Weekend Escort

[Guest kelso1600]

I have never hired an escort for a weekend and would like some advice on fees and other issues to discuss in advance to make sure that the "chemistry" is right and both of us have a good time.

 

Am thinking of some place that I consider nice such as Las Vegas or Hilton Head. Time period would be approximately sixty hours.

 

Naturally, I would discuss in advance my sexual preferences, personal preferences for eating and enjoying free time, provide a photo and answer any questions. What specific issues should be covered since I imagine it is much more important that the "chemistry" be right for a weekend than it is for an hour of sex. (It may not be possible to meet the escort in advance.)

 

Fees seem to be all over the place for weekends. Any ideas of what is an appropriate fee for a weekend of sixty hours that is not being cheap but yet is not being extravagant. (This would be in addition to expenses but not gambling money if we go to Las Vegas.)

 

Any other comments or suggestions would be appreciated.

[Guest regulation]

If it isn't possible to spend some time with the escort in advance, then don't hire him for the weekend. There is no way to tell from a telephone conversation whether or not you and he are sufficiently compatible that you would enjoy spending a weekend together, and if you find that you are not you will have spent a good deal of money in order to have a very unpleasant experience.

 

There are many escorts who can show someone a good time for an hour or so even though they don't find him attractive or interesting. There are few who can do that for an entire night. There are very, very few who can do it for an entire weekend. Most escorts are young guys who drifted into this sort of thing because they couldn't find other means of making money. As you've seen from the reviews on this site, a lot of them have trouble meeting the most basic expectations of a client for a very short time. Don't commit to spend a lot of time and money on one of them until you know he can live up to your expectations.

[Traveller]

I absolutely agree with regulation. I would never hire anyone for more than one hour before testing them for that hour prior. Too much of a gamble. I take a lot of risks, but I like the odds as much on my side as possible.

 

Take, for instance, Serg. I flew him down to Munich from Berlin because I had already seen him in Berlin. It was originally for one day, but he stayed an extra day because it turned out we were having a great time. This is probably the only time when I'll counsel something conservative. Less is better in the beginning.

 

Later.

[Guest Starbuc999]

I agree you should try him before hireing him for a weekend. But if you decide to give it a try here are some ideas. $1000 a day should be enough for anyone and more than enough for some. Ask for a 60 hour price and negitiate. Pay as little as possible up front and make it clear that he wont get the final, largest, payment until the end. Or you might pay in instalments as you go along. In general, bottoms and versitiles (if there is such a noun) are more accomodating than tops and thus are usually easier to get along with. Many tops are nice guys, but in the nature of things are more dominant and more set in their ways.

[Bilbo]

LAST EDITED ON Oct-06-00 AT 01:47PM (EST)[p]I know that most drag queens are tops in bed and that dqs are rated among the most effective of us at bitchiness; (A semicolon, gasp!) however, I've often seen them beaten by piss elegant guys and the occaisional pushy twink, whose mouths know no equal, perhaps. And my impression is that most of those are bottoms.

[Guest cleverock]

The conventional eisdom of taking a "test drive" has a flaw in it. Someone who's fine for sex and a little conversation may not be the ideal companion for a weekend. All you do is rule out obvious losers and incompatibility problems---and the reviews here can accomplish a lot of that without the expense of a "test drive". I've had a couple long term experiences with guys who were great for an hour or so, but not so great for a longer term and the short-time experience really didn't provide an inkling of of this. On the other hand, the "test drive" will establish who you are so that the escort will be less wary of you than if yyou contact them cold as a weekender.

 

Consider also that your destination will place some constraints on what you can do together and what kind of shape the escort will be in---Vegas is an easy shuttle from SF, LA or SD. It's a long flight, possibly with connections from the other side of the country. Hilton Head could pose similar problems and if you fly into Savannah, there's a fairly lengthy (and dull) ride to factor-in.

 

Many of the "established", "name" escorts routinely do overnights and weekenders---look and see if their reviews include examples of this. they should be more accustomed to this sort of thing. Beyond that, you might ask them if they're familiar with the destination--have places they like to go; what they like to do, etc.---establish some non-sex activities and have the opportunity to get a sense of them. The good ones will be trying to chevck you out, too.

[Guest fixtopia]

This is really a great question. I have wanted to hire several escorts, based on their reviews here and conversations with them, for the weekend. Though at the last moment I think twice and decide against it. The reasons are the same as many have already listed.

