My first hire

[sjmuktop]

There have been a couple of posts recently in which the subject matter prompted me to mention the fact that I hired my first escort when I was only 18-years-old, namely the 'Forum Census'  and  'At 81.. am I the oldest client on here?'. I thought I would make a post about it for anyone who might be interested. 

The first time meeting Andrew was at the tail end of 2006, in late December I think. The reason I'm almost certain about the date is that I remember picking up a copy of the London Evening Standard upon my arrival in London that night at St Pancras station, which had news on the front page that Saddam Hussein's execution had been scheduled (or maybe even taken place, I don't remember. Saddam was executed on the 30th, anyway).

At 19-years-old, Andrew was a year older than me. I'd found and viewed his escort profile on a website called 'Gaydar' (which still exists but is nowhere near as popular as it once was) and contacted him. His pictures were awesome. He was the most beautiful lad I had ever seen. As well as escorting, he worked in gay porn; if you want to see Andrew 'in action' today, all you need to do is watch 'RudeBoiz',  'BikeBoy', 'SoldierBoy' or 'Penthouse Sex Party' - produced by Eurocreme. 

I met Andrew in the shared flat he was staying in at the time just literally right around the corner from Barbican tube station. I won't go into the intricate details of what took place during our session, but it was fantastic. After that session I was so happy. I didn't at all feel like I had wasted money - despite the fact that at that age I didn't have a lot of it. I enjoyed my time with Andrew so much that I ended up meeting him a second time, for an overnight session, in early or mid-2007. He came to meet me at the hotel I was staying at just around the corner from Victoria station. I always remember that I had arranged the session from my new number and that I didn't tell him that I was the client. So when he knocked on my hotel room door and I opened it, he was pleasantly surprised to see that it was me - he remembered me of course from our first session in 2006.

What a wonderful night that was. I couldn't believe I was spending all evening and all night with such a beautiful guy (beautiful both on the inside and outside; he had a lovely personality). I still remember details of some of the conversations we had that night, even all these years later. He spoke about his life, his family, his friends - and revealed to me that he had a son to a girl he used to date and that he'd be buying him a present with some of the cash that I was giving him for the session.  The best thing about that night for me was cuddling up to him and going to sleep with him. I've never done that with an escort since. Waking up to him the next morning, him still sleeping on his side, and my head pressed against his back, was so good. 

That would be the last time I saw Andrew. About a year later I heard that on 11 May 2008, Andrew passed away from an overdose of the 'chemsex' drug GHB. Though I had only met him on two occasions, and that we had met on the understanding that our relationship was purely transactional, I was heartbroken. He had a profound effect on me. I must confess that his handsome looks and his down to earth personality were to blame for a bit of an infatuation with him. I was terribly upset at the news, and to this day whenever I think of Andrew's passing (at age 21), my heart feels a unique pain.

Andrew was my first hire. He taught me that gay male escorts provide a quality and professional service. He quashed any notions that I might have had that sex workers are not decent people, with his kindness. He allowed me to be more sexually free and to feel good about being so, by showing me certain things that I had not tried before. He gave me companionship when I needed it, on two occasions. And I did need it. He satisfied all my sexual and emotional wants and needs, twice. He opened my eyes to the fact that escorts don't just sell sex, but also affection and intimacy. To this day I enjoy the services of professional providers, and I have my initial experiences with Andrew to thank for that. 

Here is one of his modeling photos which I think he used on his Gaydar escort profile: 

 

Moderators' note: Photo removed because we don't allow posting non-public photos. 

 

[jeezifonly]

My first was the footman at Belle Watling’s place. 😊
 

[sjmuktop]

Re: the Moderator's note.

I should say that there was another picture of Andrew on this post, one that I had taken myself during my overnight session with him at the hotel in Victoria. This was a breach of the Forum's 'Guidelines' which I had stupidly failed to read and therefore adhere to. 

Lesson learned. 

[HoseMaster]

17 hours ago, sjmuktop said:

There have been a couple of posts recently in which the subject matter prompted me to mention the fact that I hired my first escort when I was only 18-years-old, namely the 'Forum Census'  and  'At 81.. am I the oldest client on here?'. I thought I would make a post about it for anyone who might be interested. 

