to be good at escorting is higher than it is to be good at OF, and it probably doesn’t pay off any better. 

[xyz48B]

This isn’t an endorsement. Nor have I met him. Just saw this ad on RM that the guy emphasizes his bodybuilder body. 

Thought of this thread and the above comments…

https://rent.men/AlexanderFuego

[jeezifonly]

On 1/16/2022 at 10:27 AM, xyz48B said:

OF has really impacted this hobby. Guys can rake in money without actually having to deal with clients. You have to actually enjoy time and fucking with the Average Joe to do the escort thing. With OF you can do it yourself or with a collaborator who aligns more with the Adonis ideal…

This has also been my observation of the hiring landscape. Guys used to do recorded content (movies) to promote escorting. Opposite true now, isn’t it? 

[Beancounter]

I simply use OnlyFans as another tool to screen potential hires. It’s an inexpensive way to verify that providers describe themselves accurately…..do they really have an 8 in cock? Do they really have that 6-pack they claim to have? Etc.  Beyond verifying physical attributes OF serves little purpose to me.  Personality and genuineness seldom translate over the internet. 
 

Spending $5 and being disappointed is better than spending $300 and being disappointed when the guy you thought you were hiring doesn’t show up at your door.  

[TumYum]

on the OF issue....

then there are guys that, at least to mr, are just OVER-exposed on OF.... so much so that I have lost interest in them

there was a guy i hired twice and just would not hire again because i am just in fatigue over seeing him every day constantly self-promoting by showing every detail of himself in every position doing everything on OF.

it's like.... enough already.... !

[Scott Virginian]

I dunno, maybe I’m being old and turning into the “damn kids on my lawn” guy, but I cringe a little because I think this OF thing could really boomerang on them in about ten years. Escorting could be discreet, private, something you could eventually leave behind or keep in your private life. This stuff is all over social media and eternal. When the body slides, the audience has moved on to the next hot thing, you’re trying to find a job, and HR looks this up and discovers your 275 hours of “collaboration”… yikes.

There are people on this forum, long-term and very respected providers, who are open about their work and may have navigated this minefield in different ways.  This is a sincere question, if you’re willing to enlighten me: I’m honestly curious if your work in this field has cost you jobs and opportunities and how you’ve navigated that.

Edited January 21, 2022 by Scott Virginian

[+ JEC]

Several of my hires are also on OF, I haven't found a difference with guys with/without OF.   If they have a successful OF page and still take clients, they must like to hook....they're making way more money on OF.

[xyz48B]

5 hours ago, JEC said:

they're making way more money on OF

Hence why I seriously consider not hiring an OF guy. Or least one who suggests you subscribe before meeting. I’m suspicious and cynical. It’s about the money; not pleasing me. 
 

I’m more impressed by the guys who aren’t on OF and do this for a living.