Question for Escorts

[Guest jay]

This question is primarily directed at escorts but I am also interested in reading about the experiences of others.

 

At one time or another, I have chatted with handicapped guys on line but never followed through to meeting as I was not sure what to expect. I am curious to know if escorts sometimes get involved in these situations and what their experiences have been like (good or bad).

 

Just an upfront FYI to hopefully stave off offensive and insulting posts, my interest is grounded in the feelings of the handicapped guy and the escorts that have provided them company; do not view this as an act of sexual desperation on my part or an invitation to display dementia.

 

My experience: I chatted with a guy on line named Tony who was about 26-28. We agreed to meet at a public parking lot and we chatted while we both remained in our cars. He seemed like a nice guy so I suggested he follow me back to my house. When he stepped out of his car I could see something was wrong and after inviting him in, we chatted and he disclosed the fact that he had juvenile arthritis. He was a cute guy and obviously nervous because he had not disclosed his handicap prior to our meeting; I made him feel at ease. After more conversation that led to sexual activity, to make a long story short, he came about 4X. Needless to say, he had a good time! While I was traveling and in an AOL chat room, he started chatting with me on line but I did not recognize his screen name (one of those names with a shit-load of numbers). We chatted and he disclosed the fact that we had met and after this I was really curious because I still could not place his screen name. He continued by saying that he had a great time because I was so nice to him but felt ashamed to meet again due to the fact that he was not honest about his handicap. He stopped chatting and after a week I realize who he was and it all made sense.

 

I think the affect this experience has had on me are 1) I felt bad that he was so embarrassed to the point of not being able to meet again and 2) the experience has changed the way I think about this type encounter and has opened my mind a little.

 

I’m sure escorts out there have been faced with this type of encounter and I wonder what your experiences have been.

[Matt_Vancouver]

LAST EDITED ON Oct-08-00 AT 04:55PM (EST)[p]Well I've been with a few handicapped guys, and can honestly say I've had some great sex, and wonderful conversations.

one of my faves was a gentleman who was quadrapeligic(sp?) he could only move from the neck up, i got on his boardroom table and had one of the best blowjobs ever: )

Ok I know too much detail, but you asked.

There may be some difficulty manuevering, but the outcome can be fun.

If you can find out who he is, try and get in touch again, go for it.

 

matt

http://go.to/mattsplace

matt_escort@yahoo.com

[Guest jay]

Actually, just the right amount of detail :o)well done man!

 

I wish I knew how to get in touch with him but he was a very straight-acting, closeted guy so your apt not to see him on line much or at least I haven't been able to spot him. It remains in my thoughts as different and pleasant experience.

 

Thanks for your input!

[Rod Hagen]

RE: Matt Gets The "Coolest Guy Award For October"

 

The most skilled Rimmer I've met is a parapalegic. After our first meeting, my eyes were stilled rolled into the back of my head during the morning ride to the office. -Hagen

[Bilbo]

RE: Hagen Gets The Runner Up "Coolest Guy "

 

Back when I was allegedly escorting, I once agreed to meet a cute young man who seemed very shy. It turned out that he was mentally a little simple. (That is probably not PC to say it that way, but I don't know what his problem actually was.) When it came time to leave, it turned out that he didn't understand that he was expected to pay me. Not wanting him to get into a habit that might make him run into a different escort, and having noticed that he was up to his ears in small potted plants, I verbally pushed him into giving me one of his plants (instead of any money). He wasn't as happy as he had been for a few minutes, but I felt like I hadn't crushed him. When I was driving away, a lady ran out of the house and stopped my car. She said that she had become aware of what was going on and wanted to thank me for having been so gentle with him. I blushed a bit, but told her that it was actually between him and me and I was glad we had been able to get out of the situation without embarassing his growing sense of manhood. We both agreed that I couldn't send the plant back with her as he would recognize it and either be embarassed or not learn his lesson. I wish that this story had a happy ending, but at that point in my life I had a positively back thumb for plants and it only lived about six months at my house, poor thing.