The first time meeting Andrew was at the tail end of 2006, in late December I think. The reason I'm almost certain about the date is that I remember picking up a copy of the London Evening Standard upon my arrival in London that night at St Pancras station, which had news on the front page that Saddam Hussein's execution had been scheduled (or maybe even taken place, I don't remember. Saddam was executed on the 30th, anyway).

At 19-years-old, Andrew was a year older than me. I'd found and viewed his escort profile on a website called 'Gaydar' (which still exists but is nowhere near as popular as it once was) and contacted him. His pictures were awesome. He was the most beautiful lad I had ever seen. As well as escorting, he worked in gay porn; if you want to see Andrew 'in action' today, all you need to do is watch 'RudeBoiz',  'BikeBoy', 'SoldierBoy' or 'Penthouse Sex Party' - produced by Eurocreme. 

I met Andrew in the shared flat he was staying in at the time just literally right around the corner from Barbican tube station. I won't go into the intricate details of what took place during our session, but it was fantastic. After that session I was so happy. I didn't at all feel like I had wasted money - despite the fact that at that age I didn't have a lot of it. I enjoyed my time with Andrew so much that I ended up meeting him a second time, for an overnight session, in early or mid-2007. He came to meet me at the hotel I was staying at just around the corner from Victoria station. I always remember that I had arranged the session from my new number and that I didn't tell him that I was the client. So when he knocked on my hotel room door and I opened it, he was pleasantly surprised to see that it was me - he remembered me of course from our first session in 2006.

What a wonderful night that was. I couldn't believe I was spending all evening and all night with such a beautiful guy (beautiful both on the inside and outside; he had a lovely personality). I still remember details of some of the conversations we had that night, even all these years later. He spoke about his life, his family, his friends - and revealed to me that he had a son to a girl he used to date and that he'd be buying him a present with some of the cash that I was giving him for the session.  The best thing about that night for me was cuddling up to him and going to sleep with him. I've never done that with an escort since. Waking up to him the next morning, him still sleeping on his side, and my head pressed against his back, was so good. 

That would be the last time I saw Andrew. About a year later I heard that on 11 May 2008, Andrew passed away from an overdose of the 'chemsex' drug GHB. Though I had only met him on two occasions, and that we had met on the understanding that our relationship was purely transactional, I was heartbroken. He had a profound effect on me. I must confess that his handsome looks and his down to earth personality were to blame for a bit of an infatuation with him. I was terribly upset at the news, and to this day whenever I think of Andrew's passing (at age 21), my heart feels a unique pain.

Andrew was my first hire. He taught me that gay male escorts provide a quality and professional service. He quashed any notions that I might have had that sex workers are not decent people, with his kindness. He allowed me to be more sexually free and to feel good about being so, by showing me certain things that I had not tried before. He gave me companionship when I needed it, on two occasions. And I did need it. He satisfied all my sexual and emotional wants and needs, twice. He opened my eyes to the fact that escorts don't just sell sex, but also affection and intimacy. To this day I enjoy the services of professional providers, and I have my initial experiences with Andrew to thank for that. 

Here is one of his modeling photos which I think he used on his Gaydar escort profile: 

 

Moderators' note: Photo removed because we don't allow posting non-public photos. 

 

Thank you for your story about Andrew.  I don’t remember his ad, but I understand the pain you felt.

[sjmuktop]

2 hours ago, HoseMaster said:

Thank you for your story about Andrew.  I don’t remember his ad, but I understand the pain you felt.

@HoseMaster Thank you - that means a lot.

I still think about him every now and then even after all these years. 

He advertised in the 'Commercial' section of Gaydar in 2006 and 2007, but I think by the time of his death in 2008 he had been finished escorting for quite a while. I'm really not sure, but I think he may have stopped in 2007.

The porn scenes he did for Eurocreme were produced in 2005 and 2006, so I think he may have been escorting in 2005 as well. But again, I don't know. All I know is that he definitely had a Gaydar Commercial profile in late 2006 and in early 2007.