 

I will bring some fine escort in for the weekend, spend all this money then we won't click. That concerns me quite a bit. Also, I am wondering what I will do with this escort during the non-sexual hours... will we have anything at all in common?

 

And as you mentioned their fees are all over the map. I have found that somewhere between 1,400 - 2,000. would be an appropriate amount to pay for two nights / 3 days. Yet, as I mentioned I have been very hesitant to do so sa I am affraid that the magic, even with escorts I hire regularly, would not last more than a few hours at best.

 

I hope that some escorts will contribute to this thread. I would really appreciate you sharing your felings about weekends with clients, first time or not, with us. Thanks.

[Guest Nice Guy]

Gosh.... everyone is so pesimistic. I only do overnights and weekends(2nights,3days)for starters.

However, I do do my homework. The reviews ARE important. Getting a feeling for conversation, relaxation and interests can be covered by Emails and phone conversations long before hand. I had one escort require some pre-meeting time over the phone and through Emails. This has worked really well for both parties.

Maybe I have been just lucky. Some have been better than others. But none were duds I couldn't get through 2 nights with. Remember you are setting the pace and the agenda. If you need time to yourself, or want to take a nap. Just say so... the guy can usually fill a few hours doing something. See a movie, go shoping, take a walk in the city. Just tell him you have stuff to do and he will survive. You don't have to entertain him for 24 hours each day. After all, he is the one who is supposed to be "working". So again, read the reviews, and start chating. And most of all enjoy their company. They usually have something interesting to say.

Good hunting! NG

[HooBoy]

Great advice, NG.

 

As Stephan from Las Vegas told me, "we all have to eat." What a nice way to meet someone if he has isn't booked and is hungry. As long as its specified, it's just a hour of "getting to knw you, getting to know all about you. Getting to like you, hoping you like me or at least the food!

But actually, I will go on the reviews and phone calls, stool sample, blood test, yetI usally stick with the guys who have good rep and hope that the escort doesn't bring some pal along who I have entertain, as well :-)

 

Email: HooBoy@male4malescorts.com

[Guest Quinte]

RE: NiceGuy

 

:-)

 

 

Quinte DuSoleil

http://www.nubiandreams.com

[Guest gr8guy]

Great advice from all of the previous posters. And I'd like to add a thought that I have been considering lately:

 

I think that there are two types of good escorts: 'studs' and 'courtesans' - for lack of better titles.

 

A 'stud' is an escort who is fantastic looking and great in bed. A sex machine who does all he is supposed to do and does it very well. He's usually a totally buffed out guy who spends many hours in the gym each day perfecting his body. He's a wonder to behold, but perhaps not the brightest bulb in the pack. He is lacking in conversational skills, so gets right down to business. Don't expect a dissertation on the role of the US in global economic development, for instance. His strong points are more physical than cerebral.

 

A 'courtesan', on the other hand, is a fantastic conversationalist and is charming to boot. He is responsive to your needs in many ways and takes his lead from you. In my experience, these guys are in a creative field and are using their escorting to fund their creative lives. (Once artists starved in garrets, now they have listings on AOL.) With them, the sex may only be secondary to the total pleasure of being with someone who is stimulating in so many ways. That is not to say that they aren't handsome and buffed. But it's not just their pecs that are well-rounded.

 

I would take this into consideration when you gauge who would be a good weekend companion. There may be an excellent review for a 'stud', but you may find that a 'courtesan' would be a better match for several days.

 

Why not take one of each?

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

gr8guy ,

 

You are pretty much right on about the two types, by my lights.

 

 

keslo1600

 

Go with the 'courtesan' unless your superman or HooBoy in his prime. Sixty hours is a lot of time and you want to be engaged most of it so get someone you can experience on different levels -- and if you are superman and a single level suffices, forget my advice!!

[Guest Nice Guy]

Boy... the two kinds... sounds like Quinte, all rolled into one

and I do know just a few others Mister. Derek C. is another one, and Rod Hagen is right up there. And of course my Brett Silvers. I intend to find out if Scott Matthews fits the bill this winter. Take care NG

[Guest SFJEFF]

I also agree on the two types. One of my favorites, Federico from Miami fits into the first category. I been with him on many many weekends. It was fun, but his ego did get in the way occasionally. Now if you really want a fun weekend, pick either the second type or a combination of the two. For me that is Derek Colten. He is very intelligent and gorgeous all rolled into one.