[Matt_Vancouver]

RE: Matt Gets The "Coolest Guy Award For October"

 

I didn't mention the rimming aspect, at one point i was kneeling on the boardroom table with my ass in the air: ) he had a tongue that more than made up for any loss of mobility his body had encountered.

thanx for reminding me Rod, and hooboy, *blush*

bilbo, I have the same problem with plants, anyone who has been to my apt. knows there will never be any living things in there other than me and my spiders, I have named several of them: )

Boris lives behind the toilet.

matt (spider lady: ) my friends call me that: )

http://go.to/mattsplace

matt_escort@yahoo.com

[Guest SCORPIO]

My name is SCORPIO. I have been an escort since May of this year. I am glad to know others have experience something like this. I once was contacted by a "physically-challenged" individual. We communicated to-n-fro for what amount to four days. He asked questions of me (naturally) and I asked several question of my own, after all...it would be my first time with a P.C. person. We agreed to date and time and place. Then his last e-mail was to ask my rate. This surprised me simply because I had already indicated my rates in all my ads and in my first response to him. Still: I reiterated. Well, he "suddenly" decided it was too expensive. My rates are less than "average." I indicated to him that my rates are set and really non-negotiable. He informed me that another escort gave him a break and he was hoping I'd do the same. I told him that I probably wasn't the escort for him. I don't know. This happen in June or July and it STILL is on my mind. Was he trying to PLAY me? Should I have given him a "BREAK?" Wouldn't that have been pity? Aren't physically-challenged people always asking that they be treated "like everyone else." I am at a lost. Perhaps BECAUSE he is P.C. he hasn't the resource that other clients do. I really would welcome opinions. I never did hear from him again; understandably.

 

SCORPIO

[Guest allansmith63]

RE: Matt Gets The "Coolest Guy Award For October"

 

I considered myself quite alive when I was there, Matt. For that comment, I have decided to be honest. Boris is MUCH better looking than you are. (Better hung, too.)

 

A.

[Guest jay]

There is always the chance he was scamming but consider that most PC guys have very limited income. I guess if he was obviously adept at negotiating, I would be suspicious but to suggest an answer to your question, perhaps in a perspective client/escort encounter PC guys cannot be "treated like everyone else" because the playing ground is not equal for three reasons: 1) more than likely they have a difficult time seeking sexual encounters in the traditional way and 2) they have limited funds and 3) many times they are physically restricted.

 

Hope that helps!

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE: Matt Gets The "Coolest Guy Award For October"

 

Allan,

 

>there will never be any living things

>in there other than me and my

>spiders, I have named several of them: )

>Boris lives behind the toilet.

...matt (spider lady: )

 

 

>I considered myself quite alive

>when I was there, Matt.

...allansmith63

 

Quite an image, you hunkering down behind the toilet??

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE: Hagen Gets The Runner Up "Coolest Guy "

 

LAST EDITED ON Oct-09-00 AT 10:43AM (EST)[p]Bilbo,

 

You are a prince!!, or is it a queen??

 

You, Hagen and Matt, angels with clay feet...

[Guest Starbuck999]

He was not upfront with you. He should have told you at the beginning that he could not pay your regular rates. It suggests he wanted the fun of communicating with you but used the rate excuse to avoid going further.

[Bilbo]

RE: Hagen Gets The Runner Up "Coolest Guy "

 

Thanks for the head turning flattery, but as Matt has already been pointing out, the great sex and warm memories are really enough thanks in and of themselves. I personally would love to attract that guy Spiderwoman's been talking about.

And then, I also didn't mention the lasting bad feeling, also illustrated somewhere else on this thread, when you don't do the sexy thing. I was lucky in that, too. A man in a wheelchair wanted me to ravish him in my dungeon, but its up a narrow turning stairway and I just couldn't see picking him up and turning him over to spank him. (Hell, I even had trouble at first calling a Black leather bottom a "boy".) Luckily, the man finally had me over to his house and we had a good time there. Then again, I think there was a similar problem with a man from Oklahoma we never got solved successfully. You know my memory, such as it is. I regularly try to flush out the bad stuff.

[Bilbo]

RE: Matt Gets The "Coolest Guy Award For October"

 

Matt - If you didn't travel so much, I would really urge you to get a dog or a cat. They are wonderful family members and remind you to feed them. A feret might, I don't know. I do know it's just as easy to kill fish or turtles.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE: Hagen Gets The Runner Up "Coolest Guy "

 

Sexy and sensitive too!