Regulars or Randos

[The Dude]

Who do you prefer to see... a few providers on a regular basis, or many encounters with different providers?  It's been my experience that once you see a regular enough times, they feel comfortable to cut corners on service, arrive late, ask for favors, etc.  What has been your experience?

[jeezifonly]

It’s the Goldilocks Paradox. 

Perfection through repetition…but not too much. 

Thrill of the unknown, after a full preview.

Spontaneity, carefully planned.

As I am participating less after the last year, I will probably go for a new treat. Can usually return to an old fave later. 
Just not too late…

 

[MscleLovr]

5 hours ago, The Dude said:

once you see a regular enough times, they feel comfortable to cut corners on service, arrive late, ask for favors, etc.

I preferred to have a few regulars. The virtues were that scheduling was much easier, and my needs were met by a rotation of desirable men. 
 

I agree @The Dude that ‘service standards’ can slip over time. If I was really into a guy, I’d hope to fix the problem by mentioning it straightaway…but if the problem recurred, I’d find a new man. 

Edited November 24, 2021 by MscleLovr

[jtwalker]

7 hours ago, The Dude said:

It's been my experience that once you see a regular enough times, they feel comfortable to cut corners on service, arrive late, ask for favors, etc. 

I like the idea of regulars, but in reality I would have to agree.  Once I've met the same guy 3 or 4 times, it seems like one of us starts to get bored.  I'd love to find the exception to the rule.

[+ Pensant]

I’ve been seeing regulars in sessions which are consistently hot and intense, so I’ve been lucky. Two for 5 years and one for 2. A few others have retired, but will great fun until they moved on. 

[marylander1940]

10 hours ago, The Dude said:

Who do you prefer to see... a few providers on a regular basis, or many encounters with different providers?  It's been my experience that once you see a regular enough times, they feel comfortable to cut corners on service, arrive late, ask for favors, etc.  What has been your experience?

 

Some clients like having regulars as long as they fulfill their desires while others simply can't get enough new guys. 

Also some clients are stuck in cities with few choices while others are constantly tempted with new locals and visitors. 

[TruHart1]

I must confess to preferring regulars who never fail to give me what I need and want, sexually and socially. For a year and a half, during the pandemic, I quit hiring completely, but after being fully vaxxed, I began hiring again. I have tried a new escort now and then, sometimes being quite disappointed, other times being very pleasantly surprised, delighted and completely satisfied. Those men are the ones I want to experience on a regular basis!

After the pandemic slowed and I was fully vaccinated, I restarted my hiring practices with 3 or 4 "old" regulars again. Now, after hiring some delightful new men, I have found 3 more regulars I hope to see for years to come. I will try new escorts now and then, but if I find one who fulfills my fantasies (in the bedroom or out!) he will becum a regular for me. I find my best regulars are always ready to surprise me in unexpectedly sensual and exciting ways; our sessions giving me endless enjoyment. My best regulars just become better each and every time we meat!!!

TruHart1 😎