Stop gossiping

[Lord_Oliver]

As a member and a reader, I noticed that the reviews here are more gossips, and unfair judgmental tool either to praise someone, or  infamy.

Some of these guys has no roof above his head at night. And tries the impossible to survive. 
let’s show some mercy, when giving our opinion in them. 
there some reviews that are completely acceptable and informative. But the others are nothing than a cheap gossiping. 
another thing I noticed… some people discuss  guys as if they were a product or a piece of meat. This is completely against human rights, and against any law. Sex work is a work, and nothing can downgrade these guys to the level of discuss them in this way.
It’s good to remember that without them, some unfortunate men will stay virgin for the rest if their lives.

With all my respect, my regards and appreciation for every guy fighting the world to keep standing on his feet and keep his head up. 
You are phenomenal my dear, the work you do won’t change who really you are. Keep going! Keep fighting! You are Resilient. 
 

J.M.

[jeezifonly]

[maninsoma]

I know that some people do sex work who are barely getting by, and that maybe they are even doing that because they don't know what else they can do to survive, but I think most of the escorts discussed here are in a far better place in their lives financially speaking. 

As for how people communicate about other people, welcome to the world of online discourse.  The internet brought society some good things, but elevating public discourse wasn't one of them.  It's very easy to be overly nasty when hiding behind a keyboard.  That being said, if you are talking about reviews I think it's perfectly legitimate that someone posts his thoughts/feelings about someone he hired who underperformed as long as he's being honest.  Giving a negative review to an escort is just as legitimate as writing a negative review of a restaurant because the food wasn't good or the service was bad. 

[+ Lucky]

So much is written about providers whom the poster has not hired. Fairness is often lost in speculating about the provider, whether his ads, his looks or his pricing.

[+ StLouisOct]

11 hours ago, Lord_Oliver said:

As a member and a reader, I noticed that the reviews here are more gossips, and unfair judgmental tool either to praise someone, or  infamy.

Some of these guys has no roof above his head at night. And tries the impossible to survive. 
let’s show some mercy, when giving our opinion in them. 
there some reviews that are completely acceptable and informative. But the others are nothing than a cheap gossiping. 
another thing I noticed… some people discuss  guys as if they were a product or a piece of meat. This is completely against human rights, and against any law. Sex work is a work, and nothing can downgrade these guys to the level of discuss them in this way.
It’s good to remember that without them, some unfortunate men will stay virgin for the rest if their lives.

With all my respect, my regards and appreciation for every guy fighting the world to keep standing on his feet and keep his head up. 
You are phenomenal my dear, the work you do won’t change who really you are. Keep going! Keep fighting! You are Resilient. 
 

J.M.

Really curious to know how much experience you’ve had with escorts. I’ve met about 40 providers , all through Rentmen, and all have lived in apartments or homes. Just about all of those discussed here advertise and travel for business. You sound like you’re talking about homeless guys on the street.  BTW, discussing the physical attributes and performance levels of escorts that others want to know about, certainly isn’t anything illegal or contrary to human rights. 

[MikeBiDude]

12 hours ago, Lord_Oliver said:

As a member and a reader, I noticed that the reviews here are more gossips

 

12 hours ago, Lord_Oliver said:

some reviews that are completely acceptable and informative.

I’m sure you’ve read our terms of service here? Reminder we don’t do “reviews”. If someone posts something offensive or against the TOS, please report it.

 

[MikeBiDude]

12 hours ago, Lord_Oliver said:

another thing I noticed… some people discuss  guys as if they were a product or a piece of meat.

On this  point I will agree with you 100%. Others will attest to the fact I routinely call posters out when they call providers “meat”, “fresh meat”, etc. these people are human beings first.

[Beancounter]

To the original poster.....please edit your posting for clarity.

[+ Lucky]

How can I help?

How about this:

When reviewing providers, be informative but polite, be factual and be kind. Respect the person if not his performance.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Although it is true that the OP lacks clarity, I think it expresses a clear concern. His generalization may feel unfair to some of us, but rather than getting defensive I choose to take his criticism. I know I have participated in conversations full of assumptions and speculations about providers, often overwhelmed by my own lust and forgetting we were talking about a bones and flesh human being.

I could have done better, thank you for this reminder @Lord_Oliver. 

I hope you are not one of those newbies coming to troll us. 

[+ glutes]

It's good thing that providers don't gossip about clients.