His best friend 'Robbie G' (who also starred in a few Eurocreme titles including 'SoldierBoy' in the same scene as Andrew) was also an escort, and I met him at the flat in Barbican during my first session with Andrew. 

I also know that one of Andrew's regular clients was a Member of Parliament (who still has his seat in the House of Commons today). 

[m4same]

This story is a nice tribute. Thanks for sharing it.

[+ Coolwave35]

What a beautiful story. Thanks for sharing it. 

[uclablueyes]

On 9/10/2021 at 6:53 PM, sjmuktop said:

There have been a couple of posts recently in which the subject matter prompted me to mention the fact that I hired my first escort when I was only 18-years-old, namely the 'Forum Census'  and  'At 81.. am I the oldest client on here?'. I thought I would make a post about it for anyone who might be interested. 

The first time meeting Andrew was at the tail end of 2006, in late December I think. The reason I'm almost certain about the date is that I remember picking up a copy of the London Evening Standard upon my arrival in London that night at St Pancras station, which had news on the front page that Saddam Hussein's execution had been scheduled (or maybe even taken place, I don't remember. Saddam was executed on the 30th, anyway).

At 19-years-old, Andrew was a year older than me. I'd found and viewed his escort profile on a website called 'Gaydar' (which still exists but is nowhere near as popular as it once was) and contacted him. His pictures were awesome. He was the most beautiful lad I had ever seen. As well as escorting, he worked in gay porn; if you want to see Andrew 'in action' today, all you need to do is watch 'RudeBoiz',  'BikeBoy', 'SoldierBoy' or 'Penthouse Sex Party' - produced by Eurocreme. 

I met Andrew in the shared flat he was staying in at the time just literally right around the corner from Barbican tube station. I won't go into the intricate details of what took place during our session, but it was fantastic. After that session I was so happy. I didn't at all feel like I had wasted money - despite the fact that at that age I didn't have a lot of it. I enjoyed my time with Andrew so much that I ended up meeting him a second time, for an overnight session, in early or mid-2007. He came to meet me at the hotel I was staying at just around the corner from Victoria station. I always remember that I had arranged the session from my new number and that I didn't tell him that I was the client. So when he knocked on my hotel room door and I opened it, he was pleasantly surprised to see that it was me - he remembered me of course from our first session in 2006.

What a wonderful night that was. I couldn't believe I was spending all evening and all night with such a beautiful guy (beautiful both on the inside and outside; he had a lovely personality). I still remember details of some of the conversations we had that night, even all these years later. He spoke about his life, his family, his friends - and revealed to me that he had a son to a girl he used to date and that he'd be buying him a present with some of the cash that I was giving him for the session.  The best thing about that night for me was cuddling up to him and going to sleep with him. I've never done that with an escort since. Waking up to him the next morning, him still sleeping on his side, and my head pressed against his back, was so good. 

That would be the last time I saw Andrew. About a year later I heard that on 11 May 2008, Andrew passed away from an overdose of the 'chemsex' drug GHB. Though I had only met him on two occasions, and that we had met on the understanding that our relationship was purely transactional, I was heartbroken. He had a profound effect on me. I must confess that his handsome looks and his down to earth personality were to blame for a bit of an infatuation with him. I was terribly upset at the news, and to this day whenever I think of Andrew's passing (at age 21), my heart feels a unique pain.

Andrew was my first hire. He taught me that gay male escorts provide a quality and professional service. He quashed any notions that I might have had that sex workers are not decent people, with his kindness. He allowed me to be more sexually free and to feel good about being so, by showing me certain things that I had not tried before. He gave me companionship when I needed it, on two occasions. And I did need it. He satisfied all my sexual and emotional wants and needs, twice. He opened my eyes to the fact that escorts don't just sell sex, but also affection and intimacy. To this day I enjoy the services of professional providers, and I have my initial experiences with Andrew to thank for that. 

Here is one of his modeling photos which I think he used on his Gaydar escort profile: 

 

Moderators' note: Photo removed because we don't allow posting non-public photos. 

 

What a beautiful story. Thanks so much for sharing